NuevaVida
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ORIGINAL: playfulotter What a neat looking cat you have NuevaVida! My kitty is sleeping right now...a few hours ago the FedEx man knocked on my door and she freaked out and ran and hid under the bed...She hasn't done that in ages....Here is a photo of her that is most recent...oops..sorry photo was a bit big! Aw thanks, otter! Your kitty is beautiful and what a great hang-out place she has! dovie Viktor used to do that a lot - the whole pounce, bite/scratch, and run thing. I feared he was getting more aggressive so I did a lot of Googling on cat behavior. What I learned was really simple. Establish being boss of the house by paying attention to when he normally plays (he has a collection of mice he likes to bat around), and then about 5 minutes before he's "scheduled" to do that, initiate play with him myself. Then decide when play is over. I also started to read his body language and facial expressions, to predict when he might pounce-n-run, and I snap my fingers near his face and say "No" rather firmly when I see this, or I just scoop him up and lay him on his side, with my arm gently holding him (in dog-whisperer "calm submissive" fashion). In fact, periodically I lay him down like that just for kicks, as a reminder of who's boss. When he does do the pounce-n-run, I've gotten to the point where I'm able to catch him in mid pounce, and yep - down he goes, in the lay-down-on-your-side-with-your-head-down" position, with a "No" and then I make sure my energy is really calm. I keep him like that until he starts purring. I don't give him a lot of attention or talk to him much when I'm holding him like that - just a "good boy" about every 30 seconds or so. I probably keep him in that position for about a minute or two. If I can't catch him mid-pounce, I do go after him, not in an irritated way, and not saying anything to him. I just follow him and pull him from his hiding, and down he goes lol. Where he used to do this every night, now it's maybe once a week, at most. I make sure I have "calm energy" with him. I also never let him bite, even play-bite. When he does, I snap my fingers and say "No" and if he doesn't stop I peel his mouth away, then hold him and reassure him, saying "That's better." I have had to pry his mouth away before, as he latches on tightly even with play bites. Now I say "No" and he lets go, and I praise him to the hilt. I also keep canned air near the bed. He likes to meow at one of my pictures when I'm sleeping, so I spray the air. He also used to hop on my dresser and knock things off (to get my attention) so a spray of the air has stopped that. I hope some of this helps. I've noticed a remarkable difference in his behavior just from these simple actions.
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