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RE: I Walk the Line ... but where is it?? - 12/7/2006 8:07:30 AM

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I've spent years of my life shedding myself of expectations. Erasing lines is the goal, not drawing them.

I loved this. I came back and read it again because I really relate to this.

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RE: I Walk the Line ... but where is it?? - 12/7/2006 8:11:08 AM

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I've spent years of my life shedding myself of expectations. Erasing lines is the goal, not drawing them.

I loved this. I came back and read it again because I really relate to this.

I dunno, for me erasing lines isn't a goal for me...it just seems to be how it happens. I never SOUGHT an open poly bi slut switch life for myself.

I'd be happy as the whitest vanillaist monogamous relationship in the world...if it was who I was. And I actually think my life IS pretty boring and basic.

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RE: I Walk the Line ... but where is it?? - 12/7/2006 8:20:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble
I've spent years of my life shedding myself of expectations. Erasing lines is the goal, not drawing them.

I loved this. I came back and read it again because I really relate to this.

I dunno, for me erasing lines isn't a goal for me...it just seems to be how it happens. I never SOUGHT an open poly bi slut switch life for myself.

I'd be happy as the whitest vanillaist monogamous relationship in the world...if it was who I was. And I actually think my life IS pretty boring and basic.

Erasing lines and shedding expectations is what I have been learning to do in my slavery to my Master, which is why I relate to it so well. And the more I shed and erase, the more content I seem to find myself. There are much less hang ups to think about, for sure. But you mention "...if it was who I was." I can't argue that. Who I am, however, is someone who needs no lines between my Master and I. After spending a lot of energy fighting that, I realized this and let go, I began to find the peace and happiness I was looking for. Removing those barriers has made me strong as hell in my every day life too, and able to overcome that which would have dropped me in previous years.

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RE: I Walk the Line ... but where is it?? - 12/7/2006 3:13:55 PM

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Erasing lines and shedding expectations is what I have been learning to do in my slavery to my Master, which is why I relate to it so well. And the more I shed and erase, the more content I seem to find myself. There are much less hang ups to think about, for sure. But you mention "...if it was who I was." I can't argue that. Who I am, however, is someone who needs no lines between my Master and I. After spending a lot of energy fighting that, I realized this and let go, I began to find the peace and happiness I was looking for. Removing those barriers has made me strong as hell in my every day life too, and able to overcome that which would have dropped me in previous years.

I have to agree a lot with this. I think its one of the main reasons I find discussions on boundaries, limits, insane owners, and such just really counterproductive and silly. I'm not about to get all worried about what happens if my owner goes insane and wants to remove my nipples and clit and thus I must set up all these boundaries to protect me. Thats really the counter opposite of what I care or focus on. I really think its just a strong difference between what the focus is on in a long term slavery and in other constructs/dynamics (or for single people).

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RE: I Walk the Line ... but where is it?? - 12/7/2006 3:24:36 PM

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So what we're saying is that we're all.."natural" about pushing limits?

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