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RE: Help displaying - 4/21/2009 5:11:18 PM   
ncbabe


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Status: offline 		Thanks to everyone for their comments and advice.  I have displayed for him now.  My face was hidden at all times and there were no personal items in the background.  And although I was nervous at first he did in fact guide me and I was very comfortable with what I was doing.

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RE: Help displaying - 4/21/2009 5:12:06 PM   
camille65


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From: Austin Texas
Status: offline 		Hey I'm glad it turned out well!

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RE: Help displaying - 4/21/2009 7:06:34 PM   
angelic


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Status: offline 		Deleted... too late.   

< Message edited by angelic -- 4/21/2009 7:07:28 PM >

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RE: Help displaying - 4/21/2009 7:11:19 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: catize

He “owns” you but you have never met.  I wouldn’t agree to be owned by someone I’ve never seen in person.  I certainly would not display myself sexually on cam at this juncture.
He needs to be willing to meet you in real life.  Sorry, but your scenario makes me think he is just looking to get off on cam.
Trust, but verify…..and if he doesn’t like it, big indication he has no intentions of moving this to real time.


Ayepper.....couldn't have said it better.

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RE: Help displaying - 4/21/2009 7:22:42 PM   
SailingBum


Posts: 3225
Joined: 12/10/2007
From: Sailin the stormy sea
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

quote:

ORIGINAL: catize

He “owns” you but you have never met.  I wouldn’t agree to be owned by someone I’ve never seen in person.  I certainly would not display myself sexually on cam at this juncture.
He needs to be willing to meet you in real life.  Sorry, but your scenario makes me think he is just looking to get off on cam.
Trust, but verify…..and if he doesn’t like it, big indication he has no intentions of moving this to real time.


Ayepper.....couldn't have said it better.



My guess is there are both looking to get off in cyber land.  She agreed to the cyber wankfest.  Neither of them may want to go "real time".  Why do lots of folks blame the "dom" when it take 2 to tango?  No really it's not the story of the big bad wolf eating the girl as the girl is half the relationship 

BadOne


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RE: Help displaying - 4/21/2009 7:29:13 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

quote:

ORIGINAL: catize

He “owns” you but you have never met.  I wouldn’t agree to be owned by someone I’ve never seen in person.  I certainly would not display myself sexually on cam at this juncture.
He needs to be willing to meet you in real life.  Sorry, but your scenario makes me think he is just looking to get off on cam.
Trust, but verify…..and if he doesn’t like it, big indication he has no intentions of moving this to real time.


Ayepper.....couldn't have said it better.



My guess is there are both looking to get off in cyber land.  She agreed to the cyber wankfest.  Neither of them may want to go "real time".  Why do lots of folks blame the "dom" when it take 2 to tango?  No really it's not the story of the big bad wolf eating the girl as the girl is half the relationship 

BadOne



(Equally well said!)

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RE: Help displaying - 4/22/2009 5:49:45 AM   
ncbabe


Posts: 1060
Joined: 4/19/2009
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

My guess is there are both looking to get off in cyber land.  She agreed to the cyber wankfest.  Neither of them may want to go "real time".  Why do lots of folks blame the "dom" when it take 2 to tango?  No really it's not the story of the big bad wolf eating the girl as the girl is half the relationship 

BadOne



Thanks for pointing this out.  I am not looking for it to become real time.  I know he may just be getting off on it, but I'm doing this for what I get out of it and as long as we're both aware of what this is then I don't see a problem.

< Message edited by ncbabe -- 4/22/2009 5:52:26 AM >

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RE: Help displaying - 4/22/2009 6:59:41 AM   
catize


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

quote:

ORIGINAL: catize

He “owns” you but you have never met.  I wouldn’t agree to be owned by someone I’ve never seen in person.  I certainly would not display myself sexually on cam at this juncture.
He needs to be willing to meet you in real life.  Sorry, but your scenario makes me think he is just looking to get off on cam.
Trust, but verify…..and if he doesn’t like it, big indication he has no intentions of moving this to real time.


Ayepper.....couldn't have said it better.



My guess is there are both looking to get off in cyber land.  She agreed to the cyber wankfest.  Neither of them may want to go "real time".  Why do lots of folks blame the "dom" when it take 2 to tango?  No really it's not the story of the big bad wolf eating the girl as the girl is half the relationship 

BadOne

 
If I could be eaten in cyber-land I might have to consider buying a web cam!


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RE: Help displaying - 4/27/2009 11:31:36 AM   
GYPZYQUEEN


Posts: 730
Joined: 4/14/2009
Status: offline 		IF something feels wrong  it is ..if you have reservations.. think..if you have  doubts..why..?
FOLLOW your intuition...
A  DOM needs to make an effort to do more than say "not worry"..
when someone is about to strip and be totatlly vulnerable..

He needs a good spanking

and I agree with Kirata..
"he is doing fucking nothing"

no guidance...not NEGOTIATING..????


< Message edited by GYPZYQUEEN -- 4/27/2009 11:33:16 AM >

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