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Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 5:52:15 AM   
property4forcpl


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Status: offline 		Does tributing someone make them genuine?????????
I DON'T think so....................
All it proves is stupidity.
Anyone can make a profile, upload fake pic's, etc.
So how does it make one genuine??????????
Don't get Me wrong, as a slave all(and i do mean ALL) my money,posessions,heart,mind,body and soul, will become the property of My new owner/s.
Does a slave/sub need to be rich and foolish to be genuine????????
I know i have set a cat among pigeons, and await the obvious flack i will recieve.
It really infuriates me when people question my genuineness in this way. Give the real ones a chance please.
Oh and while we are on the subject...................... re-location................................. Oh no...... dont get me started on that bag of worms LOL
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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 6:12:32 AM   
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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 6:14:02 AM   
RRafe


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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 6:16:57 AM   
RCdc


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Isn't yawning catching?
I read the other day that those that yawn on the piggy back of others, also have high empathy.  Just another piece of useless information brought to you by the cm message board.
 
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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 6:24:48 AM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		um no they are there for a service and that is it. some do care not all of them  sometimes you have to wonder who is domming who lol

< Message edited by LATEXBABY64 -- 9/28/2007 6:25:16 AM >

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 6:25:21 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		Gold diggers for sure but Hey a girl has to make a living...

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 6:34:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		Here we go again....

It's simple.  If you don't want to pay, then don't.   If you do want to, then do.  

Get over the fact that when you're on an online site, MOST of the people you come across aren't people that interest you, for whatever reason. 

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 6:36:15 AM   
chiaThePet


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Status: offline 		Pigeons eh?

Well ya know what pigeons do best don't ya?

Look out below!

Tribute comes in many forms and is defined in many ways.

One has the choice to accept such, or not.

Choices, make them.

Pissing and moaning about such simply makes you look like a genuine worm.

Pigeons? Worms?

Look out below!

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 6:38:54 AM   
RRafe


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

um no they are there for a service and that is it. some do care not all of them  sometimes you have to wonder who is domming who lol


Uh huh........if I was being paid to play with someone...I'd definitely be on the bottom.

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 6:42:44 AM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		i wonder if pro subbies make more money  lol

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 6:44:25 AM   
RRafe


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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

i wonder if pro subbies make more money  lol


Hard to say. Know any who aren't desperate for attention?

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 6:45:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		Gold diggers male and female alike have existed since the beginning of time and I doubt they will cease to exist any time soon. Pro's do it for the money, they don't do it as a community service they want your cash. Either pay or don't. It is really that easy.

What makes a slave genuine in my opinion? Humility, honesty, loyalty, and obedience to their owner. Thats just my opinion.

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 7:04:09 AM   
greyarcher315


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Status: offline 		i can see both sides of this.  Tribute can be used as a test, to see how real someone is, but it also can be abused.  i would be willing to pay tribute if i had been talking to someone for a while, , and knew they were more interested in me than my money. On the other hand, if some one starts in on the money right away, forget it.  Let's face it, it would be easier if all the fakes just went away, but that won't happen, so this may be the best option to weed them out.
   And what's wrong with relocating? i wouldn't do it lightly, but if you are at a point in yur life where moving would be easy, i don't see a problem. Of course, i would want to meet the Domme before packing up and moving,
  Of course, this is all just my point of view, so take it for what it's worth.

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 7:14:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		Tributes to a person one has never met seem to be a con... why not meet and find out if there is any spark before talking about finances?

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 7:17:18 AM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		funny thing of it is everything in this lifestyle is an investment. you only get out of something what you put in to it

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 7:26:11 AM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		To reiterate, some are genuine, some are not....you have to remember also, there are just as many fakes on both sides of the kneel, and there are a lot that say that when they become yada yada yada, their property will become yada yada yada,and try to string a domme along for wanks, etc. till they have to put up or shut up, then guess what, they dissappear.  There are dommes that are genuine that require tribute up front for that and other reasons, and there are fakes out to get your money. 

You, as an adult, are expected to either try to be able to ascertain the difference, or find one that does not require it.  Sorry, that means wasting your time READING  profiles, some of which are long and will waste your time if you don't want to invest the time to read them.

*shrugs*

edited to add:  Do you find this as much of a problem on your other profiles, or just this one?

< Message edited by kc692 -- 9/28/2007 7:28:19 AM >

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 7:27:45 AM   
RRafe


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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

funny thing of it is everything in this lifestyle is an investment. you only get out of something what you put in to it


True, but it's the thieves that one must be wary of.

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 7:46:59 AM   
amelliagrace


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ORIGINAL: property4forcpl

Does tributing someone make them genuine?????????
I DON'T think so....................
All it proves is stupidity.
Anyone can make a profile, upload fake pic's, etc.
So how does it make one genuine??????????
Don't get Me wrong, as a slave all(and i do mean ALL) my money,posessions,heart,mind,body and soul, will become the property of My new owner/s.
Does a slave/sub need to be rich and foolish to be genuine????????
I know i have set a cat among pigeons, and await the obvious flack i will recieve.
It really infuriates me when people question my genuineness in this way. Give the real ones a chance please.
Oh and while we are on the subject...................... re-location................................. Oh no...... dont get me started on that bag of worms LOL

 
If you are unable to wade through all the crap and narrow it down to a possibility or two that have potential forYOU, then how are you ever going to find someone to comfortably give yourself to?  Even if tribute wasn't in the equation, you would still have to sift through plenty of dreck to find a few gems.  Once you did, MAYBE one of them would actually be a good match for you.  Discouraging, yeah, but that is just the way it is.
 
You might want to give some thought to "The top ten indicators that someone is totally wrong for me", and implement them into your screening process.  You said, " Does a slave/sub need to be rich and foolish to be genuine???????? "  Of course not.  I can only speak for myself, but a demand for "tribute' would go right at the top of that list - as would someone looking to live with me as my 24/7 responsibility who wasn't bringing anything to the table.  Gold digging goes both ways, and is not exclusive to either "Dominants" or "Submissives".
 
And now for an unsolicited opinion regarding money.  You said, "  Don't get Me wrong, as a slave all(and i do mean ALL) my money,posessions,heart,mind,body and soul, will become the property of My new owner/s.
Does a slave/sub need to be rich and foolish to be genuine????????"Even if you believe with your whole heart that you have found the person you want to own you, lock, stock, and barrell, make sure you have access to enough cash to be able to walk out that door should you need to.  Yes, I know all those arguments about "a slave is a slave and once they enter My domain they may only leave at my discretion and with nothing".  It is worth considering that there is a greater degree of committment needed to stay, knowing you can leave, than there is in staying, knowing you can't.  Keep those funds in a safe deposit box, with an attorney, burried somewhere, with your parents (if they are trust worthy).  If you find the right Partner, then over time you may choose to do away with that escape option.  To go in without one, IMO, is just plain nuts.  Trust is something that grows, increasing over time.  To blindly trust beyond all reason, right from moment one of R/T, isn't necessarily a good thing, nor is it necessary to grow a quality relationship.
 
There are certainly more opinions than mine around here, you are not me, so the shoe may fit your differently.
 
-grace, "A glass slipper has no give."

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 7:53:46 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Yawn...Tributes are essential part of keeping a well fed Domme fat and happy....Do you think they actually possess any skills that could make them any type of a valued commodity in the real world?....Give and give often!!...a Pro Domme is a horrible thing to watch waste away!!!

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 8:28:30 AM   
property4forcpl


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ORIGINAL: PoeticPrincess

Tributes to a person one has never met seem to be a con... why not meet and find out if there is any spark before talking about finances?

Problem is most who say they are "lifestyle" want tribute just to talk. No chance to meet beforehand.

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