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amelliagrace -> RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? (9/28/2007 7:46:59 AM)
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ORIGINAL: property4forcpl Does tributing someone make them genuine????????? I DON'T think so.................... All it proves is stupidity. Anyone can make a profile, upload fake pic's, etc. So how does it make one genuine?????????? Don't get Me wrong, as a slave all(and i do mean ALL) my money,posessions,heart,mind,body and soul, will become the property of My new owner/s. Does a slave/sub need to be rich and foolish to be genuine???????? I know i have set a cat among pigeons, and await the obvious flack i will recieve. It really infuriates me when people question my genuineness in this way. Give the real ones a chance please. Oh and while we are on the subject...................... re-location................................. Oh no...... dont get me started on that bag of worms LOL If you are unable to wade through all the crap and narrow it down to a possibility or two that have potential forYOU, then how are you ever going to find someone to comfortably give yourself to? Even if tribute wasn't in the equation, you would still have to sift through plenty of dreck to find a few gems. Once you did, MAYBE one of them would actually be a good match for you. Discouraging, yeah, but that is just the way it is. You might want to give some thought to "The top ten indicators that someone is totally wrong for me", and implement them into your screening process. You said, " Does a slave/sub need to be rich and foolish to be genuine???????? " Of course not. I can only speak for myself, but a demand for "tribute' would go right at the top of that list - as would someone looking to live with me as my 24/7 responsibility who wasn't bringing anything to the table. Gold digging goes both ways, and is not exclusive to either "Dominants" or "Submissives". And now for an unsolicited opinion regarding money. You said, " Don't get Me wrong, as a slave all(and i do mean ALL) my money,posessions,heart,mind,body and soul, will become the property of My new owner/s. Does a slave/sub need to be rich and foolish to be genuine????????"Even if you believe with your whole heart that you have found the person you want to own you, lock, stock, and barrell, make sure you have access to enough cash to be able to walk out that door should you need to. Yes, I know all those arguments about "a slave is a slave and once they enter My domain they may only leave at my discretion and with nothing". It is worth considering that there is a greater degree of committment needed to stay, knowing you can leave, than there is in staying, knowing you can't. Keep those funds in a safe deposit box, with an attorney, burried somewhere, with your parents (if they are trust worthy). If you find the right Partner, then over time you may choose to do away with that escape option. To go in without one, IMO, is just plain nuts. Trust is something that grows, increasing over time. To blindly trust beyond all reason, right from moment one of R/T, isn't necessarily a good thing, nor is it necessary to grow a quality relationship. There are certainly more opinions than mine around here, you are not me, so the shoe may fit your differently. -grace, "A glass slipper has no give."
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