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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 3:13:47 PM   
xoxi


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Status: offline 		Yes tribute does make someone genuine.

It means they are genuinely interested in scheduling a session with a Pro Domme.  As a professional I don't use sites like this one (too many competitors working for free LOL) but even on 'pro' sites I am bombarded by fucktards that just want to talk for an hour about their fantasies.  For free.  With no intention of scheduling a session.

Time=money.  You want my professional time? You pay my professional salary.

For non pros or at least those who claim to be - tribute should be less of an issue...more a voluntary thing when someone likes you enough to give it than an expectation up front.

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 5:01:13 PM   
onlyHisgirl


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Status: offline 		Dude,

When i was looking for a Domme awhile back...(what?  i like girls, they are pretty) anyway...some of those "dommes" contacted me asking for tribute...i let them have it and then blocked them. :-)
i'm sorry, but if anyone is going to get paid for having sex or serving..it's gonna be me cause i'm the one that wants to be treated like a whore!  Sheesh, these women just don't get it and most were blondes <shaking head>

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 5:15:40 PM   
Decimus


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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

I'd be asking for videogames.  "Do you want me as your Mistress, little one?  SWEET GO BUY ME SILENT HILL 5!!!!!"




I have to admit when I read this, I started cracking up! Sounds like the type of dommes I see myself with eventually, lol.

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 7:46:10 PM   
twistedwillow


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Status: offline 		I'm an agreeance with Mistress Sassy.
Changed my profile a while back to state that I wasn't a Pro-Domme but if you wanted me to provide wank material for you, then i expected payment for my 'work', since that day the number of  'do-me-subs'  has tapered off considerably. I'm willing to wait and be single ( and subless ) until i find the right rl submissive for me. No asked for tributes required, however my birthday is on .....

twisted

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 7:56:13 PM   
DocRudy


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Status: offline 		I personally don't put much stock or interest in the concept of tributes.

Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I'm a dominant guy and it would seem strange to demand tribute from a female slave? I don't know, but either way, it just sorta baffles me. Fetish I don't have, I guess.

-DR

Edit: Actual payment for professional services is a different matter though, of course.

< Message edited by DocRudy -- 9/28/2007 7:58:12 PM >

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 7:57:52 PM   
laurell3


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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

i wonder if pro subbies make more money  lol


LOL can't they just tie you up and take the money back and leave?
l

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RE: Does tribute=genuine? - 9/28/2007 10:32:41 PM   
amayos


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ORIGINAL: property4forcpl
Does tributing someone make them genuine? I DON'T think so.


If given in the right spirit, a tribute is merely a tribute—a gift to show admiration, affection or respect. It is when a tribute is given with conditions that it is no longer a tribute, but an ostentatious gesture to prostitute. Artifice resides on both sides of the mirror, as does authenticity in likewise measure.

In what spirit do you give? In what spirit does she take? Know thyself—and choose your direction wisely. That's the best recipe I know of for reaching the genuine.

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/28/2007 10:52:33 PM   
property4forcpl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xoxi

Yes tribute does make someone genuine.

It means they are genuinely interested in scheduling a session with a Pro Domme.  As a professional I don't use sites like this one (too many competitors working for free LOL) but even on 'pro' sites I am bombarded by fucktards that just want to talk for an hour about their fantasies.  For free.  With no intention of scheduling a session.

Time=money.  You want my professional time? You pay my professional salary.

For non pros or at least those who claim to be - tribute should be less of an issue...more a voluntary thing when someone likes you enough to give it than an expectation up front.



I totally agree. Pro Dommes are giving a service and should be recompensed. No argument there.
Once chatting to a Domme, talking on the phone/cam, and getting a feel for the chemistry, I have no qualms as to send a gift here and there. birthday gifts, or a new toy.   (awaits the hoard of goldiggers) lol.

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/29/2007 12:37:29 AM   
sundownhawk


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Status: offline 		If tribute equals cash to even talk then that is obviously a pro or wannabe pro. You want a relationship it sounds like, just move on.

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/29/2007 5:01:41 PM   
awmslave


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Status: offline 		I have no problems with pro dommes ads except when there is a deliberate confusion built in. I recommend the term "tribute" to be replaced with someting more concrete. It could be for example: the fee $200/hour.

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RE: Does tribute= genuine????????? - 9/29/2007 8:14:16 PM   
xoxi


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Status: offline 		awmslave that is a valid point, but unfortunately there are quite a few professional activities that Dommes do which could net us a prostitution charge.  "Tribute for time" sounds far more quasi-legal than "Services for fees."  At least in the US.

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