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RE: Is it wrong for a slave to have little intrest in sex? - 4/10/2007 9:36:00 AM

patina

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greetings nephandi

I understand the family upbringing stigma, i too was raised that sex was is taboo. My mother does not believe in it nor any of the females on her side. It is such a bad subject that a lot of the daughters end up pregnant due to not knowing what causes pregnancy. I learned about sex through an encyclopedia. My mother dropped the R encylopedia on the coffee table when i was 14 and said read the pages marked. I am considered a black sheep of the family. I am told i must have something wrong with me because i happen to want to learn to enjoy sex. I do not crave it and do not masterbate as i have no desire to, in fact it actually bores me. If i can't have a real dick to hell with it, my main goal though is to pleasure the Master not get my thrill.

You are lucky to have such a great Master and He to have you. I have read a lot of your post and have enjoyed them. I wish both of you two well wishes and much happiness.

be well

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RE: Is it wrong for a slave to have little intrest in sex? - 4/10/2007 9:40:41 AM

justplainjava

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Greetings
i dont think so sex has it place and time, but it is not the whole ball of wax, there has to be more that allowes the mind to open to explore,
that is just my opion
take care and be safe
java

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RE: Is it wrong for a slave to have little intrest in sex? - 4/10/2007 9:44:40 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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The willingness to please would be up there as far as I am concerned.

you would get pleasure in knowing you give please to a dom.

How it is done is inconcequencial to you.

If he chooses you to be a vehicle of pleasure through hedonistic pleasures than so be it.

If this does not float your boat..take a break..get some professional counceling and see what happens.

Sex is as natural as breathing....those that have a distain for it might have a tragic past or in a state of depression or chmical imbalance.

Good luck

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RE: Is it wrong for a slave to have little intrest in sex? - 4/10/2007 10:00:20 AM

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I think it ok if you don't desire sex or have a weak sex drive.Just as long as your owner gets what he wants...Even in marriage this happen often on both sides of the bed..Just an ol" masters view of this subject...bounty

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RE: Is it wrong for a slave to have little intrest in sex? - 4/10/2007 2:57:24 PM

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Unfortunately prozac is not one of the better one's but it is the best i have found to help with my periods of depression for many reasons. I will speak to my doctor again but i'm not sure a better solution will be found.

If Prozac works for your depression, keep it, though you might ask him if Aurorix (moclobemide) will be a viable alternative for you. It is sex-neutral, with fewer side effects. Changing over from Prozac to anything else is usually a hassle, though.

A better solution would be to ask him whether trying a dopamine agonist like cabergoline, or possibly bromocriptine, would be an option. If not, the best bet would probably be trying Intrinsa (testosterone patch; 300µg/24hrs).

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RE: Is it wrong for a slave to have little intrest in sex? - 4/10/2007 3:04:31 PM

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i have heard that adding wellbutrin to the mix can counteract the sexual side effects of the SSRI's - it's worth a try - good luck.

Adding anything dopaminergic to the mix is generally positive, as the main reason for the sexual side-effects would appear to be the downregulation of dopamine by SSRIs. (Grossly simplified.)

Wellbutrin (bupropion) is dopaminergic, as such, but it also increases norepinephrine and affects various other things... it also lowers the seizure threshold significantly, so if you've got epilepsy, or ar prone to cramps, it probably isn't the best idea.

To counteract the sex-drive effects, I would suggest something more specific to the dopamine system, like dopamine agonists (cabergoline, bromocriptine, etc.) or Survector (amineptine).

More generally, testosterone tends to have beneficial effects, but must be applied in lower doses than for men to avoid virilization. The Intrinsa patch has been made for this purpose, although Androgel could probably be used if applied in about 1/200th of the regular dose.

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