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Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 9:01:43 AM   
FukinTroll


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Status: offline 		I have been putting in some long hours on a project and now some new stuff came up that is going to keep me away for a while.
 
A friend of mine just lost his cousin to suicide. He is having a ruff time with it and is taking himself through the wringer on the what if's. He was speaking with him at a club last night and advised him to go home and sleep off the booze. He went home and stuck a shotgun in his mouth.
 
His cousin left behind 3 ums and an ex, please send your thoughts and prayers out to them.

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 9:14:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm very sorry to hear this, my prayers will be with you all.

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 9:18:38 AM   
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Please take care of yourself. I have grown very fond of your approach and your words (yeah, I am a lurker.)  You are a very sensitive creature, be careful what you expose yourself to. Take care of the needs of others, but remember that we can not be for others, if we do not take care of ourselves.

best!

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 9:19:26 AM   
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I am sorry to hear of the loss, thoughts and prays go out to you all.
 
~ misty ~

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 9:47:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		take care of yourself, FT, and accept my sincere condolences and wishes of healing to the family

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 9:51:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm so sorry to hear that :(

*sending you good thoughts and positive energy*




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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 10:04:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		Of course I will keep them in my prayers, and send you thoughts of strength so you can help them through this time.

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 10:06:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		       Ouch.  That's a great big kick in the balls for your friend.  My thoughts go out to him.  Those "what ifs" will tear you up.

     It was a co-worker who dropped a big load of them on me many years ago, I can only imagine how much worse it would be with a family member.  We can't hold ourselves responsible for the decisions of others, no matter how irrational or permanent those decisions might be.

     Suicide is the ultimate act of selfishness.  It's a great cruelty to the family and loved ones.  Your friend is a victim, he bears no blame.

    And it's perfectly ok to hate the person who did it.

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 10:11:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		Suicide ....
I often wondered if it was my fault.
    Wondered what could have been for them.
All I can say is carry on and move along.
    Pain is like a rot that turns all fruit black.
All drop from the vine if you don't
just tear away the dead branches.

Better to remember the good time.
Look up to the sky and smile warmly.
Then give them something to smile back about
as you live on happily as can be.
Letting them know its going to be ok.

Just never dwell on it for to long.
    Sorry ,bad memories.

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 10:11:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'll miss your post as well, good luck!
it's very difficult to go through something like this, there will be a lot of self blame. It will just have to talked out, the feelings acknowledged. The survivors are the ones who suffer in a suicide. Just being there listening will be a big help.
take care!

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 11:03:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		You are a good friend.  My thoughts and prayers go out
to the family and loved ones of this tragedy.

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 11:22:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		i will miss your posts :-(   but i have been here way more than i should and probably need to break free for a while myself and attend to life...
 
i will send positive energy and thoughts in their direction. i know too well and very personally what the family is feeling - infact just acknowledged the 2 year aniversary of my own loss this very month only days ago...
 
be well

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 2:59:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Dear sweet Troll, you know how to reach me, so if there is anything I can do just YELL.
 
My sympathy to you friends family, that is a rough one.

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 3:05:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		wow, troll...really sorry to hear about this. my thoughts and prayers are with your family and your friend's family.

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 3:50:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh my, am so sorry to read this.  
My prayers are with you and your friends.    M

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 3:51:41 PM   
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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 4:03:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thoughts and prayers for you, your friend, his cousin's 3 ums and ex.

Take care, will miss you & your slurps.




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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 8:12:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh, dear God. You, your friend, his cousin, and their family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 9:03:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hugs Troll and you, your friend and his cousin's ums and family are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care and I'll look forward to your return here. You will be missed and thought of for sure.

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RE: Going to be away for a bit - 3/18/2007 9:06:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Prayers will be with you Troll. Be well and send well to all that need it.

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