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Humilation - 3/2/2007 5:02:59 AM

sirjohn666

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Does any master, mistress or person know of a good humilation pic site, my sub as normal doesn't like something of her shown, i feel that to punish her is to submit the pics, any ideas, thanks

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 5:06:16 AM

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First I would be concerned how it would affect her for you to out her like that. Will it cause her family problems if someone see the pics? how about the loss of her job?

Second, humiliation is different for everyone, what I might find humiliating...someone else might not.

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 6:08:21 AM

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Yeah, that ought to develop her trust in you and make her want to be a better person. By all means, revel in the power that she, God knows why, has given you, while she gleans nothing positive from the experience. That's the way it works here.

I'm sure this will get your rocks off big time, but will be nothing of a learning experience for her, except that her 'master' is simply cruel and cares nothing about her security in a relationship. I bet she doesn't even have a clue what she's being punished for, or that whatever deed it was was one that even carried consequences.

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 7:19:43 AM

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quote:

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Does any master, mistress or person know of a good humilation pic site, my sub as normal doesn't like something of her shown, i feel that to punish her is to submit the pics, any ideas, thanks

I think it's a dumb idea.

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 7:34:48 AM

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Humiliation has fine lines between something someone consents to giving that emotion to you, and abuse by a heartless ass causing that emotion.
The side of the coin IMO you're on will prevent me from assisting you in damaging the spirit who's given her happiness for you to only pervert the trust afforded you.

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 7:35:47 AM

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Find another way to punish her - you'll be glad you did.

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 7:41:05 AM

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I read your profile. I'm glad you are in the UK and not the US.

Oh yeah. There are better ways to humiliate a submissive. Sounds like you've already found ways to do so with yours.

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 7:41:38 AM

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its times like these I thank god I am not collared to an idiot like this. Wonder how you would like it if I found some pics of you in a compromising position and posted them up somewhere. Wanker

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 7:42:31 AM

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So, you want to put pictures of her on the internet without her consent? Gee, nothing says "trust me with your life" like a betrayal of something that she considers important.

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 7:43:22 AM

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Perhaps he wanted to be humiliated himself and that's why he posted this thread? Just a random thought....

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 7:47:42 AM

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give me an idea of a humiliation pic and il post it!!! cos im well into humiliation but only for a stunningly powerful domme!

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 8:07:47 AM

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Do it. Pay not attention to this gaggle of gash....Release the hounds! Let the ramifications falll where they may.

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 8:10:47 AM

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Humiliation is perhaps the most distorted and fucked up thing that is played with commonly in BDSM.

Humiliating someone to keep them small, to permanently undermine their self esteem is wrong. In this case I think I am on common ground with most in saying there is one true way...

Don't get me wrong, I LOVE humiliation and it is very fucking hot for me. It took me years to learn how to do it so that it stayed hot, didn't undermine my girls self confidence, and when we were done she felt better than she did going in. There are two important tricks that many of us use. One is to learn where the triggers are, both good and bad. The second is to remember to bring them back from being a cheap whore to your cherished partner physically, mentally, and emotionally.

I think of humiliation as sort of an emotional basement with a big door off the living room. Often times it is quite hot to just mention the door is there, not quite as a threat but as one of those things you whisper in someone's ear. "Next time we go to PE, I am going to tie you up and let the towel boys cum all over you" as she nears climax can really make some women explode. How exactly you play that as always is pretty unique.

If you decide to go into that basement and do something real, even if it is just to have her talk about being your cumslut and sucking your cum up off the floor or whatever triggers you are playing with, have some idea of how you are going to bring her back.

I would type more but others can continue this better than I

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 8:34:53 AM

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Thanks for this Michael. It is on the same lines as my own theories, so I'm glad to hear it from someone who I beleive does actually have some experience.

As far as the OP, the horse is already dead.

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 8:56:51 AM

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*sighs*....I'm sorry I dont really have a place for you. I'm just more becoming more open to humiliation play and nothing really extreme, or potentially damaging to an over-sensitive type like me, but stuff that's embarrassing, makes you blush and tremble to think about is great if your with someone you trust.

I think I'll shy away from degrading names and stuff that just seems like it would make me feel bad about myself.

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 9:10:57 AM

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I think the OP just wants to post dirty pics of his girlfriend because it would be a wanking big turn-on for him. But he had a twinge of conscience, knowing she's dead against it. So, he justifies it by playing the "master" card, saying it's her "punishment"...and the infraction she commits is probably as trivial as shutting the door too hard, or dinner not tasting quite right to him.

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 9:16:47 AM

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*falls...what of "limits".... arent those respected by the doms?

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 9:20:58 AM

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I am on the fence about humiliation... I find it erotic but I don't think it's hot to undermine the subs confidence, or make her question herself. Oh well, practice makes perfect...

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 10:10:02 AM

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I love humiliation but Michael is right - if not done right it can be deeply damaging. One concern I always shared with my Master about pictures: He is in full control of them. But once out of his hands, he is no longer in control anymore. He has now given control to an unknown and there's no saying where things can go from there. He has given some to a very trusted source, simply because he wanted to share them, but that's different than posting them to the entire internet population, assuming you do not cut her face from the pics first.

Consider the outcome before launching into something serious like that. If she is not prepared for it, you may have a bigger deal to work with than you thought.

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RE: Humilation - 3/2/2007 10:33:25 AM

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Using humiliation as a punishment is a slippery slope. This is different than indulging a humiliation fetish. Have you asked her if she specifically agrees to this punishment?

That being said, you can create a free website for her where she posts pics...but beware the new and not improved obsenity laws if the body part is sexual. Fi it's a warty toe or love handles, you'll probably be ok.

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