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RE: Easy Submissives... - 2/28/2007 7:04:14 PM   
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Craving some punishment



I don't think I'm really hijacking the thread by asking this, but what exactly does this part mean to you?

Do you really wish to do something wrong to be punished?  Or do you just want to indulge in some painplay (when he wants that, too)?  Or, do you want that to be some sort of roleplay ('You've been a bad, bad, girl!!!')

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RE: Easy Submissives... - 2/28/2007 7:10:28 PM   
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if you're asking for personal examples, sorry, take the fifth.

but I think that acting out in hopes of earning a spanking isn't the same as the same as being disobedient. I guess that's a combination of roleplay/painplay, but I hadn't thought of dissecting it like that....I imagine being any more specific would bring in the lovely mods....

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RE: Easy Submissives... - 2/28/2007 8:18:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: novicecourtesan
if you're asking for personal examples, sorry, take the fifth.

but I think that acting out in hopes of earning a spanking isn't the same as the same as being disobedient. I guess that's a combination of roleplay/painplay, but I hadn't thought of dissecting it like that....I imagine being any more specific would bring in the lovely mods....

Maybe.  But it is good to explain since the temperature of these forums tends to be that punishment is a serious reaction to wrong behavior in order to correct and lead to better behavior.  When you use punishment to mean fun teasing playtime, it can be confusing.

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RE: Easy Submissives... - 2/28/2007 8:24:14 PM   
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is that a generally accepted explanation--that punishment is for serious wrongdoing and teasing/roleplaying scene time is something else? just wondering....

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RE: Easy Submissives... - 2/28/2007 8:41:35 PM   
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is that a generally accepted explanation--that punishment is for serious wrongdoing and teasing/roleplaying scene time is something else? just wondering....

Depends on who you talk to :) On Collarme, it tends to be the former, on an aolchatroom, it could quite easily be the latter.

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RE: Easy Submissives... - 2/28/2007 9:26:29 PM   
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.......I imagine being any more specific would bring in the lovely mods....


Did I read this right? discussions must take place on a general, non personal/specific nature here or be moderated out?

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