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RE: Flip side to limits - 11/22/2006 10:39:23 PM

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Doormat is an easy word to throw around. And it makes you feel more Dominant and secure.
Shrek think he's just compensating for something, which I think means he has a really small... (woot! Disney lol)

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RE: Flip side to limits - 11/23/2006 6:46:02 AM

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I'm the eternal optimist and am holding tight to the belief that one day everyone is simply going to 'get' it's all about compatibility.

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Three things have to be in place for me to enter into a relationship with someone - ethics and morals are compatible, goals in life are compatible and general approaches to life are compatible. I've found that with someone who meets those things, a relationship of some sort is entirely possible and usually extremely fulfilling. I find that physical compatibility are secondary to spiritual and emotional compatibility, although all 3 are important.

Will everyone 'get it' someday? I'm probably very pessimistic about that.

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RE: Flip side to limits - 11/23/2006 7:49:33 AM

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I have never used safewords either. But then I NEVER play casually with anyone. My liking of pain is so intense that the person who I am with has to know me very well.

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RE: Flip side to limits - 11/23/2006 5:46:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: Tikkiee

I have never used safewords either. But then I NEVER play casually with anyone. My liking of pain is so intense that the person who I am with has to know me very well.

~same here....~as the chemistry intensifies between another and myself, so does the intensity level of what i desire and am able to receive .

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RE: Flip side to limits - 11/23/2006 5:51:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: Tikkiee

I have never used safewords either. But then I NEVER play casually with anyone. My liking of pain is so intense that the person who I am with has to know me very well.

~same here....~as the chemistry intensifies between another and myself, so does the intensity level of what i desire and am able to receive .

Mine is a bit different. Up till recently, I used pain as a way of reaffirming to myself that I was still able to feel. The more pain inflicted, the more I felt alive. So, someone could whip me into a bloody pulp and I would still want more, for the simple reason that it brings those feelings about.

Anyone who I do play with, has to know me very, very well to be able to control that in me.

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RE: Flip side to limits - 11/23/2006 6:03:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: Tikkiee

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ORIGINAL: Tikkiee

I have never used safewords either. But then I NEVER play casually with anyone. My liking of pain is so intense that the person who I am with has to know me very well.

~same here....~as the chemistry intensifies between another and myself, so does the intensity level of what i desire and am able to receive .

Mine is a bit different. Up till recently, I used pain as a way of reaffirming to myself that I was still able to feel. The more pain inflicted, the more I felt alive. So, someone could whip me into a bloody pulp and I would still want more, for the simple reason that it brings those feelings about.

Anyone who I do play with, has to know me very, very well to be able to control that in me.

~understands, and is glad you know yourself so well. There are those that aren't as sure of themselves, and for those folks, i believe a safeword is most beneficial. i used to identify with pain in much the same way when i was much younger. As i began to reach more mature levels of emotional understanding within myself, i was able to experience my feelings through other areas along with the pain aspect. i didn't feel so numb anymore. It has taken me many years to come to this stage in my growth and understanding of who i am and what i truly desire. ~thanks for sharng.

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