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RE: insults when rejected - 11/16/2006 7:04:47 AM

raiken

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Hey-- I just say:

OK, baby-- no cockshots for you this christmas, and you can get up of your knees now, bitch......................

Ron

LOL Ron, the way my knees hurt sometimes from my joint problems, there are times when geting up off my knees feels better than a cockshot! ~weg~

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RE: insults when rejected - 11/16/2006 7:27:07 AM

JerseyKrissi72

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Ron...I love when you talk dirty to me

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RE: insults when rejected - 11/16/2006 9:18:50 AM

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the point of all this being that you don't have to be rude to the girls to insult them when they reject you, you can be humorusly boorish as well.

This is as it should be, when the clueless do run off at the mouth, you can laugh and block your way to serenity now.

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RE: insults when rejected - 11/16/2006 10:26:26 PM

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It is my belief that is the ever present sore loser disease. they want you until you say that you dont want them ....they way that they want you...then POOF they supposedly didn't want you to begin with and were supposedly setting you up for a no show or a ass for head thing like that! I have had similar things happen....these supposedly Dominant men write to me repeatedly trying to get me to make a date or something of that nature..during the planning of such a thing I do what i always do....make the date in a place that i feel safe...and honestly I usually make it in a place and at a time that i would be heading out to anyway...since infrequently one may get stood up...

Believe it or not last week i had an ass for head try to inform me that i was being unsubmisive for insisting that he meet me in a safe (in my opinion) environment...he wanted to meet me in a romantic environment....the Mariotte Hotel on the LIE.....the hotel is about 3 acres and the parking lot alone is 10 acres! and as my goatee wearing friend mentioned great for interstate flight!

In my opinion....to meet someone at a hotel, granted the hotel does have a very nice restaurant and bar....But i dont drink....well meeting at a hotel gives off the illusion to the average person that one would be looking for sex of some kind..and well in such a huge place i could easily be dragged into some tiny hallway and mugged...or get nabbed in the parking lot and never to be heard from again..

But the first red flag that went off with this particular individual was that he gave me a phone number...but i tried calling it repeatedly...noone ever answered it...when i asked him about it he said he leaves it in his car...I asked him what was the point of giving me the number then...then the total idiocy came out....he went into a tirade of how he wouldn't have sex with him even if i paid him... what was I worried about... and why would someone as ugly as me have to be soo concerned about personal safety! Imagine this was the same man that wrote to me about my black and white picture how lovely i was....

can you say sore loser?? or ass for head??

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RE: insults when rejected - 11/17/2006 5:25:23 AM

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Oh, I hear you. Mr. I Am The God of All BDSM knowledge has now told me I'm fat, which I'm disappointed with-I was really looking for some more substantial insults!

LOL, it makes you wonder why they emailed you in the first place!

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RE: insults when rejected - 11/17/2006 5:55:39 AM

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Hiya.

To the orginal poster, it's a shame you have experinced this, and I agree with you I pride Myself on My self control, I do get excited at times which is human. I've never understood when people have to lash out, My form of rejection is just being ignored, if I see a nice profile I take the time to respond and try to avoid one line greetings. I have proberly sent a small ton of messages but I have to admit what is disheartening is when I don't get a reply back not even "Sorry not interested" so that did at one point push Me away from this site for a few months, I got tired of giving replies and not getting anything back.

But regardless it's aways sad to see people think this is a fast route to sexual fulfilment rather then a fullfilling relationship, I can't say thats what everyone wants, as to some it's what they seek.

I hope you see from the replies on here We are not all bad and overly grumpy swearing dolts when rejected :)

WoS

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RE: insults when rejected - 11/17/2006 6:02:57 AM

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And it seems to me that you've lived your life, like a Candle In The Wind...........

JaySUS! what a good looking lady!!!!!!!

I would be honored to insult you.

Admiringly,
Ron

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RE: insults when rejected - 11/17/2006 6:07:09 AM

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Yeah, the ones who think they are insulting Me by telling Me that I am fat are real dullards. If they can't be more creative than that, why bother? I already admit that I'm overweight, so if they want to be insulting, they are going to have to come up with something more original than that.

I did get one the other day that was rather creative, though silly. He said I was probably a blabbermouth and talked, talked, talked during the session while the clock ran. Guess he has a thing against talkative Women and pro-Dommes, of which I'm neither, LOL.

Lady Topaz

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RE: insults when rejected - 11/17/2006 6:19:18 AM

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I just had one tell me that my 'bad manners' were a reflection on how I was raised and that I need to talk to my parents.

Gee, do ya think Dad'll ground me?

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RE: insults when rejected - 11/17/2006 6:46:35 AM

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I might be amoung the declining number of traditionalists in the BDSM scene but I won't go down without a fight. There is an article on the increasing lack of civility in the BDSM scene on "enslavedrose.org". Some may find this site helpful. For those that dislike rules, protocol or structure, don't bother.

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