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RE: How open are You? - 10/3/2006 11:20:25 AM

mnottertail

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Open?

LOL............

Like I am gonna share all my cock shots with my co-workers like I do with all you girls here on CollarMe.............

Get real, folks!!!!

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RE: How open are You? - 10/3/2006 11:23:33 AM

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I tend to be open about everything.Never hid being a Lesbian/Bi not going to hide being a Domme.
bishops collar doesnt come off and she now has an awesome leather bracelet with handcuffs she wears to work.I have a matching one I wear.
I wear black often,I just like the color black(its figure slimming).

I dont have a problem telling someone if they ask,I look at it if I can spread awareness,it becomes more acceptable.I do the same with being Lesbian/Bi.

To hide who I am,makes Me feel like I am ashamed of who I am.
I am not ashamed of who I am,so I'm not hiding it.

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RE: How open are You? - 10/3/2006 12:01:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: knees2you
How open are you in the Vanilla World?
Are You a Master ~Mistress~Submissive~Slave~Switch
at work and come home and do the opposite?

While at work how much of Your Bdsm
personality do You let people see?

As a truck driver I don't work in an office environment. With the driver shortage, most employers are more worried about performance, than my personal life. I am always mistress of my house where ever I go. My girl always calls me "ma'am" where ever we go. If it raises an eye brow, we simple state she's southern and it's how she was raised. She is provided with a cell phone, number restricted to a very short list, so she may contact me at anytime, ie I'm always available to her. So even while I'm on the road she can call to let me know when she is leaving the house and when she has safely returned home. She still asks permission to turn in at night. The principles of Ds are my personal moral compass (self control, duty, respect, good manners, etc..). I read the books of Gor, Marketplace and other lifestyle material as I eat my meals in the truck stops. It has caused the occasional waitress to serve me from her knees, but most just don't seem to notice. While I don't not speak of the kink unless someone asks me a specific question, there is never really any question as to who in in control of our relationship. Being a "mistress" simply means I am in control of my house, feel free to consult Webster.

I am open to my family as they understand the power dynamic of my house. What we don't talk about is the kink or the dungeon in my cellar. My father reads the Ds Haven website and thus my lifestyle is not a secret to him. Nor are the slaves they see come and go through my house. As for my friends, they are all lifestyle except 3 I believe and they are very lifestyle aware.

We have a special needs child and thus over the years his counselors, case workers and therapist have come to understand something of how we live. All they gather is that the boy is kept in a very structured environment and that is what he needs. This structure comes from the Ds, not from the kink. Kink belongs in the bedroom. But if you walk around my house you will see a cane here and maybe a strap there. My life is not vanilla, I will not hide who I am, especially within my own home, and thus I chose not to include the outside world in my life as much as possible.

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RE: How open are You? - 10/3/2006 6:17:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: smilezz

i don't walk in to work the next day and say: Ohh, y'all should hear about the spiked paddle and all the marks it leaves.

Happy Tuesday!

~smilezz~

Too funny LOL ;)

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RE: How open are You? - 10/3/2006 7:14:05 PM

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i'm pretty open for the most part. my mother knows and so does my brother (although he can't understand and doesn't wanna know-he just thinks it's about masochism). The rest of my family doesn't interact with me anyway too much so there's no reason to tell them. All of my nilla friends know, although most don't really understand it, but they accept it because it's me and i never was one to march to the beat of everyone else's drum. My hair dresser knows lol (don't they just know everything lol ?! She's just super curious about it and she knew me when i was a pro Domme sooo she's even more curious now) my Daddy's family and friends all know as well.

i don't advertsie it when i go to the grocery store, but they don't need to know. If someone asked i'd tell them and try to educate them about what it is vs. what they imagine it is.

i always call my Master Daddy and sometimes i just say it more quietly than others (and sometimes i forget to be quieter about it-oops) Sometimes i wear my collar around my ankle (if i have a headache or something) and i've seen some weird looks, but i'm used to weird looks anyway.

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