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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

It is not bdsm to control someone who has no desire to be under someone's control it's ABUSE. Plain and simple. A person with a clue would know that and would not  seek to control someone who has no interest in their dominancy or control.. It has nothing to do with I am master rawer beat chest rawer you listen I say so.


Any one dominant who was a mentally compitant person would understand that just because they apply the title dom or master to themself, does not mean that she his wife should be controlled just cause he says so.

Life is not black and white, one true way.  you can not make your beliefs and feelings match every one elses. You might have a problem with a woman not recogniszing her husband as be all end all obey me control her authority, But you can't make it apply to every woman, or every Dominant out there.

I had no desire to control my bf, and it was not frusterating to me that as a dominant personality i could not control him. I am mentally healthier than to think I should control him because I am a dominant person, but he's not interested in being controlled.

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ORIGINAL: newly42

if it is not frustrating for a Master to live with someone who can't be controlled and who doesn't accept him as her Master.