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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 9:05:23 AM

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I'm pretty much a compulsive fantasizer, which gets me into trouble sometimes, as I do have a very clear understanding of the difference betwen reality and fantasy which some people seem to lack.

I am playing around with storytelling, so lately I've been using it in a more directed way - it's kind of interestesting because the requirements of a given story may require me to go places I might not normally go.

Most of my BDSM fantasies actually tend to be more along the lines of design - problem solving, things to try, psychological aspects, hardware design, etc. rather than specific fantasies of scenarios, although that can lead to visualization and brief scenario and vignette fantasies - and, I've been doing that a little more lately, see above.

All reasons Vanilla relationships just don't work for me - my research along these lines often consists of looking at a lot of porn, reading pornography, etc., and outright fantasizing: some of which is pretty extreme, and not all things I'm necessarily into personally, but along the way I've gotten curious about a lot of things I've never thought of trying before.

I have been having recurring fantasies about getting deep throated lately for instance, which is odd because I was never really that into receiving oral sex.

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 9:06:06 AM

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Like any good and self respecting Scorpio, I think about BDSM, and sex in general, most of the day -- it's always in the back of my mind if not actively out in front. Like others have said, I might see any object and wonder how it could be used as a discipline or play tool... Ditto for situations: could we get away with doing this or that in such and such a place -- without getting arrested, lol!!!

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 9:15:36 AM

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I'd have to say that it varies for me. There are months that go by that I can't get it out of my mind at all, and once in a while a day will hit that's really bad and I can't think at all, let alone about anything specific. Recently those days started happening more often, but The Mate and I are getting better at keeping stress out, and things are settling down quite nicely.

I guess mostly it's a constant thing (how can I pervert THAT item? tee hee), with the exception of kid time and critter time. If I'm really engrossed working with either kids or animals, I actually tend to be thinking about that, with the occasional slip deep in my head. I don't think I even really notice those things, they tend to come up later when I have the time to think about them.

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 9:54:18 AM

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Alll the time.. it seems like every minute of the day.. something will spur the thought of something a little taboo.. a little dark.. memory of my Masters hands in my hair just by seeing a girl with long hair walk by.. or when a man walks into the place i work who is big, and has a stern or intense gaze i think.. i bet HE would be a good play partner... im hopeless and helpless.. but aint life grand! its my every waking thought and the last thing i think about before nodding off to sleep.. the wickedly delicious things i want to do to my Master.. or beg Him to do to me...

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 11:27:37 AM

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To be honest, the only reason I ever go to a shopping mall is to watch the women and have those same fantasy's.... geez.. what I would like to do to pleasure her.... I know, I am a Perv.. been told that over and over..LOL but still........ *S*

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