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popeye1250 -> How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 1:50:41 PM)

With me it involves ALL of my fantasies and sexual thoughts.
I'd say it crops up 20-30 times per day everyday.
I've even been in church and seen an attractive woman comming back from communion and thought to myself; "Gee, I bet I could really make her squirm if I had her tied to my bed and worked her over good with a Wertzberg wheel!"
Or if I'm at the Mall and walk by a furniture store and see a nice bed I'm always looking to see if it could be easily adapted to B&D.
And, when I'm at the pool I'll be looking at the ladies and wondering if any of them have ever been tied down to their bed and if they'd "like it."
That's why I really enjoy this site. Anytime I want I can come in here and talk with like-minded people about our favorite subjects.
How about you?
How often do you think about B&D M/s and where (like above) do those thoughts manifest them selves?

(Off to the pool to swim and work on my tan.)



SexyRed -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 1:54:50 PM)

I think about it pretty much all the time, bits and pieces of past scenes float through my mind, even if I am not horny, if that makes sense.  I just always have it in the back of my mind since it is what my sexual fantasies are made of as well.



mstrjx -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 2:04:23 PM)

Without going into much detail, the way that I live, even alone, there is no way that I could escape WIITWD.  Nor would I want to.  It is possible that it would be challenging for another to live in such an environment, but it has always worked for me and the people who have been in my life over the years.

Jeff



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 2:10:20 PM)

More often than I think about spoiling my nephews, less often than I think about just kissing.



Steelriven -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 2:11:43 PM)

The place I work at allows me what I call "mental masturbation." I can let my hands work at whatever they are doing, while my mind drifts, and floats off to other things. I tend to get stuck on alot of BDSM topics, fantasies, and theories. The hours generally pass by quicker when my mind can drift. I guess, the short anwser from me would be... ALOT.



windchymes -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 2:13:14 PM)

Not sure on the number of thoughts, but my mind goes wild in the hardware stores and dollar stores.  And my wrought iron 4-poster bed was bought with guess what in mind?[;)]

P.S.  When I'm at the pool, I look around and wonder what it would be like to be tied to the deck chair.......oh wait, done that [:)]   Nothing like the feel of the warm sun on mucous membranes......



sophia37 -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 2:33:11 PM)

I just think erotic thoughts in general. Ive read where men think them more often than women, but I sometimes wonder. 



iwillspku -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 2:39:01 PM)

I would say that I think about it everyday, at least 500 times!!!
        David



ninella -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 2:41:36 PM)

always on my mind!

since I woke up till I go to sleep.. i feel alive when I'm thinking about it.



TNstepsout -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 2:45:52 PM)

A whole hell of a lot. I keep thinking it's because it's all so new and exciting and eventually the blush will wear off, but who knows.



Estring -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 3:20:32 PM)

Well, with my slave running around the house naked most of the time, it is hard not to think about it.[;)]



cuddleheart50 -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 3:30:06 PM)

I think about it all the time too, it just stays on my mind...



DoraExplorer -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 3:36:38 PM)

I find I look at men's wrists a lot... imagining what they would look like with cuffs around them.

If ever I'm talking to someone and we're making and maintaining eye contact, in the back of my mind is the image of what they'd look like *not* looking at me.



Bearlee -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 3:52:18 PM)

 

I think about it a lot, too, but then since more than half of my friends are in the lifestyle it affects what I do with my time and how I socialize, too.  Combine that with working alone in a small shop where I spend a LOT of time here...  It's part of my everyday life.



angelic -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 3:52:23 PM)

Constantly... it's always there, even when it isn't at the front of my brain... it is and always will lurk in some part of my brain... easily called to the forefront.



RavenMuse -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 3:55:44 PM)

I am Dominant. I am in a D/s relationship where the dynamic is in play 24/7 regardless of the fact that we don't live together.  There is no "How many times" there is simply the way I am, the way I think. If I am thinking about or interacting with My girl in any way shape or form then the thoughts are in a D/s context.



LotusSong -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 3:56:37 PM)

When appropriate.



mynded -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 4:00:43 PM)

I think about it more and more. The more i learn the more i want to learn and think about it......[;)]



popeye1250 -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 4:08:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: angelic

Constantly... it's always there, even when it isn't at the front of my brain... it is and always will lurk in some part of my brain... easily called to the forefront.

LOL, I like that answer, Angelic!




gandalf0297 -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/26/2006 4:11:42 PM)

It's always on my mind! just the way I'm hardwired.



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