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Amaros -> RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? (8/27/2006 9:05:23 AM)
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I'm pretty much a compulsive fantasizer, which gets me into trouble sometimes, as I do have a very clear understanding of the difference betwen reality and fantasy which some people seem to lack. I am playing around with storytelling, so lately I've been using it in a more directed way - it's kind of interestesting because the requirements of a given story may require me to go places I might not normally go. Most of my BDSM fantasies actually tend to be more along the lines of design - problem solving, things to try, psychological aspects, hardware design, etc. rather than specific fantasies of scenarios, although that can lead to visualization and brief scenario and vignette fantasies - and, I've been doing that a little more lately, see above. All reasons Vanilla relationships just don't work for me - my research along these lines often consists of looking at a lot of porn, reading pornography, etc., and outright fantasizing: some of which is pretty extreme, and not all things I'm necessarily into personally, but along the way I've gotten curious about a lot of things I've never thought of trying before. I have been having recurring fantasies about getting deep throated lately for instance, which is odd because I was never really that into receiving oral sex.
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