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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/26/2006 4:15:38 PM   
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everyday all day, as i am 24/7 subbie to my husband

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/26/2006 4:17:22 PM   
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When appropriate.


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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/26/2006 5:06:24 PM   
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Hey Popeye, did you know God can read your thoughts? Lusting in church...shame, shame!

As for me, I think about it throughout the day. I'm in a 24/7 D/s relationship that is ever evolving and growing. Plus, I could really use a good spanking.

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/26/2006 5:17:59 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Littlepita

Hey Popeye, did you know God can read your thoughts? Lusting in church...shame, shame!

As for me, I think about it throughout the day. I'm in a 24/7 D/s relationship that is ever evolving and growing. Plus, I could really use a good spanking.

Pita, He can!!!??? Oh no, I'm fucked now!
("DAMN POPEYE, LOOKING AT WOMEN IN CHURCH AGAIN! ST. PETER, GIVE POPEYE 1 CHALKMARK ON THE "BAD" SIDE OF HIS TALLY!")  (God talks in caps)

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/26/2006 5:20:35 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

quote:

ORIGINAL: Littlepita

Hey Popeye, did you know God can read your thoughts? Lusting in church...shame, shame!

As for me, I think about it throughout the day. I'm in a 24/7 D/s relationship that is ever evolving and growing. Plus, I could really use a good spanking.

Pita, He can!!!??? Oh no, I'm fucked now!
("DAMN POPEYE, LOOKING AT WOMEN IN CHURCH AGAIN! ST. PETER, GIVE POPEYE 1 CHALKMARK ON THE "BAD" SIDE OF HIS TALLY!")  (God talks in caps)


He talks in caps because he can't believe how big your tally has grown.

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/26/2006 5:55:13 PM   
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Hmmm ... more often than most anything else.  Did I happen to mention I write romantica?  I'm on book 9 in a series and looking for a new publisher.  My last one closed its doors when the owners divorced.

Anyone care for a good read? *s*


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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/26/2006 5:56:22 PM   
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lol pita n popeye and yup popeye you're up the creek without a paddle for sure lol
 
how often do I think about BDSM hmmmmm can I plea the 5th?

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/26/2006 6:00:03 PM   
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I will see something that could be "perverted" and it crosses my mind. He spanks me while I am cooking with wooden spoons, so wooden spoons make me think of him. I think about it when I am going to sleep.

Just as often I think of him in a more vanilla way, just the shape of his body while he is laying next to me, the way he smells, the way he feels when he wakes up and uses me. I guess these thoughts go through my head much more than BDSM, and they are more of Ds thoughts I suppose. It doesn't have to be hardcore to be Ds...smiles. I think I thought of him like this about 20 times like this already today, but I have had a lot other things on my mind as well...

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/26/2006 6:46:12 PM   
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Off and on throughout each day such thoughts come to me and when I'm not actively thinking about it, it's still there in the back of my mind until something triggers the thoughts again.

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 12:05:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

That's why I really enjoy this site. Anytime I want I can come in here and talk with like-minded people about our favorite subjects.
How about you?
How often do you think about B&D M/s and where (like above) do those thoughts manifest them selves?



It varies for me. There are occasions when it comes to mind when I'm journaling or performing a task. Perhaps I'm sharing a thought with a friend or muse on something I've read online. Otherwise there are certain occasions where something on television will bring a situation to mind or make me think of someone in particular. In general it doesn't dominate my thoughts at all. It is one aspect of my life but not the whole kit and kaboodle.

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 1:22:07 AM   
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About 60-70% of the time, if I had to estimate it, fleetin thought of bdsm activity and sex, will cross my mind in some form. But, it fluctuates, depending on how involved I am in whatever else it is I am doing (sometimes, ya just gotta concentrate on other things  - whether you want to or not, ya know?...sigh).

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 2:39:00 AM   
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Constantly.  It is who i am and i am a sub.

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 3:28:32 AM   
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I know this, anytime I have down time at home or at work, I'll get on CM. I work my other online tasks around my BDSM things.

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 6:51:26 AM   
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Well, with my slave running around the house naked most of the time, it is hard not to think about it.
LOL...no kidding, hadn't thought about that one because it just seems normal, but that does tend to keep it sort of out in the open (no pun intended). Hardware stores, furniture stores, oh hell, just about any store we will always pick out convenient "pervertables"...guess I better not try to come up with a percentage of time huh?

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 6:53:15 AM   
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i think about it all the time too... but some places inspire hotter thoughts... Dom Depot, marine supply stores (think boats... as in the best rope selection ever!)... doctor's offices... isolated places in nature... car hoods... the big over stuffed chair at the bank... Master's hands... mmmmmmm

i am reminded by people too... from a girl whose neck looks perfect for a collar type necklace...  to a guy with a mark on his wrist that looks suspicious... to a woman with a voice like nails on a  chalk board nagging her husband incessantly (sometimes it is a gag for her that i picture, sometimes it is what i would do for Master to not have to listen to her)...

And if i have taken a few hours off, with no inspiration? Well there is always the boards on collarme!  :D

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 7:02:13 AM   
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I think about it most of my waking day, to one degree or another. Like MasterNdorei, some places bring it to the surface easier thaqn others. I can't drive by the Tractor Supply Company and see their goat runs without thinking what wonderful cages they would make with a little modification. Police stations, and even cruisers do it. I tend to look for items to corrupt from their original use even when shopping for vanilla items. Swing sets at the park, windmills in fields, saddled horses, wooden crates...
 
Most of my waking day, like I said.

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 7:41:42 AM   
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At the most, I think about it twice a day.  Whenever I'm awake, and sometimes when I'm asleep.

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 8:03:02 AM   
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Whew!  It's not just me!  :)

i think about it on and off through my day.  Sometimes i worry that i will slip and speak the words that are on my mind when i shouldn't.  i think about it when i get up, at work (those staff meetings would be so dull otherwise LOL), in the car, while i'm reading, and yes - even in church.  Just whenever.

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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 8:29:19 AM   
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I don't think about B&D as much as I think about M/s. To me, they are two very seperate and distinct aspects of the relationship. B&D isn't as important to me as the M/s.

With that explained, there are always women I see that I think would look better kneeling, with a collar around her neck. Actually, let me re-phrase that: I think evey woman looks better kneeling, with a collar around her neck. But thats just me.


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RE: How often do you "think" about B&D M/s? - 8/27/2006 8:54:22 AM   
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The place I work at allows me what I call "mental masturbation." I can let my hands work at whatever they are doing, while my mind drifts, and floats off to other things. I tend to get stuck on alot of BDSM topics, fantasies, and theories. The hours generally pass by quicker when my mind can drift. I guess, the short anwser from me would be... ALOT.


Little known phenomona that thinking pornographic thoughts will make time pass quickly.

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