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talibahh -> RE: single searching (6/25/2006 10:57:17 PM)
*Life is the journey... not the destination [:)]* *wishing you happy days living, while you search* *tali* edited just because... [;)]

ClassAct2006 -> RE: single searching (6/26/2006 1:53:54 AM)
The most practical comment anyone made above was you were in NZ and may be not in a place full of people. I'm in London, England and I haven't found the right person yet but I do get the feeling from people I've been out with that I do have quite a bit of choice. So practical realities play a part. I tried some vanilla dating recently which may be is worth doing just to have the fun of going out but it didn't work for me. It should all be fun as someone said above. Submission is fun. It's a benefit, not a curse. Also I sometimes meet people who don't tick all the boxes because may be those boxes are a bit limiting. Usually I find my original gut instinct was right but it's still worth just getting out there and meeing someone who may not be 100% what you think you want. Good luck with it.

Kara -> RE: single searching (6/26/2006 2:22:38 AM)
wow IronBear what an idea and i will drag the Dom back to my cave and tuck Him in under the mammoth hide i clubbed to death on the way home. lol appreciate the humour regards kara

Kara -> RE: single searching (6/26/2006 2:28:38 AM)
Thank You Lady Morgynn some very good advice. Chuckles its almost like you know me (rushing in) I am a part of my community and go to the local and not so local munches and play parties. Sometimes though things just feel so big........ yep lifes like that regards kara

Kara -> RE: single searching (6/26/2006 2:44:59 AM)
indigo 302 The question is legitimate. My advertisement is in my profile on collarme. regards kara

Kara -> RE: single searching (6/26/2006 2:58:24 AM)
Hi Merc, 20 years is a looooonnnnnnggggggggg time even if the journey is incredible being who i am prefers the 60 day option but i guess if i add you both together and divide by 2 the statistics says 10 years one month each. Then i guess if thats multiplied by the life you both share now that makes it timeless......... regards kara

Kara -> RE: single searching (6/26/2006 3:20:01 AM)
With regard to all of the replies here i have taken out the information pertinent to myself, laughed at a few, loved the fairy and frog piccy thanks to the person who posted it. With regard to the time i have been searching for a D/s relationship for two years. Not comparable to Merc n his 20 years but in my perspective (mine) thats almost my whole life in this lifestyle. During that time i have moved through the phases of online, to finding local community, communities and bdsm groups from 2-6 hours away from where i live and got to know people through these groups. As for lifes a journey and its the journey not the destination quotes, well can i put in life is a roller coaster with highs and lows and sometimes esctatic and sometimes vomiting over the sides. I cant reply to each and every one of you cause um i need sleep but thank you for your input. I have never started a post before here and am suprised at the amount of responses. Certainly more rewarding than the chat room. Prime Slave all i can say is arohamai and will add that your experience is your truth and perspective and each of us have our own. Once again thanks for the responses, arohanui and regards kara

impishlilhellcat -> RE: single searching (6/26/2006 10:56:35 AM)
I know what it's like to want to be with someone to be willing to go that extra mile over and over and over again to only be turned away after you've done it all. It is frustrating, but time will eventually bring someone to you who is totally worth it.

akisha -> RE: single searching (6/26/2006 12:22:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld rubs head and it friggen hurt too! I'm not the masochist... not the masochist! Opps sorry Loki hun g you shouldn't be down there playing with the trolls. [:D]

primeslave -> RE: single searching (6/27/2006 9:23:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kara With regard to all of the replies here i have taken out the information pertinent to myself, laughed at a few, loved the fairy and frog piccy thanks to the person who posted it. With regard to the time i have been searching for a D/s relationship for two years. Not comparable to Merc n his 20 years but in my perspective (mine) thats almost my whole life in this lifestyle. During that time i have moved through the phases of online, to finding local community, communities and bdsm groups from 2-6 hours away from where i live and got to know people through these groups. As for lifes a journey and its the journey not the destination quotes, well can i put in life is a roller coaster with highs and lows and sometimes esctatic and sometimes vomiting over the sides. I cant reply to each and every one of you cause um i need sleep but thank you for your input. I have never started a post before here and am suprised at the amount of responses. Certainly more rewarding than the chat room. Prime Slave all i can say is arohamai and will add that your experience is your truth and perspective and each of us have our own. Once again thanks for the responses, arohanui and regards kara kara - i like you. quite a bit of wisdom in your little finger (smiles ... that is meant as a compliment - in case i get flamed). you are absolutely right, each of us has our own truth, perspective and experiences in this life. i am not bitter in anyway, i have a quite fulfilling life, and could really care less about being flamed. why? because this is my life and my experiences. i am disappointed in the quality of people at times but as was so impressively pointed out earlier -- we are all human. why did i go through 4 Gorean Masters so quickly? cause not one of them was single and only one of them was honest about it. i was trying to be polite and so once again when posting on a public forum where you cannot give a lot of details... a pyre has been lit and the flames are rolling. ah well, i enjoy a good fire to warm my buns by at times. i totally admit to being disappointed in my search ... it must be because i try to hold people to higher standards ... a little honesty is always nice. i wish all the very best luck in their search. it is quite cheering to read that it may take me 20 years to find the One (who by the way is not going to rescue me from anything) -- that is said with a bit of sarcasm and a smile. not meant to be evil in anyway. i have a wonderful career, children grown and graduated from college, i own my own home and two cars. such a life... is it better to state that i would prefer my life to have a man that i can serve? there are times when i 'need' to serve. is there anything so wrong with that? i dont wish to 'serve' every Tom, Dick and Master out there. not quite sure how that makes me a player. sorry Kara for feeling like i hijacked your thread. i was only trying to comment a bit from a different perspective but the bonfires have been lit. next thing you know, maybe i will be burned at the stake as a witch because my perspective was a wee bit different. truly sorry. maybe i should give up posting an opinion since i obviously am having such a pity party that i am a sad excuse for a yada yada yada .... meanwhile, i think i will go and live my life ..... primeSlave ~

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