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mnottertail -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 2:15:47 PM)
I'm in my Jack the Ripper phase at the moment, dancing in guts is alotta fuckin work though, guv. Thank god I have been intensively practicing on my Wii balance board.

tolovetolaugh -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 3:49:02 PM)
FR I can't rub one out without a fantasy- the crazier the better. If it is something I would actually do in reality, it isn't extreme enough to get off to. It scares me, because they have to get progressively darker as I get older and different taboos get boring and I need to find new ideas.

ResidentSadist -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 4:06:55 PM)
I just get into her underwear drawer, grab a bra and wear it like a motorcycle helmet, then dance naked around the bed and yell "wake up" before I squirt in her face. ok . . . not really ... well, not that often. I prefer rabbit ears for stuff like that!

slaveluci -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 4:25:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst For those of you male and female, who masturbate, do you imagine senarios in your head to make the act more fulfilling? Sometimes yes and sometimes no. I've been masturbating on and off for the last 30 years or so. I don't always follow the same routine or pattern. Sometimes I do it while watching porn, sometimes I simply fantasize about things I would love to do or have done. And, sometimes, I just diddle away without a thought because I'm already so close to the edge when I start. But, lately, I don't get to masturbate so I just wait on Master. It's all good any way it happens[;)] luci

Missokyst -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 4:36:27 PM)
I wonder if I don't fantasize because I have done much of the dark extreme stuff I used to think about before I found other twisted partners? Kidnap.. I used to think about that until it almost happened for real one day. After that I started considing how to get myself out of another situation like that should it happen again. Rough, seemingly non consensual sex?... pretty much standard fair in my love life, so no need for steering my brain in that direction. Pain.. :) Oh.. I can do pain, and do when I am feeling horny and maso. My natural position for sex, or masturbation always involves getting my arms up above my head, not because I am thinking of being bound, but because it makes my tits taut and that makes my nipples harder. I just know I don't fantasize when fucking myself, I just create sensations. quote: ORIGINAL: tolovetolaugh FR I can't rub one out without a fantasy- the crazier the better. If it is something I would actually do in reality, it isn't extreme enough to get off to. It scares me, because they have to get progressively darker as I get older and different taboos get boring and I need to find new ideas.

kalikshama -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 5:08:04 PM)
I generally masturbate to erotica from nifty.org that is far less consensual and far more brutal than I would entertain IRL. Sometime I get erotica for my Kindle - I have the big Kindle which only turn pages on the right side, and I am used to using my eroscillator in my right hand, which leads to some comical fumbling.

tolovetolaugh -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 5:08:18 PM)
I'm just worried one day I will have run as dark as it gets... and when even that gets boring, what if I can never get off again? [>:]

Missokyst -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 5:40:32 PM)
I am going to have to check that out. It has been decades since I read any porn. As far as brutality goes I think I extended it out as far as I ever should have and I did that IRL. For me romance and love are far scarier, even in fantasy. Maybe I should check out some bodice rippers. quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama I generally masturbate to erotica from nifty.org that is far less consensual and far more brutal than I would entertain IRL. Sometime I get erotica for my Kindle - I have the big Kindle which only turn pages on the right side, and I am used to using my eroscillator in my right hand, which leads to some comical fumbling.

strongbottom88 -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 5:56:41 PM)
I have never masturbated. I would be afraid of going blind and getting hairy knuckles. I do, however, have a very close friend who tells me that even when he is having his fantasies met on a regular basis he still masturbates. Seriously, I can not imagine just rubbing one out without their being some kind of fantasy and visual imagery in my mind, and being kinky that imagery often involves kinky fantasies. I wonder if there is a gender component to this as most of the people who say they rub one out without a fantasy of some sort on their mind seem to be women I think (I have not specifically checked the profiles to make certain) - and interestingly, this thread is one of the first times I recall having heard women describe it as rubbing one out.

roscho -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 6:18:44 PM)
I guess similar to you, OP. When I masturbate it is usually to remembrances, while I have much darker things that I hope to experience, I masturbate to actual things in my memory bank.

littlewonder -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 8:13:11 PM)
Masturbating for me is like trying to tickle myself....it just doesn't work. I've tried pretty much everything...nothing, nada...can't say I ever get frustrated either though because I rarely even think about it. It's interesting to hear about how easy it is for other women though.

ashjor911 -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 8:14:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strongbottom88 I have never masturbated. How Old Are you?......8? PS: its a joke

kalikshama -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 8:38:33 PM)
quote: Masturbating for me is like trying to tickle myself....it just doesn't work. I've tried pretty much everything...nothing, nada...can't say I ever get frustrated either though because I rarely even think about it. It's interesting to hear about how easy it is for other women though. It wasn't easy before the Eroscillator...at 2,300 oscillations per minute, no other vibe comes close!

roscho -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 8:40:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ashjor911 quote: ORIGINAL: strongbottom88 I have never masturbated. How Old Are you?......8? PS: its a joke He is 42, and has never masturbated. Yeah, I can believe that.

Missokyst -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 8:43:27 PM)
I have to agree with that. Nothing compares to that thing, it is relatively quiet (especially if you let the batteries wear down), it is powerful, and it fits. I found mine in the original brand name on Ebay for about 30 bucks. quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama It wasn't easy before the Eroscillator...at 2,300 oscillations per minute, no other vibe comes close!

littlewonder -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 8:45:48 PM)
I've used vibes including that one on myself and they don't do anything when I use them but when he uses them on me they help me to climax. I think it's simply that for me orgasms are tied to the intimacy I have with a man.

Hisprettybaby -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 9:14:28 PM)
I don't really fantasize. I just grab my Hitachi and think about what I'm actually doing. It works really well.

roscho -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 9:23:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby I don't really fantasize. I just grab my Hitachi and think about what I'm actually doing. It works really well. So... Where is your mind? Nowhere? Just totally in the moment? I understand not fantasizing, but don't understand nothing happening intellectually.

Missokyst -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 10:49:02 PM)
I have always been sexual. My first orgasm was years before my first intimate partner. I could not imagine it any other way. Intimacy for me is not necessarily sexual, it is sharing, caring, and feeling a genuine desire to see that someone is happy. I think of feelings when I think of intimacy. I think of sex.. well.. pretty much all the time. quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder I've used vibes including that one on myself and they don't do anything when I use them but when he uses them on me they help me to climax. I think it's simply that for me orgasms are tied to the intimacy I have with a man.

Missokyst -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 10:58:09 PM)
I am not Hpb up there but for me, taking it without thought is not really without thought. It is feeling the quivery buildup, the rise in body heat, the blood coursing through my veins, and swelling body parts that were not effected before playing. It is listening to the quickening beat that rings through my ears, tasting the tangy saltiness of my flesh, or the rapidly cooling skin which is covered with sweat. It is feeling the rise of pressure as I come closer to climax, or the tightness of my nipples which feel like they are pulsing with arousal. Just because one does not need to think of a past event, a person, or a fantasy they dream on, does not mean nothing is happening upstairs. Desire is happening upstairs, or need, or simply scratching that itch which drives you crazy. quote: ORIGINAL: roscho quote: ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby I don't really fantasize. I just grab my Hitachi and think about what I'm actually doing. It works really well. So... Where is your mind? Nowhere? Just totally in the moment? I understand not fantasizing, but don't understand nothing happening intellectually.

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