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Missokyst -> Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 8:42:13 AM)

Over on that other kink site forum there is a tread about whether or not people use kinky or nilla fantasies to masturbate. Not surprisingly nearly everyone said kinky, often going on about how MUCH more kinky their dreams were than real life.

I may be weird. I rarely have to fantasize about anything when I masturbate. I generally just rub one out. If I am feeling masochistic though, I might add in some torture. And even then I don't fantasize just because I am feeling maso, I just indulge in a few hours of pain/pleasure until I can't stand any more.

I don't think I have used fantasies to drive my self pleasure since I was very young and hadn't done much.

For those of you male and female, who masturbate, do you imagine senarios in your head to make the act more fulfilling?
I get that many of you "do not masturbate", been there done that, but this question is not for you. If you do or when you did, did it require fantasies?
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hlen5 -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 8:48:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst
............ I just indulge in a few hours of pain/pleasure until I can't stand any more.

........... If you do or when you did, did it require fantasies?


A few hours? Wow, you go girl!!

Yes, and my fantasies are far kinkier than my experiences.

Edited For an errant period.



GreedyTop -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 8:57:34 AM)

Misso.. I'm with you.. I'm all about the just rub one out ;)



Missokyst -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 9:05:36 AM)

lol yeah, hours. Basically if it is a maso hit I need, I know how to dangle someone (even me) until they break. I won't mention how in the early years I often got up looking like a panda.



GreedyTop -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 9:09:55 AM)

guess ya dont jump on the bed anymore *winks and grins*



Missokyst -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 9:14:24 AM)

[sm=biggrin.gif]
But I am seriously glad to know at least one other person just rubs one out.



HannahLynn -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 9:22:15 AM)

well i don't masturbate any more, there's no fucking need. but yea i fantasize all the fucking time, and yea my fantasies are way fucking kinkier than real life. i want my real life partners to survive to fuck another day.



myotherself -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 9:25:14 AM)

Depends on my mood. If I'm horny and need to orgasm, then I can rub one out in a minute or so.

But if I'm feeling a little less rushed, I have this fantasy...and no, I won't share! [:D]



poise -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 9:34:35 AM)

Yes, and often.

I used to think masturbating was reserved for those that aren't very
sexually active, but I have found it to be just the opposite with me.
Or maybe I'm just a greedy little slut. [8D]



hlen5 -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 9:38:42 AM)

[:)][;)][:D]



tj444 -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 9:38:43 AM)

ummm,.. well, 98% of the time i watch porn... my fav is anal doggie porn with lots of close-ups, gang bang anal, very rarely even guy-on-guy anal sex... I dunno, does watching porn qualify as fantasy?

While in the past, i have been offered guys into the gang bang thing.. after contemplating that possibility i decided to keep that strictly as a fantasy. I dont think that one has much to do with wanting lots of guys at one time, more to do with wanting endless sex..

Anyway, the other 2% is imagining the same scenarios in my mind without porn..

When i used a toy (many years ago), i rarely watched porn or thought about fantasies, it was all mechanical. And back then, yes, hours, cumming every 2-3 minutes.. who can focus on a fantasy when you are cumming almost constantly? It was a different kind of orgasm tho and i prefer the ones i get now. [:)]



Winterapple -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 9:47:40 AM)

Vanilla fantasies would seem to defeat the
point and the perks of masturbation.
I need a image of some kind in my head.
How elaborate the fantasy is varies.
Sometimes it's War and Peace, sometimes
it's a Ziggy cartoon.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 10:06:25 AM)

I don't fantasize when I masturbate. What for? Fantasies are for killing time!



Kana -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 10:09:53 AM)

I wouldn't call em so much fantasies as things that are gonna cause future screams



Missokyst -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 10:21:56 AM)

I am with you on that point. If I am getting sex, I want more sex. LOTS more. So I tend to masturbate daily if I have an active love life. lol I could never understand when people say they don't have a need because they have someone. When I have someone I am constantly in need. Sex, orgasm and torture are all I think of when there is an open moment of time.
quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Yes, and often.

I used to think masturbating was reserved for those that aren't very
sexually active, but I have found it to be just the opposite with me.
Or maybe I'm just a greedy little slut. [8D]




Missokyst -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 10:23:21 AM)

heh.. yep. I think that's where things go wonky for me. I have no time to think.

quote:

ORIGINAL: tj444
who can focus on a fantasy when you are cumming almost constantly? It was a different kind of orgasm tho and i prefer the ones i get now. [:)]





PeonForHer -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 10:24:38 AM)

I can get obsessed with a specific idea for a while then, pop, it's gone just as suddenly as it appeared. To take its place is my generic fantasy world - that is, a world in which I've somehow landed (by means of crashed spaceship, magic, who cares) in which I'm used in many and various ways. This new world is just a symbolic 'licence', of course, for anything and everything kinky. It serves to wipe away any lingering practical/moral barriers I might have (which by now are precious few, I like to think).



GreedyTop -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 10:42:59 AM)

so, Peon.. come whisper your fantasies in my ear ;)



ashjor911 -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 10:44:27 AM)

fantasies.... hmmmmmmm lets see.....

All the Fucking Time.....
1- Sativa Rose..... she apperas to be from Iraq (in my own fantacy)
2- Ashley Fires.
& my Personal Favorit..... Keegan Skyy..... I Miss you So Much Keegan... I know you are married now....



MadAxeman -> RE: Masturbation.. fantasies? (10/20/2011 2:12:54 PM)

I recall past experiences and improve them.
Some ex girlfriends have no idea how much hotter they are now, in my head.

Best thing about fantasy is, you're always the star of the show.
Go to it you sexy people.

'Rub one out' seems a little wan.
'Crack one off' has more verve, implying possible ricochets.



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