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RE: Referring to people as objects. - 6/19/2011 11:46:18 AM   
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RE: Referring to people as objects. - 6/19/2011 12:33:26 PM   
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RE: Referring to people as objects. - 6/19/2011 12:36:29 PM   
Icarys


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RE: Referring to people as objects. - 6/19/2011 12:53:15 PM   
MasterSlaveLA


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ORIGINAL: LoveSparkie

Maybe I'm just being overly sensative here..



Actually, you are... as you're only seeing it from two perspectives:

1)  The Jerk that views/refers to their sub/slave as "it".

2)  The sub/slave who must have "low self-esteem" to allow this.

What you're missing is... the sub/slave who ENJOYS/DESIRES to be an "it" and their Owner's property.

What you're also missing is that many a 'nilla would view YOU as having "low self-esteem" for wanting to submit to another. 

Clearly objectification to this degree is not your thing.  However, those who both enjoy and seek such a dynamic is neither a definitive example of an Owner who is a Jerk, or a sub/slave with "low self-esteem". 

Remember... if one prefers the thorns to the rose, then the thorns are the rose.



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RE: Referring to people as objects. - 6/19/2011 1:02:02 PM   
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It rubs the lotion on it's skin, or else it gets the hose again!!!






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RE: Referring to people as objects. - 6/19/2011 1:04:22 PM   
Icarys


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RE: Referring to people as objects. - 6/20/2011 9:41:25 AM   
DesFIP


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ORIGINAL: Back2theFuture

*triumphant laugher* She can't use that since she herself is a "Resident Flying Monkey". BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA! I win! *randomly throws monkeys at everyone*



Trying to decide if being hit by a randomly thrown monkey is worse than being hit by monkey poo.


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RE: Referring to people as objects. - 6/20/2011 9:46:10 AM   
sexyred1


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ORIGINAL: myotherself

*blink blink*

dammit - THAT'S why I failed biology 101!



No, you failed bilogy class. In that class they make women pregante.

Please pay attention or meet me after school.

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RE: Referring to people as objects. - 6/20/2011 9:50:00 AM   
leadership527


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Trying to decide if being hit by a randomly thrown monkey is worse than being hit by monkey poo.

I should think it would depend a lot on the monkey in question and how recently it pood. I mean... if the monkey poos mid-toss, then you're going to have both monkey and poo coming at you. That just can't turn out well. Then, of course, the monkey might arrive and THEN poo on you... also a bad thing. In the unlikely event you end up with a monkey and no monkey poo, then it's going to depend on how much the monkey in question likes you I think.

We need a study and some double-blind tests with a control group.


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RE: Referring to people as objects. - 6/20/2011 11:47:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: leadership527
We need a study and some double-blind tests with a control group.


i hesitate to ask, but in this situation, WHAT is the control group?

pam

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RE: Referring to people as objects. - 6/20/2011 2:18:14 PM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		when it meets everyones needs.
when its done sensitively
when its done in fun
when its done with affection ..... its all ok.

i have healthy self esteem and i dont enjoy objectification or humiliation or to be de-humanised either, but ive been referred to as 'it' and it made my heart melt.  in the moment it can be kinda nice.  he did it with a smile and a slap on my arse and i responded very happily.

but i agree, sometimes it shrieks a lack of basic human emotion and detachment and that can be a bit wierd to people just finding stuff out.  in the end you start to understand that everyone here is out for what they want and how they want it and if they can find their counterpart then its all good.

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RE: Referring to people as objects. - 6/29/2011 4:29:49 PM   
lovetoslave


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Status: offline 		To each their own, but I wonder about those newbies that say things like "I have no purpose other than to have my cunt used by whomever wants to use it'. It makes me want to have a cup of tea with them and explain that they are worth more. But hey, if you like that sort of thing, go ahead!

I would rather have a sub who knows how special she is to me. My precious little toy who I love and respect. I would hate to think that they really believe they have no purpose in life other than to please me.

No judgements here. Just saying, this is me.

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