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ORIGINAL: LoveSparkie

or the subs that are single that say things like "It is worthless and only here to be your cunt slave" ect..ect..

Like I said, I might just be too sensative but I want scream at these people sometimes.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I just object to being verbally triviallized, personally..

IME, that leads to, at best, being marginalized (if not worse)

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ORIGINAL: LoveSparkie


or the subs that are single that say things like "It is worthless and only here to be your cunt slave" ect..ect..

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ORIGINAL: Augustana

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ORIGINAL: LoveSparkie

or the subs that are single that say things like "It is worthless and only here to be your cunt slave" ect..ect..

Like I said, I might just be too sensative but I want scream at these people sometimes.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I just object to being verbally triviallized, personally..

IME, that leads to, at best, being marginalized (if not worse)

Here's the thing ... if the D type does it despite the wishes of the s type then its just the same as any other non-consensual part of a relationship. Its either something your sort out, or you decide to get out.

I've been in Ds relationships where I was objectified - sometimes it was something we both wanted and pleased everyone thank you very much, once it was something he wanted and I didn't know better than to negotiate and it messed me up a bit, and once it was something that was agreed going in and though it worked for a while ultimately we put aside because we didn't need it as much as we thought we did.

That said I was engaging in that behaviour as an intelligent, empowered, ambitious and independent young woman who has sorted out her self esteem issues and appreciated her own value regardless of what anyone else thought. Watching someone emotionally fragile being objectified is painful for me ... but is it for them?

You often don't know what goes on behind the closed doors of a relationship. You wouldn't necessarily assume that a sub who had had the living daylights played out of them in a club would go home and be left uncared for. Likewise you can't assume that public objectification doesn't become a loving and attentive relationship behind closed doors.

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This has been MY experience, and I am not saying it holds true in ANYONE ELSES experinces but mine [/quote/ bit?

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(in reply to Augustana)

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ORIGINAL: LoveSparkie
Like I said, I might just be too sensative but I want scream at these people sometimes.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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ORIGINAL: Augustana

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ORIGINAL: LoveSparkie

or the subs that are single that say things like "It is worthless and only here to be your cunt slave" ect..ect..

Like I said, I might just be too sensative but I want scream at these people sometimes.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I just object to being verbally triviallized, personally..

IME, that leads to, at best, being marginalized (if not worse)

Here's the thing ... if the D type does it despite the wishes of the s type then its just the same as any other non-consensual part of a relationship. Its either something your sort out, or you decide to get out.

I've been in Ds relationships where I was objectified - sometimes it was something we both wanted and pleased everyone thank you very much, once it was something he wanted and I didn't know better than to negotiate and it messed me up a bit, and once it was something that was agreed going in and though it worked for a while ultimately we put aside because we didn't need it as much as we thought we did.

That said I was engaging in that behaviour as an intelligent, empowered, ambitious and independent young woman who has sorted out her self esteem issues and appreciated her own value regardless of what anyone else thought. Watching someone emotionally fragile being objectified is painful for me ... but is it for them?

You often don't know what goes on behind the closed doors of a relationship. You wouldn't necessarily assume that a sub who had had the living daylights played out of them in a club would go home and be left uncared for. Likewise you can't assume that public objectification doesn't become a loving and attentive relationship behind closed doors.

so you missed the IN MY EXPERIENCE (IME) bit, as well as the

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This has been MY experience, and I am not saying it holds true in ANYONE ELSES experinces but mine [/quote/ bit?

Apologies ... that was an utter quote fail! ... I was aiming to only put in your bit about the in your experiences! As in

No offence intended at all, sincerest apologies for my mistake.

(in reply to GreedyTop)

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Example: The doms that say "It will serve me whenever I please. It will have no say in what goes on. It will please my friends when I say if I so choose." ect ect..

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ORIGINAL: Sunny27

To Dark Steven, In bilogy class it's said that men have an X and Y chromosome and that women have 2 X chromosomes these chromosomes determine the sex of the baby they will have ie the man can pregante the woman with either an X/Y chromosome! Either way the woman can still have either a girl or boy!Hope that helps!

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ORIGINAL: Back2theFuture



Someone please tell me I am not going batshit crazy and that this was just very random....

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
batshit crazy is randomly throwing monkeys ;)