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NyxNymph -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 9:33:53 AM)
I'm agreeing with most of the posts I'm seeing, it's all about compatability. Sometimes you feel compelled to submit to one, while the mere thought of submitting to another makes you want to turn tail and run. I thought I was purely Domme, until I found one I felt compelled to submit to, now's he's my little exception to the Dommely rule. In a sense I think all submissives want to feel "conquered" it just depends on the sub what that will entail, submission is earned, the "wild" ones just take a little more convincing and some dominants don't like that, and that's their thing, it's just finding a person with the same ideas

slaverosebeauty -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 9:42:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 it has been said that a wild sub cannot be tamed because they are not a sub at all. besides myself, are there other subs out there that people view as untameable? I have been told that I am an 'untameable slave,'does that count?? I don't think its true, because a few men have gotten to calmed down, not many, but a few [they know who they are] [;)]. Being untameable just makes things more interesting and keeps a relationship lively. I am ornery, and I know that, so I don't think or look as being untameable as a negative thing, it just makes life and a relationship more interesting and more fun; it also seperates the Masters from the boys.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 9:47:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty Being untameable just makes things more interesting and keeps a relationship lively. I am ornery, and I know that, so I don't think or look as being untameable as a negative thing, it just makes life and a relationship more interesting and more fun; it also seperates the Masters from the boys. No it separates the ones who don't think you're worth their time and energy from the ones who do. I like forceplay scenes, but I don't want a forced relationship. I find "tame me!" submissives to be too distracting and pushy.

Proprietrix -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 10:26:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 it has been said that a wild sub cannot be tamed because they are not a sub at all. besides myself, are there other subs out there that people view as untameable? In answer to your question.... I only see submissives as "untameable" if they don't want to be tamed. If they want to be tamed, then yes, they are tameable.

slaverosebeauty -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 10:27:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty Being untameable just makes things more interesting and keeps a relationship lively. I am ornery, and I know that, so I don't think or look as being untameable as a negative thing, it just makes life and a relationship more interesting and more fun; it also seperates the Masters from the boys. No it separates the ones who don't think you're worth their time and energy from the ones who do. I like forceplay scenes, but I don't want a forced relationship. I find "tame me!" submissives to be too distracting and pushy. No forced relationship, just a lively one. I don't ask anyone to tame me, only to see beyond what they see online and to see into my spirit. If love is the ultimate goal, then any time and energy spent, is worth it. Besides, who would WANT to break a slave or a submissive. Its that quality that draws a top to them in the first place, unless they just want a conquest and to say that they did it, in which case, that changes everything.

michaelGA2 -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 2:50:39 PM)
thing is, all i ever wanted to do is serve, yet the opportunities always seem miles away. nobody will ever know.

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 2:54:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 thing is, all i ever wanted to do is serve, yet the opportunities always seem miles away. nobody will ever know. Correct. Nobody will ever know unless you step up to the plate and make changes in your situations that make finding someone to serve more feasible. But then, that would require more work than just firing up the computer. This is nothing new. For at least the last year, you post over and over again about not being able to find someone, but it seems you do nothing to make that happen except post over and over again about how you can't find someone. Do you really expect anything to change when you don't actively make changes? Honestly, I fully 100% believe you like shooting yourself in the foot.

Proprietrix -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 2:56:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 thing is, all i ever wanted to do is serve, yet the opportunities always seem miles away. nobody will ever know. Hows about you get a car, drive to a munch group, and meet some people?

TedEbear -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 5:30:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 it has been said that a wild sub cannot be tamed because they are not a sub at all. besides myself, are there other subs out there that people view as untameable? How do you tame a wild sub? If the subs a he, grab him firmly by the balls and squeeze as needed. [:D]

CrappyDom -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 6:07:03 PM)
Rose, I realize that certain movements of yours emit an air of roses and jasmine but there are those amongt us here who can detect the faint smell of bovine wafting in from the WC.

ropesubby39 -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 6:20:46 PM)
I was told many times that because i have a spirit that i wasnt a real sub and that no men could tame me, but it took the right person to correct that, my present Dom.

amayos -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 6:27:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 how do you tame a wild sub? I don't. A human being is not a beast alien to the meaning of words. I will talk, and she will either listen or not. I don't need to kneel and plead or make her bleed to convince her. There are many pretty girls. I can find another.

TeeGO -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 7:09:28 PM)
Wyy doesn't some billion dollar corporation come along out of the blue and make me their CEO and pay me millions of dollars? Is it my inexperience? Is it because I'm not qualified? No, they are just jellus that eyemm 2 smawrt 4 them.

unquenchable -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 7:14:37 PM)
quote: it has been said that a wild sub cannot be tamed because they are not a sub at all. besides myself quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 it has been said that a wild sub cannot be tamed because they are not a sub at all. besides myself, are there other subs out there that people view as untameable? Not sure why anyone would want to tame me. un---------

Level -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 7:27:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty Being untameable just makes things more interesting and keeps a relationship lively. I am ornery, and I know that, so I don't think or look as being untameable as a negative thing, it just makes life and a relationship more interesting and more fun; it also seperates the Masters from the boys. No it separates the ones who don't think you're worth their time and energy from the ones who do. I like forceplay scenes, but I don't want a forced relationship. I find "tame me!" submissives to be too distracting and pushy. No forced relationship, just a lively one. I don't ask anyone to tame me, only to see beyond what they see online and to see into my spirit. If love is the ultimate goal, then any time and energy spent, is worth it. Besides, who would WANT to break a slave or a submissive. Its that quality that draws a top to them in the first place, unless they just want a conquest and to say that they did it, in which case, that changes everything. *It isn't a case of "breaking" anything...... nor of wanting one that is a mindless automaton....but more of a desire for one that is not a pain in the ass. One that submits, and is submissive.*

MsNashville -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 7:36:27 PM)
I agree with much of what has been said in these postings. There is a huge difference in having an opinion and being disrespectful. There is Never an excuse to be disrespectful to your Domme/Dom. I have one that is also a challenge and still learning. Time will tell if he truly can handle the lifestyle, but my patience with him will only go so far and last so long. You can not expect your Domme/Dom to deal with behavior that is not devoted or respectful, no matter who you are. As I explained to my pet, when he is not behaving in a devoted manner it breaks my trust in him. Therefore if pushed or tested too many times I do not see that any Domme/Dom will endlessly spend time and energy on one who does not show his or her willingness to be the pet that is wanted by his or her Domme/Dom. If this is a pattern for the sub perhaps they need to determine if they are sub or switch within themself. There are many sub males wanting the place of any pet that a Mistress has as it is. I realize the situation is not the same with female subs and Masters, although a true Master who is intelligent and wise will draw the best subs before those who aren't. Good luck and wise choices to us all on both sides!!!! Ms Nashville

ownedgirlie -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/8/2006 10:42:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TeeGO Wyy doesn't some billion dollar corporation come along out of the blue and make me their CEO and pay me millions of dollars? Is it my inexperience? Is it because I'm not qualified? No, they are just jellus that eyemm 2 smawrt 4 them. Hahahaha! Thanks for the laugh!! [:D]

mons -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/9/2006 1:01:01 AM)
Lady Hugs greetings I totally agree with you I have one sub who for some time would be so untameable i told him to leave me alone. Well surpise he has made a turn around and is now one very sweet and loving slave he wanted attetions so much, he did not know how to act. Now he is mine and well behave. It takes someone like Lady Hugs who see a submissive or slave and see through what they are, thank you ladyhugs mons/jane

asiandoll27 -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/9/2006 3:24:49 AM)
Untamable -- dont think that person exists, even someone as strong willed as me has learned that I better have respect - or else face the repercussions of my actions in a usually painful experience. Once is enough to learn to listen.

TigerLily23 -> RE: how do you tame a wild sub? (5/9/2006 3:28:46 AM)
Question...are you a sub or a slave?...submissives submit...slaves serve & obey....

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