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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/22/2011 7:07:12 AM

Aileen1968

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Vive l'Cougar!!!

Sadly, us East Coast gals must be wary.

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/22/2011 7:43:08 AM

BeachMystress

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BTW: if your mentor wants to have sex with you or engage in a power dynamic, that's not a mentor, it's a predator.

Ditto! Very important point!

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/22/2011 5:23:40 PM

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Vive l'Cougar!!!

Sadly, us East Coast gals must be wary.

Move West Young Lady..Move WEST!!!!! WESTWARD HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/22/2011 6:17:06 PM

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Oh, and no Olive Garden, EVER.

Then Fazoli's it is.

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/23/2011 1:17:39 PM

JoelMB

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Oooo my I do heart courgar, thanks for advice gents,

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/23/2011 4:22:37 PM

ResidentSadist

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It just hard find decent mentor being young guy, munch are hard to get to. If any can push in right direction I would be thankful.

Here is a list of BDSM groups, clubs, munches etc in NJ

NJ Links at DomSubFriends.com

My best advice is to hang out on the scene and when you see someone who's style impresses you, ask them to teach you. In the meantime, to get a general working knowledge of BDSM, the leather societies, relationship styles etc, try looking at some of the books in link from my sig.

Good luck

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