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I am trying to find a mentor - 3/20/2011 7:33:43 PM   
JoelMB


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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/20/2011 7:54:03 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		The best place to find a Mentor is at your local munch.  Get to know the people.  Find someone you click with.  Ask that person to give you some advice. 

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/20/2011 8:16:06 PM   
ShoreBound149


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What part of NJ?

I can perhaps direct you to a place or two where freaky misfits hang out.

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/20/2011 8:18:34 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Hey Joel, nice to see you here. Why do you need a mentor?

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/20/2011 8:26:11 PM   
ShoreBound149


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If you're in Northeast NJ and and ya dig red heads you should pounce.

Grab a coupon to the Olive Garden and move in.....consider this your first mentee assignment


Must have been the cock shot..

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/20/2011 8:33:32 PM   
sexyred1


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We already are acquainted.

Oh, and no Olive Garden, EVER.



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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/20/2011 8:46:17 PM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		Sooooo go mentor the wee laddy inside and out.... He seems a nice enough lad.. You on the other hand are some wondrously sexy lass.. 

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/20/2011 8:48:50 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Oh, thanks IronBear. But I don't want to mentor anyone; I prefer someone more on my level.

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/20/2011 8:49:01 PM   
ShoreBound149


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I often wonder how much more of my seed I could have spread amongst the tri-sate's MILF population if I had the internet at 20.

Joel is now my official mentee...Do not soil him.

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/20/2011 8:55:47 PM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Oh, thanks IronBear. But I don't want to mentor anyone; I prefer someone more on my level.


I can relate to that too. I am very discerning as to who I mentor in the personal protection field and also prefer advanced students. I find it enjoyable to me mentoring someone close to my own level and there is always the hope that the student will indeed surpass the Master as has happened on several occasions. the same also applies in Lodge where I have a mentoring class for hopefuls who are at mid level of initiations and training.. ..


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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/21/2011 4:34:07 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Either meet people and make friends in your local community. Or read the boards and when you find yourself agreeing with one person most of the time, write them and ask if they would mind giving you some advice.

Plus just post on the forums and you won't get one mentor, you'll get dozens of thought provoking posts.


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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/21/2011 5:09:44 PM   
frazzle


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Status: offline 		i dont mentor as such, but i do seem to be on the other end of the phone or msn to a lot of young switches who just want info, not wank fodder.

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/21/2011 11:28:31 PM   
JoelMB


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Status: offline 		It just hard find decent mentor being young guy, munch are hard to get to. If any can push in right direction I would be thankful.

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/21/2011 11:34:32 PM   
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quote:

Plus just post on the forums and you won't get one mentor, you'll get dozens of thought provoking posts.


Isnt that like tossing a sheep to the lions?

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/22/2011 2:02:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: JoelMB

It just hard find decent mentor being young guy, munch are hard to get to. If any can push in right direction I would be thankful.


I'm getting the vibe that you want your Mentor to be a Dominant? I do not recommend that. You're better off with someone of your own orientation (male sub for male sub, Female Domme for Female Domme.) Another male sub can help you deal with feelings, problems and what to expect FROM THE MALE SUB VIEWPOINT. If you're looking for a Dominant to be the mentor, what you're doing is trying to get someone to teach or train you.

Do what so many of us had to do when we were new or didn't live near munches.. READ. The search engine is your friend.  If you'd like a list of links to start with, try http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Beachs_Ds_links/ Then when you're old enough to get yourself to munches and dungeons, via either car or bus, you can find guys who can share some experience with you. (My husband spent three hours on a bus to attend his first munch, so don't even say that isn't an option. Three months later he met me and we've been together since. If you want it bad enough, you'll work for it!) PA is a fairly active state, munch wise. http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgspenn.html#PA


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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/22/2011 2:44:29 AM   
NocturnalStalker


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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/22/2011 5:32:20 AM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

quote:

Plus just post on the forums and you won't get one mentor, you'll get dozens of thought provoking posts.


Isnt that like tossing a sheep to the lions?


More like tossing a young lamb like virgin male to a pack of sex starved GOUGARS


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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/22/2011 6:53:17 AM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: IronBear

More like tossing a young lamb like virgin male to a pack of sex starved GOUGARS



I love GOUGARS!

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/22/2011 7:03:49 AM   
daintydimples


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Status: offline 		FL has a mentors forum, for those offering and those seeking a mentor. You could start there. BTW: if your mentor wants to have sex with you or engage in a power dynamic, that's not a mentor, it's a predator.

Editing for a stupid grammatical error which I actually caught.


< Message edited by daintydimples -- 3/22/2011 7:04:50 AM >

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RE: I am trying to find a mentor - 3/22/2011 7:03:53 AM   
IronBear


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