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RE: In reference to control. - 7/26/2010 10:38:03 AM   
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And a lot of the big bad Internet dominants are also s.i.n.g.l.e.

There's a reason for it.

~porcelaine


Enough said.


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RE: In reference to control. - 7/26/2010 10:48:47 AM   
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Oh for fuck's sake - how dare you come on here and question the mighty ones with your shocking spelling and grammar. You've left me in such a rage I want to go out and hurt something small and furry. Grrr.

<Joking of course, well - except for the spelling and grammar ;-) >


he's not kidding either, look what he did to this poor hamster!





I used to go with a girl that looked like that once, but she was mean, so I left her.

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RE: In reference to control. - 7/26/2010 10:55:15 AM   
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RE: In reference to control. - 7/26/2010 11:18:52 AM   
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RE: In reference to control. - 7/26/2010 1:28:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

quote:

ORIGINAL: lally2

quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

Oh for fuck's sake - how dare you come on here and question the mighty ones with your shocking spelling and grammar. You've left me in such a rage I want to go out and hurt something small and furry. Grrr.

<Joking of course, well - except for the spelling and grammar ;-) >


he's not kidding either, look what he did to this poor hamster!





I used to go with a girl that looked like that once, but she was mean, so I left her.


i would hope you left the district altogether! - some serious in-breeding issues going on around there!!

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RE: In reference to control. - 7/26/2010 7:00:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail




I used to go with a girl that looked like that once, but she was mean, so I left her.


quote:

ORIGINAL: lally2
i would hope you left the district altogether! - some serious in-breeding issues going on around there!!


BEHOLD!!!!!!! PMT + GPS 




Time to bunker up and check the arsenal Ron me old China..


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RE: In reference to control. - 7/26/2010 8:26:16 PM   
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RE: In reference to control. - 7/27/2010 1:20:11 AM   
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RE: In reference to control. - 7/27/2010 8:53:57 AM   
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Lally, she's an American actress. I think she's in jail right now. She's been the butt of jokes for her substance abuse issues, if memory serves.

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RE: In reference to control. - 7/27/2010 12:28:44 PM   
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RE: In reference to control. - 7/27/2010 9:37:31 PM   
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Thus my repeated emphasis on self mastery, by which one earns respect and honor that inspires another to freely share more of themself. The ultimate question is: does one want their partner to be open and sharing, or closed and defensive?

Also, yet another excellent response from Zevar.

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RE: In reference to control. - 7/28/2010 5:20:31 AM   
Icarys


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And a lot of the big bad Internet dominants are also s.i.n.g.l.e.

There's a reason for it.

~porcelaine


Not that you were talking to me or anything because of course there are a ton of single people on both sides. I personally don't base my self worth as a human being/dominant on whether or not I'm with someone. Besides..even dickheads can find a mate..battered women shelters are proof enough.

I'm not sure about the rest of you.

I sure that's not what you meant though.


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RE: In reference to control. - 7/28/2010 6:20:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lally2

ok , whats GPS and whose Lindsey Lohan - i know i live a sheltered life


G.P.S.  Global Positioning System/Satellite  Most Iphones, have them factory installed, many new cars do too so you can be tracked or help can find you are lost. I use one in a boat to locate ,my favourite fishing spots and never go bush without one and a sat phone for security in emergencies... 

Just think, the evil bitch in the throws of PMT, can track you using the GPS so no matter where you hide she can find your body.


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RE: In reference to control. - 7/28/2010 6:23:38 AM   
IronBear


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RE: In reference to control. - 7/28/2010 7:28:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

Not that you were talking to me or anything because of course there are a ton of single people on both sides. I personally don't base my self worth as a human being/dominant on whether or not I'm with someone. Besides..even dickheads can find a mate..battered women shelters are proof enough.

I'm not sure about the rest of you.

I sure that's not what you meant though.


I don't base my self worth on any of this. But then again, I'm not apt to believe a man is dominant merely because he says so either. As with most things you choose the product that suits the wearer best. I prefer mine top drawer.

~porcelaine


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RE: In reference to control. - 7/28/2010 8:08:27 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		That sweet lady is one of the many reasons I like you. You know your worth and will not settle for anything less. 

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RE: In reference to control. - 7/28/2010 8:16:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: IronBear

That sweet lady is one of the many reasons I like you. You know your worth and will not settle for anything less. 


Thank you for the compliment.

~porcelaine


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RE: In reference to control. - 7/28/2010 2:50:58 PM   
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I'm not apt to believe a man is dominant merely because he says so either.


Well if "we" practice what we preach then anyone who decides to call themselves Dominant would be just that.

Ya know..The old one persons eww is another's yum.

Truth is..Most of us don't really believe that..It just sounds good when we say it.

(Maybe this is what is rally being said)
I'm all for people doing whatever they want and calling themselves by any name they choose on a general level..but I could easily say that I don't find a whole lot of women on this board that I've watched for some time submissive on a personal level. I'm still "humble" enough to know it's only by one persons standard that I speak from.

I also realize that I haven't met anyone from the boards either..so as one person stated..I believe it was julia...We have only the words to go by that we see here.(paraphrase)

I still like to think I'm a fairly good judge of a person even with the limited input...I don't see too many others refraining from the activity either. I do however try to keep all of that above in mind when doing it..I keep a sliding scale going with people.

I'm confident enough to know who I am.  I'm sure you are as well.

I've went of on a bit of a tangent again


< Message edited by Icarys -- 7/28/2010 2:52:43 PM >

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RE: In reference to control. - 7/28/2010 3:44:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

Well if "we" practice what we preach then anyone who decides to call themselves Dominant would be just that.


A conscionable person can admit what he doesn't know. It goes beyond labels and reflects character and personal responsibility. Telling someone you can do something you're unable to do and impacting two lives through shoddy choices is not okay. This isn't embellishing your golf handicap. The stakes are a bit larger. Or maybe I see the role differently. One never knows.

quote:

(Maybe this is what is rally being said)
I'm all for people doing whatever they want and calling themselves by any name they choose on a general level..but I could easily say that I don't find a whole lot of women on this board that I've watched for some time submissive on a personal level. I'm still "humble" enough to know it's only by one persons standard that I speak from.


I don't judge submissive women in that regard. We demonstrate our submissiveness differently and that's okay.

However, I question your ability to judge submission that has never had your imprint. It wouldn't fit your standard because she isn't adhering to your will. As a matter of fact, you have no influence at all. I would expect many differences.

I would think you can see glimpses of her character and maybe her countenance. But her submission? That's a pretty big leap.

~porcelaine


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RE: In reference to control. - 7/28/2010 6:30:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't judge submissive women in that regard. We demonstrate our submissiveness differently and that's okay.

However, I question your ability to judge submission that has never had your imprint. It wouldn't fit your standard because she isn't adhering to your will.


Brava darling!

To have a complete brat moment..What she said!

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