lally2
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ORIGINAL: GotSteel
Seems like this is an ask four people get five answers sort of topic. It seems to me (and I could be entirely off base as I just have a few sentences to go by) as though something about asking is causing you to feel uncomfortable, embarrassed, awkward or some other emotion that's not conducive to cumming. Maybe worrying that you'll mess up is causing you to mess up or you're worrying he'll say no or et cetera et cetera.
The only solution I know for this is more practice with as little stress and as much fun as possible.
I'm also wondering about a couple of things: is this a fairly new relationship, do you have difficulty orgasming outside of this scenario or with him in general?
i spose i do start worrying about when i should ask and i think i do feel a little bit awkward about asking too, youre right - asking permission for anything hits hard on my 'proud' button, i really have to screw myself up to ask for permission on anything - i find it humiliating lol.
it is a new relationship, yes and so yes, thats a factor - i dont usually have a problem with my O's but if im feeling self concious that can get in the way sometimes. but if this lifestyle has taught me anything its to let it all hang out
thanks for youre suggestions and thoughts. x
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So all I have to do in order to serve him, is to work out exactly how improbable he is, feed that figure into the finite improbability generator, give him a fresh cup of really hot tea ... and turn him on!
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