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RE: extreams - 12/28/2009 6:56:41 AM   
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extreme is dynamic
step by step it seem to become less extreme...
(exceptiosn are is tthe standard hard limit stuff)


by definition extreme is what your feeling at the moment

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RE: extreams - 12/28/2009 7:06:24 AM   
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sleepy I feel..not very extreme


extreme ~ far beyond the standard norm ( or something like that)

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RE: extreams - 12/28/2009 7:15:06 AM   
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sleepy I feel..not very extreme


extreme ~ far beyond the standard norm ( or something like that)
\

extremely sleepy?

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RE: extreams - 12/28/2009 7:20:16 AM   
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i love women but i am able to get into a mindset with a woman where i really mean all the nasty things i say to her and i want her to realize it at the time

but every thing i speak of is within the context of a relationship

some just disapprove of my proclivities and through that of those of other women, damn book burners

i'm open about it, it's in what i've written


What on earth are you trying to say here? Anyone involved in relationships hopefully gets into the mindset of each other and within the context of their relationship they mean all the nasty things they do or say. It is called consensuality. I don't get why you care about those who disapprove of your proclivities. When you say through other women, what does that even mean? If someone refuses you, do you think that is extreme or are you trying to justify your needs through airing your grievances here?

You seem to post many threads trying to find an excuse for your failure to connect with a woman in a meaningful way, but you never examine your role in this. You seek answers from those on the forum, but I do not think you really do want to know. You just like to talk out loud.

You never actually acknowledge that you understand the answers you are given and that is just sad. The thing that irks me the most is that when you get an answer that you dislike, you tell the person that they should not be judging your intent by what you wrote.

But, dude, how else can anyone reply to your without interpretation of your words?

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RE: extreams - 12/28/2009 7:21:29 AM   
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extremely sleepy?


not anymore, coffee solved it

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RE: extreams - 12/28/2009 7:29:15 AM   
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quote:

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i love women but i am able to get into a mindset with a woman where i really mean all the nasty things i say to her and i want her to realize it at the time

but every thing i speak of is within the context of a relationship

some just disapprove of my proclivities and through that of those of other women, damn book burners

i'm open about it, it's in what i've written


What on earth are you trying to say here? Anyone involved in relationships hopefully gets into the mindset of each other and within the context of their relationship they mean all the nasty things they do or say. It is called consensuality. I don't get why you care about those who disapprove of your proclivities. When you say through other women, what does that even mean? If someone refuses you, do you think that is extreme or are you trying to justify your needs through airing your grievances here?

You seem to post many threads trying to find an excuse for your failure to connect with a woman in a meaningful way, but you never examine your role in this. You seek answers from those on the forum, but I do not think you really do want to know. You just like to talk out loud.

You never actually acknowledge that you understand the answers you are given and that is just sad. The thing that irks me the most is that when you get an answer that you dislike, you tell the person that they should not be judging your intent by what you wrote.

But, dude, how else can anyone reply to your without interpretation of your words?



that was quite illogical

#1 i don't get into her mindset, quite impossible, i get into a mindset of my own

# 2 how does consensuality fit in

#3 if they disapprove of what I want, then they in fact disapprove of women that want what I have to offer


what we have here is my failure to connect with you, but I can live with it, honest

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RE: extreams - 12/28/2009 7:39:31 AM   
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I would say nothing is "too extreme" for me because I don't see myself as a dot on a spectrum. I don't define myself as one personality trait (IE submissive or dominant) and then delineate everything that might apply to that trait into a spectrum of "tame" to "extreme" - if there's something I'm not into, like say, fellating a police officer for example, I'm not going to say "That's too extreme a form of submission for me," I'm simply going to say "That's gross. No."



I think this pretty much covers it. Is the OP's question really any different than asking what people's boundaries are?

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RE: extreams - 12/28/2009 7:56:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

quote:

ORIGINAL: Elisabella

I would say nothing is "too extreme" for me because I don't see myself as a dot on a spectrum. I don't define myself as one personality trait (IE submissive or dominant) and then delineate everything that might apply to that trait into a spectrum of "tame" to "extreme" - if there's something I'm not into, like say, fellating a police officer for example, I'm not going to say "That's too extreme a form of submission for me," I'm simply going to say "That's gross. No."



I think this pretty much covers it. Is the OP's question really any different than asking what people's boundaries are?



i guess once a question has been discussed it never has to be discussed again

now can we go back to a flat earth?

we think in words and concepts

changing the words can lead to new insights

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RE: extreams - 12/28/2009 8:04:25 AM   
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Well if you asked me to cut off your dick and feed it into a meat grinder, that would be extreme. Not to say I wouldn't do it, but it would be extreme.

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RE: extreme - 12/28/2009 10:15:01 AM   
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extreme


There...fixed...where is my lollipop?


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RE: extreams - 12/28/2009 10:16:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Elisabella

Extreme sluttiness for a nun is prudery for a prostitute.


Unless the nun is a prostitute.

Which seems to be a rarity, sad to say.

If we weren't meant to have needs of the flesh, why wire us for it?

Health,
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RE: extreams - 12/29/2009 7:22:22 AM   
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Yeah I know I'm troll feeding tonight but fuck it. osf come on, I cordially invite you to the great state of Maine, the rocky coast no less, and you and I shall have a little intervention on this silly little casual cavalier concept of women you have. I may be a slave to my Man, but I actually run a camp, it's called Annie's school for the rehabilitation of douchebag males with overinflated egos and keyboard bravado. I will even waive your entry fee since you are in dire need of such training. Come on, pack up those tighty whities, hop on the bus gus, and learn how to be a real man. This constant little charade of trying to offend is a big fat "YAWN". 


Bravo and witty post, Annie. Sooo clever. Thanks.

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RE: extreams - 12/29/2009 7:27:35 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Elisabella

Extreme sluttiness for a nun is prudery for a prostitute.


Unless the nun is a prostitute.

Which seems to be a rarity, sad to say.

If we weren't meant to have needs of the flesh, why wire us for it?

Health,
al-Aswad.




whores for jesus

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RE: extreams - 12/29/2009 7:30:06 AM   
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Yeah I know I'm troll feeding tonight but fuck it. osf come on, I cordially invite you to the great state of Maine, the rocky coast no less, and you and I shall have a little intervention on this silly little casual cavalier concept of women you have. I may be a slave to my Man, but I actually run a camp, it's called Annie's school for the rehabilitation of douchebag males with overinflated egos and keyboard bravado. I will even waive your entry fee since you are in dire need of such training. Come on, pack up those tighty whities, hop on the bus gus, and learn how to be a real man. This constant little charade of trying to offend is a big fat "YAWN". 


Bravo and witty post, Annie. Sooo clever. Thanks.


answered #10

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RE: extreams - 12/29/2009 7:31:22 AM   
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how extreme is too extreme?

you supply the meaning of extreme




Your ridiculous use of the boards. Smarten up.

Mod 7



Thank you, Mod 7 !!!

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RE: extreams - 12/29/2009 7:37:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: vincentML


quote:

ORIGINAL: ModeratorSeven

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

how extreme is too extreme?

you supply the meaning of extreme




Your ridiculous use of the boards. Smarten up.

Mod 7



Thank you, Mod 7 !!!


you're taking that out of context

it was about threads she thought belonged elsewhere

an entirely different connotation

please people, as was said "context is everything"

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RE: extreams - 12/29/2009 8:04:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: vincentML
quote:

ORIGINAL: ModeratorSeven
quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
how extreme is too extreme?
you supply the meaning of extreme


Your ridiculous use of the boards. Smarten up.

Mod 7



Thank you, Mod 7 !!!


QFE!

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