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extreams - 12/27/2009 4:16:20 PM   
osf


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Status: offline 		how extreme is too extreme?

you supply the meaning of extreme



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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 4:19:25 PM   
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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 4:22:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know if I'd say permanent damage.  After all, things such as cuttings that leave scars are permanent damage and I'm fine with that.

I would have to say harm, which is actually different.


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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 4:23:18 PM   
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permanent damage?


but then define permanent damage cuttings, tats, brands, etc

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 4:24:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I don't know if I'd say permanent damage.  After all, things such as cuttings that leave scars are permanent damage and I'm fine with that.

I would have to say harm, which is actually different.



debilitating

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:07:19 PM   
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Gun play that involves actually shooting someone is too extreme.  (I shot a sub in Reno, just to watch her die?)

A Hemi-powered sex machine is too extreme.  (Not to mention too awesome.)

Ordering your sub to fellate a police officer to get you out of a ticket is too extreme.  (Role-playing it is not however).



i really wouldn't want the ticket

personally i wouldn't have a problem with that, but then i have a casual cavalier concept about the use of a woman

obviously i don't find that extreme as no physical damage is done her

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:16:50 PM   
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Yeah I know I'm troll feeding tonight but fuck it. osf come on, I cordially invite you to the great state of Maine, the rocky coast no less, and you and I shall have a little intervention on this silly little casual cavalier concept of women you have. I may be a slave to my Man, but I actually run a camp, it's called Annie's school for the rehabilitation of douchebag males with overinflated egos and keyboard bravado. I will even waive your entry fee since you are in dire need of such training. Come on, pack up those tighty whities, hop on the bus gus, and learn how to be a real man. This constant little charade of trying to offend is a big fat "YAWN". 

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:17:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23

Gun play that involves actually shooting someone is too extreme.  (I shot a sub in Reno, just to watch her die?)

A Hemi-powered sex machine is too extreme.  (Not to mention too awesome.)

Ordering your sub to fellate a police officer to get you out of a ticket is too extreme.  (Role-playing it is not however).



2 of those 3 are totally doable....

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:19:11 PM   
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Oh and Psychonaut, since I usually am the one getting in trouble with the po-po, you'd be doing the fellating hon.

Oh and lastly....it's spelled "extreme". Fuck sake.


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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:22:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aynne88




Yeah I know I'm troll feeding tonight but fuck it. osf come on, I cordially invite you to the great state of Maine, the rocky coast no less, and you and I shall have a little intervention on this silly little casual cavalier concept of women you have. I may be a slave to my Man, but I actually run a camp, it's called Annie's school for the rehabilitation of douchebag males with overinflated egos and keyboard bravado. I will even waive your entry fee since you are in dire need of such training. Come on, pack up those tighty whities, hop on the bus gus, and learn how to be a real man. This constant little charade of trying to offend is a big fat "YAWN". 


did i say about women or the use of a woman, those are within the context of this entirely different issues

and to say that what i want doesn't go on or is wrong in your eyes is gross ignorance of the, dare i use it "lifestyle"

so keep your petty moralizing to yourself as most outside the "lifestyle" would find your behavior reprehensible, and would they be right or wrong?

and this is about extremes or hadn't you noticed?

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:34:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you are the misognyist you claim, what is the difference between having a cavalier attitude about women as opposed to simply the use of them?  If you truly hate women, or have a mistrust and/or hatred of them, then isn't your attitude toward women, actually about them, not about the mere use of them? 

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:37:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

If you are the misognyist you claim, what is the difference between having a cavalier attitude about women as opposed to simply the use of them?  If you truly hate women, or have a mistrust and/or hatred of them, then isn't your attitude about them, not about the mere use of them? 


you're getting all caught up in a cute little phrase and ignoring most of what i post

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:40:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		can we put the personal moralizing and petty attacks aside and get back to the topic, or go the the clean chat?

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:46:31 PM   
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Well once again I'm chained to the anvil, toothpicks forcing my eyes into a dry strain.

It is good for a submissive to render surrender and obedience unto another's tradition.

This is what I am instructed as disciple, even as the hot irons sear into my tender flesh.

Every year it is repeated, as anniversary, as lesson, as cherished and beholden as breath.

Yes, it is the annual ABC airing of, The Sound of Music, with limited commercial interruption.

How extreme is too extreme?

Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens.
Hickeys on hemorrhoids and warm woolen mittens.

Could hell itself be just outside the door?

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:47:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

If you are the misognyist you claim, what is the difference between having a cavalier attitude about women as opposed to simply the use of them?  If you truly hate women, or have a mistrust and/or hatred of them, then isn't your attitude about them, not about the mere use of them? 


you're getting all caught up in a cute little phrase and ignoring most of what i post


No, not at all.  Mostly, I'm curious as to whether you are using the word misognyist correctly, as a means for describing your attitude regarding women.  I just wonder at the delineation between a woman haters attitude about women, as opposed to their attituded toward the use of them.

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:48:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet


Well once again I'm chained to the anvil, toothpicks forcing my eyes into a dry strain.

It is good for a submissive to render surrender and obedience unto another's tradition.

This is what I am instructed as disciple, even as the hot irons sear into my tender flesh.

Every year it is repeated, as anniversary, as lesson, as cherished and beholden as breath.

Yes, it is the annual ABC airing of, The Sound of Music, with limited commercial interruption.

How extreme is too extreme?

Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens.
Hickeys on hemorrhoids and warm woolen mittens.

Could hell itself be just outside the door?

chia* (the pet)



being chained to an anvil could be extreme if it were tossed over board

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:48:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I tend to view 'extreme' as pressing the very outer boundaries of any limit.  Too extreme, for me, would be going beyond (or being taken beyond) my limit boundaries...

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:53:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		i love women but i am able to get into a mindset with a woman where i really mean all the nasty things i say to her and i want her to realize it at the time

but every thing i speak of is within the context of a relationship

some just disapprove of my proclivities and through that of those of other women, damn book burners

i'm open about it, it's in what i've written

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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:56:07 PM   
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RE: extreams - 12/27/2009 5:56:44 PM   
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I tend to view 'extreme' as pressing the very outer boundaries of any limit.  Too extreme, for me, would be going beyond (or being taken beyond) my limit boundaries...


thats what this thread is about , what your thought are, it's not a box to stand on moralizing

i sincerely hope i don't have to repeat this again

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