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osf -> RE: servant or slave? (12/22/2009 10:44:41 AM)

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Total Power Exchange means that an s'type gives over complete control and decision making to their Dominant partner. in other words it is a total handing over of power/decisions/control to the Dominant. in that regard a slave is *probably* better suited to TPE than a submissive who is more comfortable in a dynamic if they feel they have some control over what happens to them


when someone says total anything i,m skeptical




mnottertail -> RE: servant or slave? (12/22/2009 10:55:00 AM)

well, color me totally flummoxed.




lally2 -> RE: servant or slave? (12/22/2009 11:10:03 AM)


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ORIGINAL: osf

quote:

Total Power Exchange means that an s'type gives over complete control and decision making to their Dominant partner. in other words it is a total handing over of power/decisions/control to the Dominant. in that regard a slave is *probably* better suited to TPE than a submissive who is more comfortable in a dynamic if they feel they have some control over what happens to them


when someone says total anything i,m skeptical



......[8|] i wonder where Resident Sadist is...., you really do need to meet him osf, he's quite a character!





littlewonder -> RE: servant or slave? (12/22/2009 2:56:09 PM)

Depends who I'm with.

With Master I'm both and more. I'm whatever he wants me to be.




osf -> RE: servant or slave? (12/22/2009 2:58:23 PM)

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wonder where Resident Sadist is...., you really do need to meet him osf, he's quite a character


i'm not a sadist, i'm a nice guy that enjoys abusing women




johndafreak -> RE: servant or slave? (12/23/2009 5:12:48 AM)

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No problem at all. Just do keep in mind that the above is the way that I differentiate the two and they may mean something completely different to someone else. [/quotek]

Viva la diff !!  and still, your prior post explains to my comfort zone.

quote:

Total Power Exchange means that an s'type gives over complete control and decision making to their Dominant partner. in other words it is a total handing over of power/decisions/control to the Dominant. in that regard a slave is *probably* better suited to TPE than a submissive who is more comfortable in a dynamic if they feel they have some control over what happens to them.

this also helps a
great deal,
I'm not sure, not saying no, from what you say about TPE and the 'total' part
,  well.... I still like some control.or more that I like to sort of fight back, be a brat, nip heels and maybe that's a act of reserving control

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Why would either automatically equate to humiliation?


 It doesn't..
and there is not much that I could say or would want to say that could "automatically equate" to anything.;p






dreamerdreaming -> RE: servant or slave? (12/23/2009 5:51:12 AM)

Fast reply:

Every slave is a servant to their owner. But not every servant is a slave.




TheGreatGarfield -> RE: servant or slave? (12/26/2009 6:26:55 PM)

I am submissive and I love to serve Its what I am and love to be. I never tried being a slave. I'm not sure how I feel about it. I want to try it for play and see how I like it.




osf -> RE: servant or slave? (12/26/2009 7:00:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: TheGreatGarfield

I am submissive and I love to serve Its what I am and love to be. I never tried being a slave. I'm not sure how I feel about it. I want to try it for play and see how I like it.


you want to play at being what?




TheGreatGarfield -> RE: servant or slave? (12/26/2009 9:00:54 PM)

foreplay.




osf -> RE: servant or slave? (12/26/2009 9:18:31 PM)

you have to pay servants, slaves work for cock (well female slaves anyway)




johndafreak -> RE: servant or slave? (12/26/2009 11:42:28 PM)


Never did like a cock shy slave.




hopelessfool -> RE: servant or slave? (12/27/2009 12:01:30 AM)

...I work for Chickens? What? isnt that insulting to you doms?


anywho Im more of a pet, but if i had to choose servant, because well, i serve really great drinks.




Justme696 -> RE: servant or slave? (12/27/2009 12:22:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: johndafreak


Hey everyone,

Would you rather be a servant or a slave?  Is there a difference?




I can use the slave I own as servant. But I read some "servant" profiles that they do not want the sex part.
Some of them see themselfs as buttler/house maid kinda thingy.
Which doesn't sound bad at all..lol




itsmeinLV -> RE: servant or slave? (12/27/2009 1:05:00 AM)

Servant.




leadership527 -> RE: servant or slave? (12/31/2009 12:18:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: johndafreak
Hey everyone,
Would you rather be a servant or a slave?  Is there a difference?

Trick question for us. Carol would like to be that which pleases me most. I don't think she knows or would care about any distinctions between various terminologies. Her goals are pretty simple really... make the man she loves as happy as possible. You can call that whatever you want and she wouldn't care.




lobodomslavery -> RE: servant or slave? (1/1/2010 6:45:09 AM)

Probably servant. At the moment neither.  Unless it is free service and does not require for me to tribute. Then i would jump at being a servant for someone
kevin




BitaTruble -> RE: servant or slave? (1/1/2010 6:59:42 AM)


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ORIGINAL: osf

slaves work for cock (well female slaves anyway)


That's just wrong, doesn't address the myriad of lesbian slaves nor those who don't mix BDSM with sex. If I never saw another cock again, it wouldn't phase me in the least. Getting paid with cock? Seriously? Hell, I don't need a dominant for that .. I can get a boyfriend or husband and he can wash his own damn dishes. No thanks.


OP: I'm not a servant, have no desire to be a servant. It's service without power and I have no interest in a primary relationship that doesn't have an unbalanced power dynamic. Service with substance is great. Going down once a week to help out at the local soup kitchen, scrubbing floors and toilets at the Children's hospital on a volunteer basis are wonderful things that feed my humanity but do nothing for the power hungry little beasty beneath the surface and feeding *that* beasty is why I do what I do.

mmv




stella41b -> RE: servant or slave? (1/1/2010 2:36:34 PM)


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ORIGINAL: johndafreak

 "Stimpy, you idiot!"

TPE
Now is this different than slave or is that what total means?
Also
I'm just wondering, would being a servant  give a higher more refined style of humiliation?
I would treat a servant better than a slave



Just because someone serves or submits doesn't make them any less a person than if they didn't. Humiliation is a kink in itself. Submission doesn't really equate to being inferior.




TemptingNviceSub -> RE: servant or slave? (1/1/2010 4:04:02 PM)

I would make about the worse servant there possibly is..I, in no way, enjoy any kind of housework,what I do, I do for love and or respect for my beloved ones.As for slavery,since there are many definitions of a slave, then that definition would have to be defined by me and my Dominant.So hence the simplicity of the question is not so very simple.Too many variables and ideaologies./Tempting




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