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RE: Demanding Jobs - 11/18/2009 1:08:16 AM

MzMinx

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Hello Magik

I do think if you have no time at all spare, or less than the other person needs then it can be a big issue and like anything, that can have a significant impact on the relationship it should be brought up and discussed as early as possable.

Only you and a possable partner can determine if what you can give is enough ... relationships come in all sorts of shapes and sizes and you need to find someone who suits what you can give and delights in it

There have been times where I have been more happy single than I would have been being in a relationship, those where times where I did not feel I had enough time and energy to give to someone

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RE: Demanding Jobs - 11/18/2009 2:00:47 PM

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Hello Magik

I do think if you have no time at all spare, or less than the other person needs then it can be a big issue and like anything, that can have a significant impact on the relationship it should be brought up and discussed as early as possable.

Only you and a possable partner can determine if what you can give is enough ... relationships come in all sorts of shapes and sizes and you need to find someone who suits what you can give and delights in it

There have been times where I have been more happy single than I would have been being in a relationship, those where times where I did not feel I had enough time and energy to give to someone

Mz Minx

See thats the thing, I work hard, Im still in school as well, and when i am home, which I am I cant lie I do have SOME down time, I am sooo tired and achy I just want to be taken care of, not doing the taking care of some one else, if you know whta I mean.

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RE: Demanding Jobs - 11/19/2009 10:06:34 AM

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Now a days any kind of customer service jobs you take a beating and are demanding to the point you just want to strangle someone.

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RE: Demanding Jobs - 11/19/2009 10:47:02 AM

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When I am working (currently layed off) , I am a pipefitter. I leave some days at 5am and dont get home until 5pm. I work on ladders, with heavy pipe, and lots of hand tools. My wife works for an orthodontist and her schedule varies. (mondays till 7pm, wednsdays till noon, one saturday a month) She deals with phone calls, unruly kids, and rude parents. While totally different, both jobs are exausting and demanding.We live a bit different than others at home as well as we try to be as self-sufficent as possible. This means a vegetable garden, fruits, animals, canning, picking, weeding, harvesting, etc. So even when we aren't "working", we're working. Spare or leisure time for us is sometimes very rare, if not non-existant, but we make it work.
Though it sucks being in a routine, we set aside 1-2 nights a week for us. It could be spent in the playroom or just watching a movie. Even on the days when she is in the kitchen canning or making bread for the week, she's shackled to the counter with a 6 foot chain. If she's in the garden, she sometimes has a rope harness under her jeans and t-shirt. When we aren't "playing" together, we are. We make the most of our time, and just because something isn't actually going on on the surface, it is otherwise. Even now as I type this, I'm working on 12 quarts of homeade chicken soup while she is at work wearing a rope harness and plug. I do love the text messages...."may I take this out yet? It's making me insane!" That's what I love about the way we've worked things....I'm there with her all day, even though I'm at home.

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RE: Demanding Jobs - 11/19/2009 11:07:30 AM

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Even now as I type this, I'm working on 12 quarts of homeade chicken soup while she is at work wearing a rope harness and plug. I do love the text messages...."may I take this out yet? It's making me insane!"

It would personally bother me that a health care professional is distracted at work like this.

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RE: Demanding Jobs - 11/19/2009 11:25:36 AM

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She's their office manager, she doesn't work on patients at all. She answers the phone, sets appointments, and deals with insurance companies. I wouldn't do such a thing if she was in the operatory with patients.

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RE: Demanding Jobs - 11/19/2009 4:03:35 PM

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I do know what you mean .... but only you can know if its enough to keep yourself single at this time
As its study and work it is not going to last foreever and I assume at some stage your life demands will change, if only because your desire and focus changes.
But I go back to the idea of discussing expectations and needs with someone ... if there is someone you are interested in ... discuss it with them .. see what might work for both of you.

I love nurturing my boys ... there are times when I get as much pleasure out of ensureing they have their day to day needs met as I would being pampered by something they do.
Ensureing they are eating, sleeping, have relaxation time, that they are getting little spoiling pleasures can feed my need to control and dominate just as much as directing them to serve me specificaly ... but I also know some who there own actual relaxation is doing simple acts of submission.

So you need to know what feeds your core ... what you need and can give and whether right now is the time to seek more ... or just let what might happen happen

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