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RE: Straight male slaves seeking straight male Doms for... - 8/28/2009 6:18:17 PM   
Jeptha


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ORIGINAL: Wheldrake

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ORIGINAL: Jeptha

I don't know what the incentive would be for the guy in your case, as there's not only no sexual element, but there doesn't seem to be any emotional connection alluded to.

Well, some of us straight male submissives just like being dominated and tormented. With my Mistress, I have all three things - sexual attraction, an emotional connection, and the thrill of submission itself. If she were to lend me to a male dominant, either gay or straight, I'm fairly sure I would enjoy the experience as a submissive adventure even in the absence of the first two elements.


Eh, fair enough, Wheldrake, fair enough.

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RE: Straight male slaves seeking straight male Doms for... - 8/28/2009 6:19:33 PM   
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RE: Straight male slaves seeking straight male Doms for... - 8/28/2009 6:25:55 PM   
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Edit: Oh wait... I'm not entirely straight, gay, or bisexual.

I am not sure this directly applies to me.

BUT...

Nonsexual domination is exciting, as long as the guy is not a complete dick 100 percent of the time. Mmmm... bondage is nice too.


< Message edited by pyroaquatic -- 8/28/2009 6:31:03 PM >

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RE: Straight male slaves seeking straight male Doms for... - 8/29/2009 1:50:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would have to say that nothing turns me on more knowing that straight men like controlling other straight men.  I am a straight myself, but when dominated by another man I become instantly bi and expecially submissive when force feminized.

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RE: Straight male slaves seeking straight male Doms for... - 8/29/2009 1:58:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've seen alot of men and women try this with other men and women in the military environment. The stripes on their arm makes them think they're automatically allowed to boss people around in a dominant way like the OP is talking about yet there are much more subtle ways to get people do what you want, it's called effective leadership. Not intimidation, abuse of rank and authority etc. I've put many in their place that were of equal and even higher rank than I that try to use the wrong tactics on me. I'm obviously in the military...I follow and give orders...but I dont put up with the BS of people who hide behind rank either. Plus, it's against the Uniform Code of Military Justice to abuse authority and I wont hesitate to tell those under, equal to or above me of that fact. 

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RE: Straight male slaves seeking straight male Doms for... - 8/29/2009 4:28:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: slavekal

Even though much of what we do is not sex in the traditional sense, it is sexually charged.  I don't do grudge work for a domme because I enjoy scrubbing floors.  I do it because doing things for a dominant woman is a sexually energized scenario.  For another man, there would not be that same energy.


Slavekal is right on target here. You are not going to find a straight male willing to submit to another straight male. There's got to be something in it for the submissive and that is usually the sexual aspect, even if it is not a direct sex act. I think the only way you can accomplish this fantasy is through forced submission. Getting a mistress to loan you her slave seems to be the best approach without getting youself locked up in jail. I have no desire to be dominated by another man. In fact I would hate it. However, with the right control and manipulation of a mistress, I could see how it might be a possibility for me.

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RE: Straight male slaves seeking straight male Doms for... - 8/29/2009 5:40:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: calliecox29

I would have to say that nothing turns me on more knowing that straight men like controlling other straight men.  I am a straight myself, but when dominated by another man I become instantly bi and expecially submissive when force feminized.

You are not really straight, then.  You are bi.  It's just that you are mostly interested in women.  But if you can "become instantly bi", then you are bi.


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RE: Straight male slaves seeking straight male Doms for... - 8/29/2009 3:53:15 PM   
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RE: Straight male slaves seeking straight male Doms for... - 8/30/2009 12:56:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		Any female dominants in the Tampa area want this non-sexual m2m dominance for their subs, I volunteer. I could use the practice, and the idea intrigues me. PM me.

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RE: Straight male slaves seeking straight male Doms for... - 8/30/2009 1:33:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know a lot of straight male tops/dominants who will do physical S/M and bondage with guys, but not get into a lot of service, humilation, or D/s relationships. I've played with a gay male bottom occasionally in non-sexual ways, but again, it wasn't a D/s interaction, which is harder to keep casual, IMHO.

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RE: Straight male slaves seeking straight male Doms for... - 8/30/2009 2:08:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		Personally, I think this is hot, and I would loan a boy to a male Dom that I trusted to abide by my wishes with my boy.

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