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SouthernSpankin -> RE: Straight male slaves seeking straight male Doms for humuliation and etc.? (8/28/2009 11:35:50 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MasterKing1
Hello folks, I was just sitting here thinking about something.
I am a straight male, and nothing brings me more pleasure than dominating and controlling female charges sexually and etc..but something else I enjoy, however rarely is dominating other straight men in non-sexual ways. Sex is dandy, but being straight the idea of fucking other dudes just does NOT equate with me. But the buck doesn't have to stop there. While sex is all well and good; as any experienced lifestyler will tell you, there's really much more involved than sex. There's literal bondage, caging, financial domination, degradation, discipline training, obedience training, dog training, humiliation training, orgasm control, domestic training, objectification..the list goes on and on.
I love controlling, humiliating and owning other men. The feeling of power, of control was almost unexplainable. To have total control over another person, body and spirit..it just seemed right to me. To own, to train..To put them in their place. To become the all of another and have them give themselves over to me completely. There is nothing better in the world than that sort of trust, that responsibility.
But finding them is rare..to be honest I've found only a couple like that as long as I've been a part of this lifestyle. Are they really truly out there or would looking for them be a lost cause?
Thanks for your advice folks, hope you all have a good day. [;)]
-MasterKing1
I never would have thought it had I not gotten the actual experience of non-sexual BDSM with guys, but I'm the same way as you, except my interest list with men isn't as long as yours. As for how to find straight guys into that, I'd just find profiles of straight men in your area that seem like they'd be into that and write them a message and see what they think. They might say thanks, but no thanks, or they might be interested. For example, there is one guy in my area that is very clear that he is looking for non-sexual BDSM, basically he's got list of behaviors he wants corrected in his life and he wants to submit to a Dom or Domme that will correct those behaviors... and he was saying that anything goes, as long as it is all non-sexual. There is another guy in my area is is very specific that he is looking for non-sexual BDSM where he wants to submit to a Dom or Domme that will make sure that he maintains a vigourous work-out schedule... like a BDSM personal trainer. Same thing with him, anything goes, as long as it was non-sexual. As for myself, I get contacted on a fairly regular basis from straight guys looking for non-sexual BDSM. A lot of the time they really are sincerely seeking non-sexual BDSM. Sure, sometimes, like TurboJugend was saying, after 2 or so days of normal talking, it tends to get to the not so straight side, which is when it stops for me. Basically, if they start getting way too excited about it, then I lose interest. Another thing I've considered is doing non-sexual BDSM with girls that I have zero sexual or romantic attraction to... you know... all those females you see in your area that are just not attractive at all to you... I've considered basically letting them know that I have no sexual or romantic interest in them, that I just want to dominate them like I do with men... and see what they think about that. Granted, I'm not comfortable with just messaging some girl out of the blue and telling her that, because of how it could quite possible hurt her feelings... but if I made good friends with a BDSM girl I wasn't attracted to at all, I'd most likely bring the idea up with her.
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