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Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:13:57 PM   
SirLost


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Status: offline 		Firstly, I admit this is a funny situation: A Dom living with his parents and hiding his this orientation from them. And asking a n00bish question.

There are some facts those drives me crazy:
*Most of the submissive people are looking for local Dom's
*I believe I am much more better than some Doms those find a chance to be considered as a candidate by submissives, as I read. I read many profiles of female subs who are looking for a local Dom who has my own qualities, they are meeting some local Doms who attempts to hang them to a torture tool and fuck them at their first meet and then complaining there are no kind Dom's. (No, there were some submissive candidates that had contacted me, but I couldn't like them for various reasons)
*There are only a few locals here, but they are not looking or not people that I'd want to contact
*I am rich, but haven't seen its benefit for meeting someone to dominate yet (There is no way for me to give anything to a prostitute, don't ever advise it)

So what would you advise to this man? To subscribe a paid website where I could find locals like I wanted and show them his difference, isn't it?

The funny part is that I am 21 years old and living with my parents. I am quite happy with my life, my parents are like my friends and they don't interfere in me much. I'm like a prince, but I still don't know how to tell them I am into BDSM. I am going to subscribe to a website that is advertised in CollarMe (I doubt if I should give its name here, though) and the bill that they are going to send me is disturbing me. My parents don't read the content of the mails that I receive, I can tell them it is about a game engine whose licence I purchased, but it is going to inconvenience me if something like "XSOMETHING : The best fuckbuddy finder" is written in the envelope. 

Well, many thing can be discussed under this topic. You can even make fun of my situation, but don't expect to be unanswered

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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:15:50 PM   
Aylee


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Status: offline 		Have you considered renting a post office box?

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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:18:57 PM   
SirLost


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Status: offline 		Sounds like a good idea, but I'm not sure if they would accept a temporary address.

I also thought of asking help from a friend of mine who lives in his house, but I think it would be asking too much. I don't want to announce I'm into BDSM to my friends yet and receiving bills may not make them happy.

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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:19:33 PM   
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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:22:46 PM   
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if you are so rich you can afford to move.


But, he's a prince in his parent's home. Can't give up the castle.

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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:24:08 PM   
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if you are so rich you can afford to move.


But, he's a prince in his parent's home. Can't give up the castle.

yeah...but if the parental units see a bill from a porn site...they are going to crown him.


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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:26:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ummm. . . can't he just do that online bill pay thing.  That way there is no paper bill that comes to the house. 

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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:27:04 PM   
SirLost


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Status: offline 		I can afford to move, but there isn't any reason for me to do (except for this, and I would make history for the first person who has bought a new home for having a new bill address). Also I didn't say "I am very rich", but rich enough to have a Gold subscription and to do other things.

Edit to above:
Honestly, I don't know the workings of adult sites and if they really send paper bills, it was another thing that I needed to consult anyone.

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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:30:32 PM   
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yeah...but if the parental units see a bill from a porn site...they are going to crown him.





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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:32:03 PM   
sirsholly


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Status: offline 		Dude...you have a few choices...

-pick up your mail at the post office
-move
-ride shotgun on the mail truck
-lock mom and dad in the basement for life
-pay online so there are no bills
-explain to your parents that you are a big boy and can do as you please




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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:34:43 PM   
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quote:

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yeah...but if the parental units see a bill from a porn site...they are going to crown him.







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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:36:36 PM   
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I can afford to move, but there isn't any reason for me to do (except for this, and I would make history for the first person who has bought a new home for having a new bill address). Also I didn't say "I am very rich", but rich enough to have a Gold subscription and to do other things.

Edit to above:
Honestly, I don't know the workings of adult sites and if they really send paper bills, it was another thing that I needed to consult anyone.


Been my experience that most adult pay sites, whether for toys or a paid access subscription, the return address of these companies  is through a separate mailbox address. Thus avoids any potential embarrassment to the customer and to protect the customer's privacy.


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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:38:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

Dude...you have a few choices...

-pick up your mail at the post office
-move
-ride shotgun on the mail truck
-lock mom and dad in the basement for life
-pay online so there are no bills
-explain to your parents that you are a big boy and can do as you please





All of these are great, some of them are even tempting and even practical, but the last one is My personal favorite.

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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:40:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SirLost

Also I didn't say "I am very rich", but rich enough to have a Gold subscription and to do other things.

Edit to above:
Honestly, I don't know the workings of adult sites and if they really send paper bills, it was another thing that I needed to consult anyone.



eerr..dude, yeah you did.....

quote:

*I am rich, but haven't seen its benefit for meeting someone to dominate yet


And I don't think anyone bills by paper anymore. I think you pay most by online these days.

My suggestion is that if you're so rich, sign up and pay for a year's worth all at once and voila! No bill.

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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:44:12 PM   
SirLost


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Status: offline 		The first sounds very suitable.  (Confession: I don't know how to have my mails be unsent and waiting. I'm a real life n00b, need to research it somewhere). 
"I'm like a prince" didn't mean I was very rich, but there were and are always someone there who would do houseworks/works like paying bills, contacting state associations, legal stuffs etc. That's a side effect of bringing children up this way: The child doesn't know what to do with these things. This can be the topic of another thread.

P.S: I liked that crowning joke 

Edit to above: Yeah, I'm planning an one year.

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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:55:02 PM   
sirsholly


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ORIGINAL: SirLost

The first sounds very suitable.  (Confession: I don't know how to have my mails be unsent and waiting. I'm a real life n00b, need to research it somewhere). 
"I'm like a prince" didn't mean I was very rich, but there were and are always someone there who would do houseworks/works like paying bills, contacting state associations, legal stuffs etc. That's a side effect of bringing children up this way: The child doesn't know what to do with these things. This can be the topic of another thread.

i am really tempted to comment on you having the family jewels on your forehead, but i do not want to give the impression i am a wise-ass.

Seriously...pay by credit card and you will never have to worry...unless they see the credit card statement....then you're f**ked.


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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 1:55:56 PM   
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didn't mean I was very rich, but there were and are always someone there who would do houseworks/works like paying bills, contacting state associations, legal stuffs etc.


So I'm going to assume you don't work then since mommy and daddy do everything for you...so how are you paying for this subscription? Their credit card?...you may have more explaining to do to them than about bdsm lol.

I would probably not be calling myself a Dom before I at least learned how to pay bills by getting a job, learn how to pick up after yourself and wash your own clothes and dishes among so many other things.

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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 2:03:59 PM   
SirLost


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Status: offline 		Trivia: I had added the mask and the jewel during photomanipulation, they weren't real. I guess I should change my avatar if that really gives the impression I'm pretending to be royal rich.

Also I must say I love hearing people's opinions on different matters. I know it isn't so good to live according on others' thoughts, but they usually make me be aware of things that I haven't noticed.

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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 2:08:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SirLost

Trivia: I had added the mask and the jewel during photomanipulation, they weren't real. I guess I should change my avatar if that really gives the impression I'm pretending to be royal rich.

Also I must say I love hearing people's opinions on different matters. I know it isn't so good to live according on others' thoughts, but they usually make me be aware of things that I haven't noticed.

i was teasing about the "family jewels"...

And it is always a good thing to be open to the ideas of others. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in one thought, one issue, that we blind ourselves to the obvious solution. An open mind and a sense of humor will serve you well!! And it seems you have both


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RE: Bill mail from paid adult site comes to parents' home - 8/9/2009 2:12:08 PM   
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didn't mean I was very rich, but there were and are always someone there who would do houseworks/works like paying bills, contacting state associations, legal stuffs etc.


So I'm going to assume you don't work then since mommy and daddy do everything for you...so how are you paying for this subscription? Their credit card?...you may have more explaining to do to them than about bdsm lol.

I would probably not be calling myself a Dom before I at least learned how to pay bills by getting a job, learn how to pick up after yourself and wash your own clothes and dishes among so many other things.


Right, I am still studying at college. I'm also doing little works, (like writing some articles for some magazines or commissions, etc.) but they don't gain me as much as my pocket money.

Can't say I'm financially independent and able to do houseworks, that's another topic if that's too early for starting this.




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