vincentML
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ORIGINAL: mysteryshopper
Clothing, in the case of CFNM, represents vulnerability, or lack thereof.
It's an unspoken symbol that says, "I am covered, you are exposed, it is an uneven playing field, and you're in a way, dependent on me right now."
It's not for everybody, you have to internalize all the mental aspects of it, or it does not work. Though that is true with many things.
There has to be an element of power exchange, of vulnerability, of both parties accepting their roles.
If he's naked and content and she's clothed but nervous and submissive, it wouldn't work out, for example
CFnm has been a fixture in the Prodomme scene forever. Most Prodommes are unlikely to proceed with a session in any other fashion. The custom may have its origin in necessity back in the day when police regularly infiltrated as undercover agents to protect a shocked community against such abhorrent practices. The domme required each client to disrobe as a defense, assuming the police officer would have some difficulty explaining his actions to a judge. Queer creatures municipal servants.
However, the vulnerability and the inequality you mention certainly play prominent roles.
It has also been pretty much a feature at private play parties through the years. I am surprised that such a standard element would seem new to our Scene.
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