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RE: Fighting back. - 1/3/2009 10:36:20 AM

SlaveIndigochild

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i don't have a safe word. i have learned to relax and breath and deeply on those occasions when i can feel the repetitions or intensity of pain increasing. But there will inevitably come a point when i involuntarily wriggle, flinch, struggle or even cry out. These are signals that my Master reads as a limit and these involuntary reactions of mine are generally respected.
i can only once remember 'fighting' back and it was with my lippy sarcasm. it got me dragged downstairs by my hair and bow tied for a good stretch of time, gagged and then choked to the point of retching. i don't lip back now.
i am a switch but only dominant to women as i am an alpha female. i don't intra switch and i would lose respect if it were tolerated or even part of play with a male dominant.

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RE: Fighting back. - 1/3/2009 11:19:58 AM

WiseCracknSadist

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For me so much of my Dominant side is based on more or less primal urges, the hunt, the fight, the kill or subduing of my prey. Perhaps your Dom falls into a similar category.

It is very satisfying to engage a female in a physical confrontation, over power her, and then mate with her.

To me its forty million years of instinct coming to the surface. We were animals before we had society to tell us how to act.

I say work out the ground rules and go for it. Things like no hitting in the face or groin, tap outs, safe words, though admitting defeat wouls be more of a turn on than a safe word.

If you are formidable perhaps he doesn't feel he can truly be your Dom unless he can Dominate you physically as well. That's just speculation though.

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