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Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you lik... - 11/7/2008 3:58:45 AM

pompeii

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Recently I met a submissive lady who enjoys having her ass reamed by the largest objects I can find. Unexpectedly, I thoroughly enjoyed the experience. I wonder if this is a common BDSM play method ... and what is it about the receiving end or giving end that is appealing to you in a D/s sense?

It seemed to me I enjoyed the sheer "availability" of her, when I commanded her to stick her ass up in the air, head down, arms bound behind her back, legs spread, as I applied the warming lube and then progressively larger objects, of which I soon ran out so I had to go to the biggest dildo I had in my toy bag. It surprised me that I enjoyed her moans and erotic wiggles as I shoved it in, and afterward, surprisingly, she thanked me profusely for giving her the experience.

Ass reaming is new to me. Is it common D/s fetish play? Whether you're a top or a bottom, pray tell, what do you like or dislike?

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 7:24:17 AM

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Is it common D/s fetish play

Define "common" for me, and I will answer you.

I doubt it is unique to D/s, it is just one way of having sex, with or without toys. I believe anal intercourse, in general, is a little more common in the US than elsewhere, because college age girls in some area of the country teach each other to substitute anal sex for vaginal sex, so they can "give it up" and still remain virgins.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 7:37:59 AM

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quote:

Is it common D/s fetish play?

Does this matter? As long as you are enjoying it and practicing it safely it's all good.

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Whether you're a top or a bottom, pray tell, what do you like or dislike?

I don't provide wank material.

Yanno the day you post a thread that has nothing to do with sex and wank material i think i'll shave off all my hair

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 7:53:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

I don't provide wank material.

Yanno the day you post a thread that has nothing to do with sex and wank material i think i'll shave off all my hair

Yeah!

Tell us more about that shaving thing.

In great detail.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 7:55:21 AM

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Lol with Missturbation!

Just in case it IS a serious question, straight men craving strapon action is common, straight men needing ever-increasing toys [size queens] aren't. Unless they're undergoing gradual dilation for eventual fisting, [and my glove size is just 6 1/2!] I'm not interested; size queens are only interested in a fetish.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 7:56:39 AM

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Lol the only hair i have is on my head and my eyebrows. Sooooooooo i was referring to shaving my head, not quite wank material i imagine

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 7:57:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

quote:

Is it common D/s fetish play?

Does this matter? As long as you are enjoying it and practicing it safely it's all good.

quote:

Whether you're a top or a bottom, pray tell, what do you like or dislike?

I don't provide wank material.

Yanno the day you post a thread that has nothing to do with sex and wank material i think i'll shave off all my hair

Are you trying to make those of us who love your hair cry?

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 7:58:41 AM

missturbation

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I wouldn't cry yet
The chances of pompei posting a none sexual thread are slim.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 7:59:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

Lol the only hair i have is on my head and my eyebrows. Sooooooooo i was referring to shaving my head, not quite wank material i imagine

I'm pretty sure you have some in your nose and ears, as well as the eyelashes.

Looking forward to your shaving pics!

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 8:01:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zakkan

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Lol the only hair i have is on my head and my eyebrows. Sooooooooo i was referring to shaving my head, not quite wank material i imagine

I'm pretty sure you have some in your nose and ears, as well as the eyelashes.

Looking forward to your shaving pics!

Ears? No wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Nose, ok yep i have.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 8:02:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

Lol the only hair i have is on my head and my eyebrows. Sooooooooo i was referring to shaving my head, not quite wank material i imagine

Yeah, like planting the idea that the ONLY hair you have....left....is on your head isn't wank material

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 8:02:35 AM

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For men, it's prostate stimulation. For women, Gspot stimulation.

Ask her, but I'm betting that the bigger the object, the more Gspot stimulation.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 8:07:27 AM

missturbation

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quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Lol the only hair i have is on my head and my eyebrows. Sooooooooo i was referring to shaving my head, not quite wank material i imagine

Yeah, like planting the idea that the ONLY hair you have....left....is on your head isn't wank material

Dayum, you caught me out

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 8:35:54 AM

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I decided to answer you instead of assuming the worst of you, if you prove me wrong and are actually just after wanking material...well that makes you just another wanker and you wouldn't want that would you

I enjoy it alot and I think the biggest part of that is because in a way it's the ultimate domination (for me anyway) In fact I can actually orgasm quicker from this then vaginal intercourse. Using larger and larger toys..no..I'm a firm believer in keeping things in shape and healthy.
Do I think it's common in the BDSM lifestyle? Yes.
Do I think it's common for slaves to actually enjoy it? I don't think so.

Disclaimer: This post was made in response to the post made by pompeii and is based on my opinion and experiences only.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 8:56:05 AM

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I don't know or particularly care if it's common in bdsm.
Larger items cause greater feelings of stretching and fullness and that can be very pleasurable for some.
Davan

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 9:05:53 AM

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I for one, love it! Daddy goes after my ass almost every day/night and it is great. As to bigger and bigger objects, not so much. He has a great time starting with one finger, two three, etc. until he gets to the knuckles, but he doesn't want to hurt me so bad that he couldn't use me, so that is where it stops. He is talking about getting a spreader of some sort now, hmmm, I wonder what that is about? I will love it no doubt.
Is it prevalent in BDSM; I would think so, it is the ultimate humiliation and let's face it, it can be painful as hell. So, if the D is a sexual sadist....

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 9:12:57 AM

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let's face it, it can be painful as hell.

I once had a conversation with a self professed painslut who said "anal is just too painful I won't do it"

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 9:16:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: Barelily

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let's face it, it can be painful as hell.

I once had a conversation with a self professed painslut who said "anal is just too painful I won't do it"

Not much of painslut, then huh? I have learned to "never say never."

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 9:47:01 AM

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Someone noted the acivity as humiliating. I've never viewed it as such in any experiences I've had (Except when it was supposed to be part of something more complete and that didn't happen but that's different; the act in and of itself, not humiliating). If I saw anything as truly humiliating, I wouldn't do it.
Davan

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 10:34:03 AM

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It's not something that I enjoy, or seek out. This doesn't make me any less of a painslut, in my opinion. Anal is an activity that does nothing for me. Sorry, OP no wank fodder here.

Edited to add additional thought: Is it something that is more prevalent in BDSM? I wouldn't think so. I have known plenty of "vanilla" guys that were all about ramming whatever they could get away with up my ass. Needless to say, they weren't around long.

However, I'm sure that someone out there is just dying to see missturbation shave her head. They are waiting patiently for that wank fodder. lol

< Message edited by monywildcat -- 11/7/2008 10:36:52 AM >

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