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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 10:45:50 AM

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Lol the only hair i have is on my head and my eyebrows. Sooooooooo i was referring to shaving my head, not quite wank material i imagine

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 4:31:41 PM

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Is it common D/s fetish play

Define "common" for me, and I will answer you.

I doubt it is unique to D/s, it is just one way of having sex, with or without toys. I believe anal intercourse, in general, is a little more common in the US than elsewhere, because college age girls in some area of the country teach each other to substitute anal sex for vaginal sex, so they can "give it up" and still remain virgins.

Where in god's name did you get this idea.....Common? not likely....I've been to my fair share of frat parties and other bashes and guys, well............., tend to talk some about their sexual encounters. Being an American male I can say that anal isn't what is often given up for the sake of saving one's self. The offer is usually oral sex. Just thought you might like to know.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 5:02:11 PM

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Where in god's name did you get this idea.....Common? not likely....I've been to my fair share of frat parties and other bashes and guys, well............., tend to talk some about their sexual encounters. Being an American male I can say that anal isn't what is often given up for the sake of saving one's self. The offer is usually oral sex. Just thought you might like to know.

Have to agree with there BLGirl. I don't know about college in these days, but a good portion of my life has been spent in the vanilla world with vanilla female friends and anal is not something thats common by any means lol Most women I know or listen to will try it once and thats it or just flat out refuse saying it's gross lol They also used blow jobs as "special treats". So needless to say, I kept my train of thoughts to myself most of the time.

Disclaimer: This post was made in response to the post made by BLGirl and is based on my opinion and experiences only.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 5:40:16 PM

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Do you shave your arms? Not your arm pits, but the arms themselves. Man that would be so painful for me to do that. I am shaved everywhere but my arms, my hair, and my eye brows.

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Lol the only hair i have is on my head and my eyebrows. Sooooooooo i was referring to shaving my head, not quite wank material i imagine

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 5:43:29 PM

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Oooooooooo forgot about that hair lol. I have been known to in the past but not so much nowadays. To be honest its that fine on my arms its barely there.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 6:35:03 PM

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I doubt it is unique to D/s, it is just one way of having sex, with or without toys. I believe anal intercourse, in general, is a little more common in the US than elsewhere, because college age girls in some area of the country teach each other to substitute anal sex for vaginal sex, so they can "give it up" and still remain virgins.

Where in god's name did you get this idea.....Common? not likely....I've been to my fair share of frat parties and other bashes and guys, well............., tend to talk some about their sexual encounters. Being an American male I can say that anal isn't what is often given up for the sake of saving one's self. The offer is usually oral sex. Just thought you might like to know.

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Um yeah, ditto on the "HUH??" What planet do you live on??(antipode, that is.. ) Having been a college age female once, I kinda recall that you either fucked or you didn't, but I don't remember any crap about sharing info on how we could get laid and still "technically" be virgins. Seriously, this is so extremely laughable to me. I'm sorry to dump on this, but I'm laughing so hard at the ridiculousness of it that I might pee myself here. Wait, are these the same girls that say that if you just do it standing up you can't get pregnant? And the same ones that say there are no risks if you just pull out in time?

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/7/2008 6:39:05 PM

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Yep I can't agree with you more Barelily.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/8/2008 1:07:33 AM

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I've found my fair share of straight men who enjoy some anal play because it does stimulate the prostate. With women, however, some enjoy it and some don't. It doesn't directly stimulate the g-spot for women, but there are some nerve endings that can be reached that way. However, the thing that some submissives that like anal play are in to is probably the humiliation aspect. It's still viewed as pretty taboo, and a widely vocalized taboo subject that's joked about in the vanilla world (how many times has something bad happened to someone and you've heard them say, "Wow, I feel like I just got it up the butt, no lube"?). Also, the common position for anal sex is on all fours, or on your knees with your face pressed downward, which is a very vulnerable position. And hey, it takes a lot for one to relax their sphincter muscles, and it has the potential for intense pain, so how's that for edge play?

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/8/2008 1:40:53 AM

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About having anal sex instead of vaginal sex to 'save oneself'? I've heard it, known people who did it. In fact, I've known a lot of people who did it, then again, I grew up in a town with a really, really backwards Christian college and school and themepark (not saying all Christians are backwards, but seriously, you've never met these people). Oh, a revival cult! Well, multiple actually, but ANYWAY! Back to anal sex and "virginity"... Hey! There's even a website!

http://www.sexinchrist.com/
Sex in Christ: Anal Sex According to the Word of God.

Do I think it makes any sense? No. Are there a decent amount of people who believe it? Yes. Does that mean Americans have more anal sex than anyone else? I doubt it.

But, back to OP, I think anal is about as common in D/s as anywhere, maybe a BIT more so just because people into kink tend to be a bit more open about their own desires, and would in many cases be less likely to not do something just because it was 'taboo'.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/8/2008 4:24:55 AM

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i love strapon sex

when my mistress walks into the door wearing her 10 in strapon we both know where thats going and gawd she looks great wearing it

she usually fucks me doggy style and then after a while she has me lay flat on the bed and then she lays flat on me so she can fuck me good with it

plus i get to feel her warm soft smooth sexy body up against me and thats awesome

when she has me relaxed and opened up for her out goes the strapon and in goes her fist

love being fisted by her even better because its actually a part of her thats inside of me

my prostate is totally at her mercy as the cum starts dripping out of me from those magical fingers of hers

she loves the control she has over me and i love feeling so vulnerable to her as she has her way with me

so far i can take almost to her elbow and that feeling is amazing as she goes in deeper

yes im always clean for her enemas are a must beforehand and i love being clean for her inside as well as outside ..figures that the least i can do for her as she has her way with my ass

been doing now for almost 3 years and everytime she enters me being fisted that feeling really does take my breath away

shes fisted me many positions ..the lady is amazing

sometimes she fists me first standing up with no strapon contact ..love how she lubes my ass up but boy she is determined to slide in me

usually gets fisted once sometimes twice a week and i love it

geez how many times have i said that before ? ..she fisted me 4 times on thursday cant believe how relaxed and content i am after

for those really into strapon play try having her fist you next ...must warn you it can be addicting i must say

have fun ..relax and enjoy ..having a woman take your ass can be a awesome experience indeed

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/8/2008 6:10:22 AM

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For more information check the Sex Is Fun podcast. The anus and area directly past it have more concentrated nerve endings than any other part of the body.

I agree that part of the thrill is that it seems like the "forbidden". I don't find it humiliating at all when done to me but simply very pleasurable. As a Domme I have taken the "virginity" of many men, always with their consent and to their enjoyment.

Care does need to be exercised. You would not want to mistakenly tear the colon by inserting something too long and vigorously reaming, for instance.

I know women who would rather face a whip than anal because they are afraid of the pain. This amazes me because I am not a masochist and I know how much I enjoy the feeling. Yes, it can start out painful - especially if no lube is used - but I never feel as "taken" and totally owned in a physical sense from any other action.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/8/2008 12:43:40 PM

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I just found this question funny. That's all I have to contribute, sorry.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/8/2008 5:31:37 PM

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Anal definitely plays special role in D/s even though it is pretty common thing in vanilla.
But isn't it all about what is going in out minds?

I feel humiliated when my ass is violated, however I am not much into ass stretching.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 11/17/2008 10:31:03 PM

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I feel humiliated when my ass is violated, however I am not much into ass stretching.

Personally, I like the feeling of sticking my finger in her ass 'cuz it's not s'posed to be there.
Plus, I can feel the puckering much better as she orgasms than in the other lovely location.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 12/2/2008 2:16:03 PM

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I've been letting ladyfriends insert fingers and medium s.o. in there. Face it, it's fun.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 12/2/2008 5:01:46 PM

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Hmmm, hold on tight when he reams
Yeah, hold on tight when he reams
When your bumhole stretches and you're wailing
Just to stop both your arms flailing
Hold on tight when he reams

Beyond the butt plug and strap on
And certain root vegetables have come and gone
When you got more tears than when you're crying
When he gets kitchen utensils and starts trying
Hold on tight while he reams

When it goes so far but it won't come out
And he starts to swear and you start to shout
When the doctor comes out and you're misunderstood
And getting bigger and bigger and bigger your hole

Oh, przytrzymaj sobie gdy on wsadzi
Przytrzymaj sobie gdy on wsadzi
Kiedy odbyt się robi coraz większy
Kiedy Twoje ręce się machają
Przytrzymaj sobie gdy on wsadzi

When it goes so far but it won't come out
And he starts to swear and you start to shout
When the doctor comes out and you're misunderstood
And getting bigger and bigger and bigger your hole

Hold on tight when he reams
Hold on tight when he reams
When your bumhole stretches and you're wailing
Just to stop both your arms flailing
Hold on tight when he reams
Ooh yeah, hold on tight when he reams
Yeah, hold on tight
When he reams.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 12/2/2008 5:16:23 PM

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Erm...Stella....

you have officially scared me off ass play. Expect some angry emails.

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 12/2/2008 7:14:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: BLGirl

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ORIGINAL: antipode

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Is it common D/s fetish play

Define "common" for me, and I will answer you.

I doubt it is unique to D/s, it is just one way of having sex, with or without toys. I believe anal intercourse, in general, is a little more common in the US than elsewhere, because college age girls in some area of the country teach each other to substitute anal sex for vaginal sex, so they can "give it up" and still remain virgins.

Where in god's name did you get this idea.....Common? not likely....I've been to my fair share of frat parties and other bashes and guys, well............., tend to talk some about their sexual encounters. Being an American male I can say that anal isn't what is often given up for the sake of saving one's self. The offer is usually oral sex. Just thought you might like to know.

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Antipode's actually right on this one. Studies have shown that girls who take purity pledges are much more likely than non pledgees to do anal as well as oral because they "don't count".

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RE: Is ass reaming common D/s fetish play & what do you... - 7/22/2009 10:48:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: CookieSlave

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ORIGINAL: BLGirl

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I doubt it is unique to D/s, it is just one way of having sex, with or without toys. I believe anal intercourse, in general, is a little more common in the US than elsewhere, because college age girls in some area of the country teach each other to substitute anal sex for vaginal sex, so they can "give it up" and still remain virgins.

Actually there are studies now that have found that an increasing and overwhelming number of high school (and younger) girls are doing this exact thing for this exact reason.

Where in god's name did you get this idea.....Common? not likely....I've been to my fair share of frat parties and other bashes and guys, well............., tend to talk some about their sexual encounters. Being an American male I can say that anal isn't what is often given up for the sake of saving one's self. The offer is usually oral sex. Just thought you might like to know.

BLGirl's Daddy (KSR)

Um yeah, ditto on the "HUH??" What planet do you live on??(antipode, that is.. ) Having been a college age female once, I kinda recall that you either fucked or you didn't, but I don't remember any crap about sharing info on how we could get laid and still "technically" be virgins. Seriously, this is so extremely laughable to me. I'm sorry to dump on this, but I'm laughing so hard at the ridiculousness of it that I might pee myself here. Wait, are these the same girls that say that if you just do it standing up you can't get pregnant? And the same ones that say there are no risks if you just pull out in time?

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