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ORIGINAL: catize

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 Not sure if you are implying that this kind of beating is done in public but if you are, personally i have tended to find that maintenance or reinforcing beatings are done in private. 

As I am not familiar with the series, and it is referred to as the Marketplace series, yes I was assuming the speaker was talking about a public venue---as in the marketplace! 

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

You know, before I experienced it, I would ave scoffed at the notion espoused in the books.  When I knelt and begged for the collar, part of the ritual was to give me 3 strikes with this evil thing that had 3 strands knotted with what felt like freaking cannon balls at the end of it.  I scoffed, when he showed it to me, thinking pfft, that toy won't even tickle.  3 strikes and I was bawling.   Not because it hurt, which it DID.  But because of how it effected me, emotionally, to be naked, kneeling before someone who had the power to strike me like that whenever he chose.  It laid me bare, emotionally.  I wasn't even remotely prepared for that sort of a response.   I hated it.  I hated him, and I hated that gawdawful three balled bastard, at that moment anyway.  Fickle slut that I am.  I was hugging and kissing him minutes later.  Turned out to be the better choice, since my other impulse was to shove that hated implement up his umm....nostrils yeah, that's what I was thinking.

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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

I am sure people will just breeze over this, as they seem to be focusing on the pain and sadism. As you learned, it is not about the pain, it is about the surrender and the effect physical strikes can have on a slave feeling that.

Someone else mentioned it was the minority, so I guess all I have ever owned is the minority, which works for me.

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

You know, before I experienced it, I would ave scoffed at the notion espoused in the books.  When I knelt and begged for the collar, part of the ritual was to give me 3 strikes with this evil thing that had 3 strands knotted with what felt like freaking cannon balls at the end of it.  I scoffed, when he showed it to me, thinking pfft, that toy won't even tickle.  3 strikes and I was bawling.   Not because it hurt, which it DID.  But because of how it effected me, emotionally, to be naked, kneeling before someone who had the power to strike me like that whenever he chose.  It laid me bare, emotionally.  I wasn't even remotely prepared for that sort of a response.   I hated it.  I hated him, and I hated that gawdawful three balled bastard, at that moment anyway.  Fickle slut that I am.  I was hugging and kissing him minutes later.  Turned out to be the better choice, since my other impulse was to shove that hated implement up his umm....nostrils yeah, that's what I was thinking.

1. As an essential part of their training so they understand what may happen with breaches of disclipline and to understand what each of my impliments actually feals like when used erotically and hard. (Sometimes this also includes demonstrating beatings to other newbies or vanilla folk who want to incorperate it into their sex fantacies).
   
2. To administer punishment.
3. Because I wish to. (sometimes too I will beat a girl as a treat for her). This may be a hard beating so I will have chosen a pain slut as a target to satisfy my lust, or another girl when I choose to incorperate a beating in a sexual activity.