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In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest t... - 10/16/2008 10:54:07 PM   
knees2you


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  In Accordance to your lifestyle,
what was the Hardest thing you ever had to do?
 
Also what was the Easiest?
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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/16/2008 11:03:51 PM   
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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/16/2008 11:13:10 PM   
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I think we're on the same page, just milling around in different corners.


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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 1:24:00 AM   
tweedydaddy


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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 1:36:53 AM   
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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 4:30:30 AM   
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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 4:38:19 AM   
IrishMist


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quote:

what was the Hardest thing you ever had to do?

Accepting his death
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  Also what was the Easiest?


Accepting his presence in my life.

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 6:10:28 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		The hardest thing was guiding my sub from mentally being the gorean Master to the kneeling male submissive. It took a lot of educating, patience and time, but it was certainly worth it.

The easiest thing, introducing my male sub to cross dressing. He took to it like a fish to water.

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 6:17:47 AM   
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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 6:17:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		Walking away from something that does not, cannot, will not work is always difficult, yet necessary.
 
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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 7:00:32 AM   
JustDarkness


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ORIGINAL: Rover

Walking away from something that does not, cannot, will not work is always difficult, yet necessary.
 
John


mmm Yes...and I just learned to that last year.
But what a relieve...

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 7:04:13 AM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		Easy answer, difficult process. The hardest thing was facing the fact that my husband and I were utterly unsuited for each other, that in order to be happy for myself I had to divorce him.

Those 2 sentences cannot even come close to the years of anguish involved but it is the bare bones of the most difficult decision I've had to make on something touching my BDSM world.


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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 7:05:42 AM   
natasha66


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rover

Walking away from something that does not, cannot, will not work is always difficult, yet necessary.
 
John


i agree....and in the end, so worth it.

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 7:17:05 AM   
hopelesslyInvo


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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 7:28:52 AM   
SimplyMichael


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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 8:20:02 AM   
LadyJulieAnn


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Status: offline 		The hardest things for me were accepting myself and my desires, accepting that I developed a serious online chatting addiction during that process, and telling my husband at the time what I really enjoyed.  After my divorce, it was just as difficult finding a new love in my life who enjoyed the same things I did.

Things seem relatively easy now.

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 8:28:52 AM   
lilraven


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Status: offline 		The hardest thing for me was learning to trust after having a bad bdsm experience. I had alot of walls to let down ect...

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 8:40:52 AM   
girlivy


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The hardest thing I feel to have overcome is telling my mother she had lost her son. Not only having told her, but be the one to tell her.
It changed my life forever, in more ways to count.
The eaisest is maintaining a light-hearted outlook.

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 8:47:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		Lifewise: give birth to a child in week 28 (IVF pregnancy) - and being told he might not make it...(he is now a 16 year old - 6'4" young man!)

Familywise: to lose my only brother suddenly - but knowing we had nothing unsaid..s..

D/S wise: the hardest for me was to finally trust again - and believe in my One, for only to be released without warning and then to find out every word from His mouth was a lie..made me wonder if my brain works at all - or if i am that easy to brainfuck?

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/17/2008 8:55:00 AM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		Hardest ... submitting musical control of Our rock duo to Master ... previously I've been the leader of every musical group I've been involved with (and that's a lot over many many years!) However I am now so glad I relinquished the reins!

Easiest ... hmmm ... designing the bracelet with which Master was to collar me ... We both just knew how it should look!

As a Domme ... hardest is still happening ... finding a compatible sub to join Our Household as My boy or girl!

Easiest as a Domme ... falling in love with My 5-days-in-Melbourne-with-the-flu sub ... who later became Master

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