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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/19/2008 10:23:57 AM   
servantheart


Posts: 960
Joined: 10/26/2006
From: Houston, TX
Status: offline 		The hardest thing in this lifestyle would have to be enduring a former Master's punishment for something I'd done, which was six weeks of no communication with him.
 
The easiest thing I've ever done in this lifestyle was making the decision to become Sir's slave.  Somehow I just knew it was right

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When you really trust someone, you have to be okay with not understanding some things.
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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/19/2008 1:01:41 PM   
oceanwynds


Posts: 1044
Joined: 8/24/2006
Status: offline 		Two hardest things about this lifestyle which weigh equally for me are, switching out of a vanilla marriage mind set, and the realization that i hid my submissive nature for such a long time.

The easiest thing for me is admitting i got a long road to go in understanding a lot about BDSM.

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/19/2008 2:50:07 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2youwhat was the Hardest thing you ever had to do?

Also what was the Easiest?

The answer is the same to both- remain true to myself

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Find stable partners, not a stable of partners.

"Sometimes my whore logic gets all fuzzy"- Californication

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/21/2008 7:31:23 PM   
reddivinity


Posts: 17
Joined: 11/19/2006
Status: offline 		My hardest: knowing and permitting myself to..... ALSO committment, the intimate, and to be seen and known at a deeply personal level.
Easy Part=The desire.

< Message edited by reddivinity -- 10/21/2008 7:32:18 PM >

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/21/2008 7:41:51 PM   
yourMissTress


Posts: 1665
Joined: 6/14/2005
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		The hardest thing for me was letting go.

The easiest thing was also letting go.


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"If you have to tell people that you are a lady, you are not." My Grandmother


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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/21/2008 7:47:48 PM   
ThundersCry


Posts: 892
Status: offline 		Take the risk to expose myself for not only who I am but other truths/areas about myself I felt shame...about...and in...
 
Just to become emotionaly and physically raw with someone...throwing down all 5 cards...<g> and saying lets get the show on the road!
 
To bad I had to wait so long...to be at a place in my life I was...ready to...
 
tsk tsk

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/21/2008 8:17:51 PM   
patina


Posts: 493
Joined: 9/14/2006
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

hardest: rebuilding my self-confidence after a nasty divorce.

easiest: turning a male dominant into my pet


ditto on the hardest sambamlilgirl

easiest -- accepting the domination of a Master

patina

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RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Harde... - 10/21/2008 8:20:08 PM   
luke8127


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Joined: 10/17/2008
Status: offline 		The hardest: Relizing I am mearly a sum of paradoxes.

The easiest: Embacing it.


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"I killed. But I didn't just kill fifty, I didn't kill a hundred. I killed a thousand. I killed TEN thousand! And I was good at it. And it wasn't for vengeance, it wasn't for greed. It was because...I liked it."

-methos the world oldest man


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