In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do?

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knees2you -> In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/16/2008 10:54:07 PM)
Knees here. In Accordance to your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing you ever had to do?[sm=afraid.gif] Also what was the Easiest?[sm=angel.gif] Always, knees[sm=cactus.gif]

stella41b -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/16/2008 11:03:51 PM)
I only came here to check and see if the last word of the title was suck.

OneMoreWaste -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/16/2008 11:13:10 PM)
I was thinking "swallow", personally. I think we're on the same page, just milling around in different corners.

tweedydaddy -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 1:24:00 AM)
Coming out to my wife about what I really wanted. The wisest thing I ever did.

Lockit -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 1:36:53 AM)
The hardest thing for me was realizing how much time I wasted getting here. The easiest was getting there. Oh yummy!

JustDarkness -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 4:30:30 AM)
the hardest thing..was to accept myself for who I am.

IrishMist -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 4:38:19 AM)
quote: what was the Hardest thing you ever had to do?[sm=afraid.gif] Accepting his death quote: Also what was the Easiest?[sm=angel.gif] Accepting his presence in my life.

Lashra -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 6:10:28 AM)
The hardest thing was guiding my sub from mentally being the gorean Master to the kneeling male submissive. It took a lot of educating, patience and time, but it was certainly worth it. The easiest thing, introducing my male sub to cross dressing. He took to it like a fish to water. ~Lashra

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 6:17:47 AM)
hardest: rebuilding my self-confidence after a nasty divorce. easiest: turning a male dominant into my pet

Rover -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 6:17:53 AM)
Walking away from something that does not, cannot, will not work is always difficult, yet necessary. John

JustDarkness -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 7:00:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rover Walking away from something that does not, cannot, will not work is always difficult, yet necessary. John mmm Yes...and I just learned to that last year. But what a relieve...

camille65 -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 7:04:13 AM)
Easy answer, difficult process. The hardest thing was facing the fact that my husband and I were utterly unsuited for each other, that in order to be happy for myself I had to divorce him. Those 2 sentences cannot even come close to the years of anguish involved but it is the bare bones of the most difficult decision I've had to make on something touching my BDSM world.

natasha66 -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 7:05:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rover Walking away from something that does not, cannot, will not work is always difficult, yet necessary. John i agree....and in the end, so worth it.

hopelesslyInvo -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 7:17:05 AM)
hardest: not letting self conscious tendencies still me. easiest: abstinence

SimplyMichael -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 7:28:52 AM)
The hardest thing for me was becoming a decent human being.

LadyJulieAnn -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 8:20:02 AM)
The hardest things for me were accepting myself and my desires, accepting that I developed a serious online chatting addiction during that process, and telling my husband at the time what I really enjoyed. After my divorce, it was just as difficult finding a new love in my life who enjoyed the same things I did. Things seem relatively easy now. [:)] LadyJulieAnn

lilraven -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 8:28:52 AM)
The hardest thing for me was learning to trust after having a bad bdsm experience. I had alot of walls to let down ect...

girlivy -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 8:40:52 AM)
Hrmmmm.. ... which one shall it be.... The hardest thing I feel to have overcome is telling my mother she had lost her son. Not only having told her, but be the one to tell her. It changed my life forever, in more ways to count. The eaisest is maintaining a light-hearted outlook.

badlilthang -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 8:47:21 AM)
Lifewise: give birth to a child in week 28 (IVF pregnancy) - and being told he might not make it...(he is now a 16 year old - 6'4" young man!) Familywise: to lose my only brother suddenly - but knowing we had nothing unsaid..s.. D/S wise: the hardest for me was to finally trust again - and believe in my One, for only to be released without warning and then to find out every word from His mouth was a lie..made me wonder if my brain works at all - or if i am that easy to brainfuck? edited for small stuff...

MaamJay -> RE: In Accordance to Your lifestyle, what was the Hardest thing You had to do? (10/17/2008 8:55:00 AM)
Hardest ... submitting musical control of Our rock duo to Master ... previously I've been the leader of every musical group I've been involved with (and that's a lot over many many years!) However I am now so glad I relinquished the reins! Easiest ... hmmm ... designing the bracelet with which Master was to collar me ... We both just knew how it should look! As a Domme ... hardest is still happening ... finding a compatible sub to join Our Household as My boy or girl! Easiest as a Domme ... falling in love with My 5-days-in-Melbourne-with-the-flu sub ... who later became Master [:D] Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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