softness
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Joined: 8/1/2006 From: Leeds, UK Status: offline
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I have been "soft" or some variation of it online (both vanilla and kinky) for as long as I have been around ... there have been two other names I have been known as - "Metelli" after Clodia Metelli the Roman aristocrat I based my dissertation on at university - I used her name as my Domme persona ... and "Silk&Steel" was an attempt to convey the two distinct sides of my personality (but everyone thought I was part of a couple/ Gorean so it never worked out) People who know me well are aware that there is more than a little irony invested in "soft" as a nic for me. One the one hand I am a big softy, pink is my favourite colour, I suck my thumb, I have a fluffy pencil case for school, I skip and bounce when I am excited and am a big, giggling, snuggly softy. On the other hand I am very .. well .. not soft at all. At work I am on the death squad that gets sent in to break up fights, my best friend in the world refers to me as "the cold hearted bitch who doesn't do emotion", I play rugby, and if teaching ever decides not to work out .. I'm going to see what the Army has to offer. A colleague at work introduced me to a new member of staff and said .. "This is Miss Soft ... She's is in charge of blah blah ... You'll quickly discover she has a split personality" .. I like being a frigid virgin Ice Queen at work ... and attending sex clubs at the weekend ... it's still me in both places, but one bit is getting a rest. I like being both the iron fist and the velvet glove ... and I like that depending on the inflection put in my voice when I am introduced "Soft" fits both sides of me.
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