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Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 3:58:16 AM   
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Has anyone else noticed this?

I'm listening to Dave Matthews right now, and his lyrics are damned near turning me on, despite the fact that I don't swing that way.  I started really listening to him and... seriously... it's some of the most seductive stuff I've heard, it's like he's begging for someone to top him.  Yearning for it.  ('Gravedigger', 'Sister', '42' and 'Crash' were the songs I listened to most recently.)

Like I said, I'm not gay, but I believe enough in this assessment that I'd suggest some male subs maybe memorize some of his lyrics.  If I'm half-wanting him after listening to the wistful yearning in his words, I'd put money down that it's like pcp-laced chocolate to some dominant women. 

I'm curious to see who the most submissive female singer people think is out there, but that's not the point of this... just sharing an idle thought.  Rock on, y'all. 

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 6:00:28 AM   
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All the little ants go marching;
red and black antennae waving;
they all do it the same---
they all do it the same waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!!!!

If he is a sub, he's a damn good one, 'cause he fuckin' gets 'it'.

6

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 6:01:32 AM   
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I've met him once, and certainly got the subbie vibe:  polite, attentive, empathetic, responsive to my touch, intelligent and intense.
I had a pup at the time so I didn't nip Dave's nape and whisper 'Kneel and lick' to test my theory.

Oh, and I put the 'Me' in 'Domme' so the hell with 'dom'.  A homonym ain't no synonym.


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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 6:04:46 AM   
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Straight in, suck up and go,
Cool it, swallow, swallow
Breathe deep, take it all
It comes cheap




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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 6:07:01 AM   
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Oh, and I put the 'Me' in 'Domme' so the hell with 'dom'.  A homonym ain't no synonym.

Ja, I kinda questioned this myself...I am glad I ain't the only one.

I would call myself a dome because it is all about me, but someone might mistake me for half a sphere which could conceivably obfuscate the issue even further.

6 (half of 12)

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 8:14:38 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: NumberSix

I would call myself a dome because it is all about me, but someone might mistake me for half a sphere which could conceivably obfuscate the issue even further.

6 (half of 12)


I thought it was  because you shave your head......

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 8:19:03 AM   
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Oh I watch you there
through the window
And I stare at you
You wear nothing but you
wear it so well
Tied up and twisted,
the way I'd like to be
For you, for me, come crash
Into me


hummmmmmmmmmmmm

Jeff

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 10:03:05 AM   
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Back on topic, Dave Matthews would make a wonderful pet..yum....


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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 10:11:26 AM   
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The sub I want is Trent Reznor!

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 1:55:18 PM   
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"Gravedigger" has lyrics in it that sound like the singer is "begging to be topped?"  "Yearning" for it?  Wow, I really didn't catch that one.  Willie Nelson must be a sub too  I'm all about reading alot into lyrics but I soooo don't see that in this one.......luci

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 10:39:01 PM   
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What about this, from Janet Jackson "Discipline"

I misbehaved, done some things I know I shouldn't do
I touched myself, even though you told me not to
you commanded me to wait for you I tried
But I can smell you on my sheets
Taste you on my skin so vividly
Daddy I disobeyed you
Now I want you to come punish me

Babe I need some discipline tonight
Don't hold back
I've been very bad
Make me cry


Oh... misbehaved
And my punishment should fit my crime
Tie me to something
Take off all my clothes
Daddy I want you to take your time (I'm scared)
My heart is beating fast
Shiver as you grab my neck
Baby, blindfold me Daddy
Is better when I don't know what to expect

Did I upset you Daddy
Take out your frustrations on me
Did I make you mad
Take out your frustrations on me
you be the teacher I'll be the student
Tell me to do it, and I will do it
I'm under your command

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 10:53:29 PM   
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That's pretty damn Hot - imagining Janet saying this.

~xoxo

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/10/2008 11:20:03 PM   
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Not to hijack the thread by any means, but I've heard rumors about Jewel being a submissive for YEARS

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/11/2008 1:00:01 AM   
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Ya know how turning a het women into a lesbian earns a toaster oven? Gay guys get weedwackers. I say he's in it for the lawn tools.

;-)

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/11/2008 3:22:35 AM   
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Jewel I think would make a troublesome sub.  But yeah, I buy that.

Now Amy Winehouse is a slave.  Too bad she's a slave to coke too.

Regarding the dom bit in my sig line, not only does it save me from two letters, but from the damnable dom/domme slashy nonsense.  Sure it's lazy and mildly chauvanistic; if that bugs you then consider its origins.  BDSM does not have a gender-neutral noun that avoids controversy (top vs. dom, anyone?), but it started with one...  The word dominant began its existence genderless. It should go back that way, the extra 'me' is a layer that adds no real value since it's always used in association with the correct pronoun anyway (she's a dom, he's a dom, it's a dome(sic)); if it looks too manly for you, then correct your thinking, not my unwillingness to type pointless letters. 


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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/11/2008 10:19:37 AM   
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~FR

Dave says:

Im going to tie you up like a baby in a carriage car
Your legs wont work cause you want me so
You just lie spread to the wall
The love you got is surely
All the love that I would ever need
Im going to take you by my side
And love you tall, til the world ends

Oh, but dont you worry about a thing
No, cause I got you here with me
Dont you worry about a
Just you and me
Floating through the empty, empty
Just you and me
Oh, graces
Oh, grace

"When the World Ends"

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/11/2008 6:32:48 PM   
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For sure.  I have his song Crush on my femdom song list.

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/11/2008 7:19:23 PM   
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I think the ultimate male-sub song is Michael Buble singing Leonard Cohen's "I'm Your Man". It's fabulous, heart-rending and desperate.
 
If you want a lover
I'll do anything you ask me to
And if you want another kind of love
I'll wear a mask for you
If you want a partner
Take my hand
Or if you want to strike me down in anger
Here I stand
I'm your man

If you want a boxer
I will step into the ring for you
And if you want a doctor
I'll examine every inch of you
If you want a driver
Climb inside
Or if you want to take me for a ride
You know you can
I'm your man

Ah, the moons too bright
The chains too tight
The beast won't go to sleep
I've been running through these promises to you
That I made and I could not keep
Ah but a man never got a woman back
Not by begging on his knees
Or I'd crawl to you baby
And I'd fall at your feet
And I'd howl at your beauty
Like a dog in heat
And I'd claw at your heart
And I'd tear at your sheet
I'd say please, please
I'm your man

And if you've got to sleep
A moment on the road
I will steer for you
And if you want to work the street alone
I'll disappear for you
If you want a father for your child
Or only want to walk with me a while
Across the sand
I'm your man


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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/11/2008 7:22:00 PM   
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That is my FAVE LC song, Hejira!  Though I am having a hard time hearing Michael Buble singing it....   itunes to the rescue!

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RE: Dave Matthews is a sub - 8/11/2008 7:44:03 PM   
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in the dave matthews band storytellers he states that "crush" is about the worship of women, so yeah, I got the vibe too, but he totally does it for me, and I say that as a straight man, not sure what it is, but his voice and everything just plain does it for me

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