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monywildcat -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/1/2008 12:18:25 AM)

The sex-ay, in my opinion anyways, comes from within.  I can feel the hotness even if I am grubby, hungover, with tangly hair and last nite's makeup.  It's in my attitude, which may be shaped by last night's festivities.  [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m11.gif[/image]

As far as externals go, though, nothing makes me feel sexy quite like the right perfume.   I have a collection.  One scent may say to me "we are going out to the bar!  Woohoo!" another may say "We are going to work!"  Yet another says "We are gonna get freaky tonite!"  Oh, and the boots.  I love my boots. 




lalbobbilynn -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/1/2008 12:29:04 AM)

After a bath when my skin is most soft, that is when i feel sexy; or certain perfumes make me feel sexy!
b.~




Dnomyar -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/1/2008 5:39:02 AM)

Ok ladies for my what turns women on information. Translation how can I turn a woman on. Which perfumes make you feel sexy.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/1/2008 7:50:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Ok ladies for my what turns women on information. Translation how can I turn a woman on. Which perfumes make you feel sexy.


Dude, you have to stop typing when you're...distracted. 

I wear Chanel No. 5. 




ChicagoAmy -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/1/2008 7:52:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: lalbobbilynn

After a bath when my skin is most soft, that is when i feel sexy; or certain perfumes make me feel sexy!
b.~


How could I forget a bath? You are completely right, nothing makes me happier or feel sexier than a really good, hot, relaxing bath.

ETA: Perfumes? Narciso Rodriguez for her is very sexy. I also like Magnetism by Escada and Angel by Thierry Mugler.




Kana -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/1/2008 7:59:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: scarlettjinx

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ORIGINAL: Kana

Armani


to me, the sexiest thing a man can wear is an Armani power suit. grrrrr...


I am with you there.
I know there are a lot of leather and chain people out there,
more power to them
maybe its growing up watching James Bond
but its all about black power suits for me.
No knock offs
get them tailored correctly
man its sharp.

I tend to do black suit and black silk t-shirt for public play. Once the whip arm gets warmed up and hot, its time to take the coat off and go.


Zegna ain't so shabby in the Italian suit market either.






wandersalone -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/1/2008 10:02:52 AM)

Yep a man in a well fitted suit can definitely make me go weak at the knees..... oh my!




lalbobbilynn -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/4/2008 3:40:06 PM)

Ohhhhhhhhhh goodness ........ is such an array of smells that tickle my olfactory!!!
i fancy Truth by Calvien Klien; Oscar by Oscar de la Renta; Trouble by Boucheron; Gucci; Diesl for Women; Cashmere Mist by Donna Karan; Boss for Women by Hugo Boss; Sensi by Giorgio Armani; Deep Red by Hugo Boss; Elizabeth Arden 5th Ave. Yup, i think that about covers all my perfumes!!!
What can i say ........ i am a whore to my nose!!
b.~
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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Ok ladies for my what turns women on information. Translation how can I turn a woman on. Which perfumes make you feel sexy.




MsStarlett -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/4/2008 3:47:28 PM)

SHOES!




littlewonder -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/4/2008 5:26:06 PM)

Feeling at the top of my game.

Fixing my hair, makeup and putting on that outfit that when I look in the mirror I think to myself "damn I look good!"

Feeling confident and secure




Sandyshores29718 -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/4/2008 5:28:10 PM)

*fast reply*

Its not really what I wear, but the look in his eyes. *shiver*

Though...he did really love me in my black see though tube top dress with a collar and chains that connected to the dress....So..maybe that if I had to pick a item. [:D]




MidMichCowboy -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/4/2008 6:09:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: justNCmale

If we are talking clothes, them I'm the "boots and jeans" type - I feel I look my best in those, but I have been told a suit or tux wears well on me also. Now if we are talking relations, then it's when she is tied to the bed with a rosey red butt from spanking and moaning from the nipple clamps as I move in ... now that makes me feel sexy!


AMEN




lusciouslips19 -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/4/2008 6:13:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Ok ladies for my what turns women on information. Translation how can I turn a woman on. Which perfumes make you feel sexy.


Extraordinary by aavon. They dont make it any more. I have had to search for it on ebay. Also Terry meuilers Angel. both these have chocolate and vanilla notes.

To turn a guy on its best to smell like baked goods!

makes me feel sexy? Skirts, dresses, stockings and heels. 




subswalow -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/4/2008 9:47:02 PM)

Oh my goodness.

My heels. Nothing makes me feel sexier than my six inch high stiletto heels. =3 Course, that's totally negated if I feel like my belly is sticking out. I can't feel sexy if my belly is rearing it's ugly head.

A friend asked me if I was pregnant today. That did NOT make me feel sexy. =[




christine1 -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/4/2008 10:04:12 PM)

when i sweat and i can smell the shampoo  in my hair. 
when i'm just out of the shower and dripping wet.
when i'm a mess because He made me that way.




djaleksandr -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/5/2008 12:33:19 AM)

Lots of things. I feel my sexiness comes out of myself, but there are things that certainly make me feel decadent which just adds to the sexy factor:

A three piece suit. Double breasted, and fits well.
High heels, a well fitted dress, and knock'em'dead eyeliner.
Wearing an oversized men's button down with nothing under it.
Wearing a blazer, with just a bra under it.
Vintage military uniforms.
Aqua di Gio. On me. Oh yeah.
Being in drag, and seeing the looks on their faces, "Boy? Girl?" and seeing them just as confused when I take the ace bandage off.
Nouvelle Vague's cover of The Clash's "Guns of Brixton".
Drinking wine out of the bottle.





Aneirin -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/5/2008 6:04:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sodsta

What makes you feel sexy?

The reason I ask is because I was having a discussion the other day about fetish clubs, and what people like to wear to make themselves feel more sexy or desirable.

The person I had this discussion with said she likes to wear corsets and stockings to these clubs, not only attract attention, but also because those items make her feel more sexy on a completely personal level that has nothing to do with how others view her.

She then asked me what clothes make me feel sexy, and... I didn't have an answer for her.

The thing is, I don't think I own any clothes that have ever made me feel sexy. I've never put on a certain t-shirt and thought "Damn... that's hot". I've never slipped on a particular pair of jeans and fallen instantly in love with my reflection. Clothes are just clothes to me, really. I mean... I can appreciate the aesthetic value of certain items of clothing... I wouldn't buy clothes I didn't like the look of, after all... but I don't find any of them particularly sexy.

Generally, for me, I think feeling sexy is more about what's going on inside rather than out. It's based on emotional stimuli. It's a feeling I get based on what's going on around me, what I'm doing personally, or what other people are doing with/to me. If I go to a fetish club I will dress up ONLY because they won't let me in if I don't. I hate that. If fetish clubs had no dress-code I'd be perfectly happy showing up in jeans and a t-shirt.

I think this may be a simple case of male vs. female. I know there is a lot more pressure on women to appear sexy than there is on men, so that might very well be it. But I still wanted to ask.

So, as I said... what makes you feel sexy? Is it a certain item of clothing? Interaction? Something completely external, like music or certain images? Or perhaps something more internal and inexplicable?

Thanks for any input. :)



I used to think it was clothing and there one's appearance, but it's not that, although I do dress kind of fetishy in my day to day existence. What makes me feel sexy, is when someone takes an interest in me as a person, preferably the opposite sex, but it has happened, members of my own sex, in which case flattered  comes into the feeling.

When I go out, I dress to my best, but I know the wrapping is not the only attraction, a positive attitude and a smile goes a long way.




badlilthang -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/5/2008 11:01:35 AM)

i feel sexy when:

..Master growls in my ear after He has made me whimper in pain or bliss.
..His eyes light up seeing me.
..a certain part of His body clearly shows me it is ready for some...attention...*wiggles*...
..i am a quivering heap of tears, running makeup and stripes after flogger, cane or hands.
..i am walking into a restaurant - dressed to kill - lady in every inch on the surface - hair perfect - flawless makeup - and underneath..wearing a metal chastitybelt...
...He whispers -slave- quietly.

..oh - and complete strangers winking at me as i walk by does things for my confidance, too..yay..






Sandyshores29718 -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/5/2008 8:14:42 PM)

Just thought of another thing that makes me feel sexy. I'm planning a chair dance for him this weekend. Hes being nice enough to let me  have him wear a blindfold for the first part...hehe He doesnt know its a chair dance, though I'm sure he has a idea. Planning this is making me feel sexy.




Sabella -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (8/6/2008 3:12:31 PM)

Great thread!!!!!

Depends. Often it's just internal, maybe I'll hear a song that gets my hips swaying or will think something naughty or I'm just out & about & feeling ultra "ME" and confident.

Other people make me feel sexy with little looks or comments or smiles.
I feel sexy in my short skirts and heels, when my hair is a curling mess and I just feel hot all over.

But especially, most especially - whenever he looks at me and his eyes go green and I feel desire baking off him in waves - then I am Venus.




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