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Viridana -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 1:28:56 PM)

I feel super sexy in a metal chained leather corsett, a mini skirt and fishnet stockings. Sexy high heels put the final touch. I feel extremely rrrowrrrrr [:D] in it, although I don't need it specifically to feel sexy on a day to day basis. 



kittinSol -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 1:30:43 PM)

Meow. It all depends on the styling of the gear too. Some people look ultra sexy in just a Petit Bateau pair of knickers [8D] .



BossyShoeBitch -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 1:46:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Coupleofwhats

Shoes!
I really like peeptoe heels/wedges: something about being able to see my first two toes and their shiny black polish...

I also feel sexy in dresses, so once it's warm enough, they're all I wear.

Latex is also great. (In air conditioning.)

I think that men SHOULD search for what makes them look and feel sexy: ladies like a bit of eyecandy just as much as you do.

Coupleofwhats,   fairly certain I'm not alone in saying that you DEFINE sexy!   I looked at your pics and you are simply gorgeous!



CalifChick -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 1:52:27 PM)

What makes me feel sexy?  Walking into a grocery store with Tulip and LadyH and having a guy so taken with the vision of us that he walked off without the groceries he just paid for.  Was it the skirts we were all wearing?  I don't think so.

Cali



softness -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 1:59:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sodsta

So, as I said... what makes you feel sexy? Is it a certain item of clothing? Interaction? Something completely external, like music or certain images? Or perhaps something more internal and inexplicable?

Thanks for any input. :)



I have a really unbalanced relationship with my own body image ... when the image in my head is confronted with the reality of amirror .. often the difference is so brutal that it shatters my confidence ... as suchI have learned not to attach sexiness to the things I wear.

Sexiness is obviously created by certin touches and gestures that you have with your partners ... but that varies person to person .. pretty uniform things are being grabbed by the throat/hair/cunt ... and thrown against something.

There is one non-sexual stimuli that pretty much always yields a sexual response from me - dance music ... with a heavy, fast bass line (something close to a racing heart beat is best)  Hard House music (the type that really makes your ears bleed) is best. When I hear music like that if I am walking .. I instantly start to strut, and jiggle my breasts, and swing my ass ... If I am seated .. I start to grind into my chair.

returns to creating *another* dance music play list ... for those long winter evenings along without DV 



Prinsexx -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 2:04:50 PM)

Pain clamps on nipples and whispers for kitten,
bright copper bruises and hot mouth when bitten,
brown canvas body bag tied up with string,
these are a few of my favorite things.

Cream colored ponies and crisp smacks for poodle,
porn sites and dark nights and spitting on nipples.
Wild whips that fly with a sting on their wings.
these are a few of my favorite things.

Me in my uniform with blue satin knickers,
ice cubes that melt on my pubes and eyelashes,
and black candles that melt in my thrashes…..
these are a few of my favorite things.

When the Wolf bites, when the pee stings,
when I'm feeling sad,
I simply remember my favorite things,
and then I don't feel so bad.

repeat…as many times as you can bear it……



PrincessofFire -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 2:13:54 PM)

I feel sexy when I'm the center of attention...clothes or not... though a nice pair of heels can do the trick too :P



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 2:19:52 PM)

Well if you had asked my Master last night what made Him feel sexy, it would have been this god-awful Hawaiian shirt in colors that rival the Green Bay Packers uniforms (not exaggerating here people!).... and He wore it out to dinner/coffee with our local BDSM club friends who thought it was great. [>:]

But I'm not sayin' nuthin' else about that damned shirt because I ended up having to wear it while we had sex [8|] and was threatened with a more public punishment that involved said shirt. [:'(]


*I think we need a new thread on the trials and tribulations of being a slave to a fashion sadist*



CrazyC -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 2:30:39 PM)

LMAO, Angel, that is great. Why is the damn ugliest thing makes them feel sexxy. I dated one guy once who thought his flannel jacket made him look hot. When i see him around in the fall he is still wearing it, I feel so bad for his wife. lol

I really don't think it matters what it is exactly but the intent of why I am wearing it. I can look damn hot in just a pair for jeans, or look plain jane.



justNCmale -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 2:37:57 PM)

If we are talking clothes, them I'm the "boots and jeans" type - I feel I look my best in those, but I have been told a suit or tux wears well on me also. Now if we are talking relations, then it's when she is tied to the bed with a rosey red butt from spanking and moaning from the nipple clamps as I move in ... now that makes me feel sexy!



bipolarber -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 2:44:16 PM)

Noticing, when I'm out at a club, or an event, that someone is watching me... if not outright cruising me. Could be male or female... doesn't really matter. Just know that I fit someone's requirements, and they're pleased enough to to be looking me over, and thinking about it.... yeah, THAT does it for me.



SimplyMichael -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 2:46:24 PM)

I always feel sexy in a well fitted suit, I feel sexy when I am at a bdsm or fetish event where everyone is wearing black and I am wearing something erotic but in some other color scheme.  I have a pair of really really hot leather pants that lace up the side but I haven't fit them in almost 10 years.  With all the yoga I am doing, there won't be a pair of dry panties in any room I strut into by my birthday next month. 

But bottom line, attitude has as much to do with what makes you feel sexy as anything else.





BossyShoeBitch -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 2:53:38 PM)

Being able to stop him dead in his tracks...



BKSir -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 3:09:09 PM)

I have this lovely black atheletic supporter that drives my pet insane when he sees me in it, to the point of kneeling and staring up at me, making these adorable whimpering noises as I refuse to let him touch me.

One of the things that makes me feel the most sexy, is when one of my partners or pet comes up behind me and holds me for no reason but that they can, and suddenly I feel something... else... against me after a couple minutes.  It's the litt... well, can't really say that...  Let's go with 'spontaneous' things.



Coupleofwhats -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 3:41:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: Coupleofwhats

Shoes!
I really like peeptoe heels/wedges: something about being able to see my first two toes and their shiny black polish...

I also feel sexy in dresses, so once it's warm enough, they're all I wear.

Latex is also great. (In air conditioning.)

I think that men SHOULD search for what makes them look and feel sexy: ladies like a bit of eyecandy just as much as you do.

Coupleofwhats, fairly certain I'm not alone in saying that you DEFINE sexy! I looked at your pics and you are simply gorgeous!


Look who's talking! Love the shot of you in the latex.



IvyMorgan -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 4:02:46 PM)

Sexy... hum.

I'm going to agree with LadyPact, power and being empowered makes me feel sexy.  I feel sexy when I'm fully in control of a situation.

Clothes/outfits don't do it, cos, well, I pretty much always look scruffy and I've had 23 years of constant drip fed "you're ugly" messages to the point where partners will say I'm "pretty/beautiful/similar adjective" and I laugh/say no/doubt.  I suck at taking compliments.

I don't feel sexy that often, but then, I don't really want to.  There's too much "little girl" in me.



thetammyjo -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 5:01:27 PM)

Clothes never make me feel sexy but they can make me uncomfortable which is a definite turn-off.

Accomplishments make me feel sexy and submission from some one I'm attracted to can certainly make me feel sexy.



MaamJay -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/30/2008 8:14:02 PM)

Generally I don't rely on external things to feel sexy ... but I do have to confess that thigh high lace top stay up stockings always helps! Just the feel of them makes Me walk that little taller ... hehe I'm wearing them now along with My satin PJs LOL!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]



sillyslaveboy -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/31/2008 1:01:54 AM)

For me, Females are manifestation of ultimate beauty and also everything that's connected with their clothing. The more i look like a Female, whatever be the illusion well, the sexier i feel. And the only way to do this from my place are clothes. If i am wearing at least one piece of Female clothing, i have reason to feel sexy. :) The tighter and more colorful (or childish) these clothes are, the sexier i feel in them. i also love clothes that leave bloody tracks on my body or provide discomfort in any other way, for it is my punishment for not being a Female. i feel sexy while enduring it.

The second thing that makes me feel sexy is being objectified. This feeling of being sexy manifests in hard contractions of all muscles, which only makes me better furniture.



RCdc -> RE: What makes you feel sexy? (7/31/2008 2:07:04 AM)

Nothing can make me feel sexy.
Apart from myself.  I am sex.
Personified.
 
Yep, it sounds conceited.  But you can wear, play, do any thing/activity - and that can manifest itself at sex.  But unless you feel sexy yourself and find the truth in that, then no 'what' can do that.  It's all in the mind and totally subjective.
 
the.dark.



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