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RE: Proper Manners - 7/28/2008 12:07:18 PM

RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: sailorfrank
Now as far as the Class thing that popped in here. Yes we are in different classes and all of our own choosing so lets be honest about it okay?

My honest assessment is that you're not going to get very far with the ladies if you take this approach. The guy who posted above you that "you don't treat a slave like a lady" has, in previous threads, been honest with the fact that he's not having good results setting up meetings with women. Meanwhile, there's a "Meeting CollarMe Regulars" thread going on right now, where people are talking of how they've met upwards of 30 CM folks. You would have to perv the profiles of the posters there to discover what their D/s orientation is, because there's no way to tell from how they are bantering with one another.

It really boils down to deciding which is more important: ego-validation, or material results.

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/28/2008 12:18:44 PM

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My mind is like a sewer and my mouth is like a Holy shrine. I don't know what class that puts me in.

A holy sewer?

I've 'talked to God down the porcelain telephone'...but I'm guessing that's not the same as a holy sewer...

ask any toilet slave about baptism

I'm spewing my dinner through my nose right now.

Thanks for the laugh, it made my day

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/28/2008 8:11:25 PM

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Redmagic1 Think you have a valid point and thanks for that. Going to observe more again and try to figure out a way to post without upsetting anyone?

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/28/2008 10:20:45 PM

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On the other hand, a slave is not a lady, and you don't treat her that way.

That's funny...

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/29/2008 12:57:11 PM

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Basically none-You can thank the NET for that and the influx of swingers who like rough sex...but hey then what do I know!? The days of respect of titles and positions having deep specific meaning are mostly gone or diluted to just another pick-up line.

HEHE Enjoy your wonder-filled day

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/29/2008 5:22:54 PM

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Stella, that was absolutely hilarious.

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/29/2008 5:35:57 PM

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Welcome to the boards

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/29/2008 9:05:02 PM

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Ah yes, manners. The old dom and sub routine. Gotcha.
[et all]

[and a: Wurzel Gummidge]

Thank you, I am not sure if you or I enjoyed that more.

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/29/2008 9:10:35 PM

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Redmagic1 Think you have a valid point and thanks for that. Going to observe more again and try to figure out a way to post without upsetting anyone?

Dear Frank,
Despite Red’s wonderful advice, I hope you don’t go and get all politically correct on us now. I didn’t mind your introduction and I enjoyed Stella’s waxing nostalgic and her amazing suppositions. If you hadn’t posted she would’ve had no fuel for her fire.

Welcome to the board’s … give them hell!

Best Wishes,
Kalon Eric

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/30/2008 2:19:24 AM

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I have to say I am generally surprised by the excellent manners on this board, unlike others I have been a part of people do seem to have respect for the thoughts of others... There is, however, the odd wanker that everyone just ignores (or makes fun of behind their 'board' back...)

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/30/2008 8:59:44 AM

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Yes thank you ResidentSadist. Dont like the PC crap myself. Think people should be honest with their thoughts and not hide them. Except of course when she asks....Honey do these pants make my ass look fat? "No Dear of course not!" Honest answer is not a good one there!

ViolentAshes like your point as well. This seems to be a close knit place and I am impressed how everyone gets along here both good or bad. Lets face it someone or something will get us upset, but it is most important how we handle it?

Myself I use a firm hand,paddle or flogger.

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/30/2008 9:07:16 AM

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welcome sailorfrank,

it is nice that you have taken on the advice here with a smile and some introspection....

i would say just be yourself, and don't insist on any formalities or worse, protocols, until you have consent and a meeting of the the minds.

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/30/2008 9:34:31 AM

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Thanks so much. even tho I am a Man I can listen at times. Love this place and have found someone special here already which was a nice surprise. But we are still meeting and learning each other first.

Have a nice day and better week!

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RE: Proper Manners - 7/30/2008 1:54:36 PM

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I didn't think his opening post was rude at all. I thought it was thoughtful and considerate of him to come in and ask ahead of time, to avoid offending anyone. He even tried to be humorous and playful about it. But it seems that there are those here who will take offense where none is intended and flame him for it. Does sound very fair and in my opinion, a number of you were quite rude to him.

Welcome to the forum, Frank, and to answer your question, common courtesy is always expected...until privately negotiated otherwise. LOL!

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