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Daddyyouwantme -> Making of a Master (7/5/2008 11:30:22 PM)

It  doesn't come with education, having a house, or  having alot of money. It comes from with in and it is what you do with that part within  you that makes you a great Master.



mbes -> RE: Making of a Master (7/5/2008 11:40:21 PM)

Is there a question?
I do think being "settled" (or on the way to settled) has a little to do with it, though.



chickpea -> RE: Making of a Master (7/5/2008 11:58:10 PM)

My opinion is that Men with natural Dom tendencies make the best Masters.  Also, caring enough about the slave's well-being doesn't hurt in providing a very long-term, fulfilling kinky relationship.

- Needing to be in control, and getting excited by being in control, having others trust them. 
- Being able to meet the needs of the slave.
- Being able to establish trust and respect from the slave from both actions and words.
- Being able to deal with the emotional downside of giving the sub all the attention during play (and the poor Master getting none).
- Being self-sustaining.
- Able to control one's emotions in almost any situation.
- Being perceptive and aware of everything in your surroundings.
- Able to center yourself amongst your immediate environment, get the gist of it all, and push for what you want.
- Having principles/values that the slave agrees with, and sticking to them through thick and thin.
- Being able to find balance and guide a relationship to fulfill both the slave's needs and the Master's. 



daddysliloneds -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 12:02:10 AM)

oh really?  is that why the grandfolks sent cards to 'master <insert young-uns name here'> until  he reached the ripe old age of five?  damn, who da thunk[sm=banghead.gif]



CalifChick -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 12:08:46 AM)

Was there a question lurking in there somewhere, or were you just enlightening us, or ???

Cali



Archer -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 2:22:28 AM)

I forget who to quote but I have always really loved the quote " Master's are niether born nor made they are awakened."



RavenMuse -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 3:17:43 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Archer

I forget who to quote but I have always really loved the quote " Master's are niether born nor made they are awakened."



I like that one too and it is quite in line with My Own thoughts on the matter. You can't be taught how to be a Master, if it is there then you can learn ways to express it better, if it is not there to start with then the person will never be more than a Top.



TysGalilah -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 4:36:41 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Archer

I forget who to quote but I have always really loved the quote " Master's are niether born nor made they are awakened."



awakened.... ohh, thats good : )



Amaros -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 4:42:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddyyouwantme

It  doesn't come with education, having a house, or  having alot of money. It comes from with in and it is what you do with that part within  you that makes you a great Master.
I'm PM'ing you my phone number, lol.



Roselaure -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 5:00:35 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Archer

I forget who to quote but I have always really loved the quote " Master's are niether born nor made they are awakened."


I use that word in describing my own journey as a submissive.  Awakening that part of me that I was never more than slightly aware of before.  It's interesting that the sensation is similar on the "other side of the whip."



Prinsexx -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 7:19:09 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddyyouwantme

It  doesn't come with education, having a house, or  having alot of money. It comes from with in and it is what you do with that part within  you that makes you a great Master.

Dear Daddyyouwantime..........
a great slave is the making of a great master?
that is a qustion..........
me just being contentious as usual.
Prin xx




GreedyTop -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 7:23:26 AM)

I thought the making of the master had something to do with mixing bowls, measuring cups, and an oven....

*sigh*

silly me....


Seriously though... OP, thanks for expressing your opinion.  Was there a question, though?



Prinsexx -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 7:40:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I thought the making of the master had something to do with mixing bowls, measuring cups, and an oven....

*sigh*

silly me....



and and an egg...........[sm=applause.gif]
and congratulations on your insanity xxx



GreedyTop -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 7:42:48 AM)

Thank you!! It's nice to see that my status is recognized (after all, I've been insane for YEARS!)

*smooches the lovely Prin*



variation30 -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 9:52:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddyyouwantme

It  doesn't come with education, having a house, or  having alot of money. It comes from with in and it is what you do with that part within  you that makes you a great Master.


actually, it comes with having the word master or dom in your collar me name.



dawntreader -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 10:00:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: variation30


actually, it comes with having the word master or dom in your collar me name.



Or local scene name [:D]!



hejira92 -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 10:09:44 AM)

So, if I change my name to MasterHejiratheGreat, I qualify? And will anyone believe me? [:)]



GreedyTop -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 10:10:01 AM)

lol Dawn (you gorgeous woman!! love the pic :)  )



RedMagic1 -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 10:16:13 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: hejira92

So, if I change my name to MasterHejiratheGreat, I qualify? And will anyone believe me? [:)]

Of course.  Just change one word in your sig line -- "Property" to "Owner."

-- MasterNeverCausesAnyTroubleDom



hejira92 -> RE: Making of a Master (7/6/2008 10:28:54 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: hejira92

So, if I change my name to MasterHejiratheGreat, I qualify? And will anyone believe me? [:)]

Of course.  Just change one word in your sig line -- "Property" to "Owner."

-- MasterNeverCausesAnyTroubleDom



Ummm, I'll have to ask first....
 
(Damn! I just blew my cover!)



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