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Freedom - 3/12/2008 4:03:08 PM   
Prinsexx


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Status: offline 		There is a point at which slavery is noble. And yet there is a point at which to enslave oneself unto lies becomes self-destructive.There is a point where to be used as bait is a divine service meant to please a master, yet to be pimped out is foolish.There is a point at which, during the realisation that there is no power exchange, when indeed it is the slave that is teaching their master what mastery means: that is the point at which freedom becomes paramount and the need to break the shackles is all that matters.Others love me and are not afraid to say so and i could not belong to a master who was ashamed of that which he collared.
I am facing freedom.
Is there anyone else who knows how this feels?
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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 5:05:26 PM   
ThinkingKitten


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Status: offline 		Alas no. But freedom rocks! Or should I say free-of-dom rocks!?

(glad to see you hadn't canned your old profile)

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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 5:32:26 PM   
candisa


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Status: offline 		greetings Prinsexx,

Recently, I came to  that realization too, like you my  freedom was paramount,
my only answer. Being on your own again might be a struggle at first, but it is much more rewarding at the end of the day, then to be with someone who is ashamed of you, I take that as meaning he doesn't respect you. 
Don't let someone trample your soul, the price is to high.


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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 5:37:17 PM   
Aneirin


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Status: offline 		I agree with that, do not let anyone trample you, yourself, your soul that is you, it is not nice.

Been there, it is a long time coming back. Here, this forum helped me.


< Message edited by Aneirin -- 3/12/2008 5:38:16 PM >

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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 5:39:55 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Prinnie!!

Good to see you back!  :)  What is in LA's sig, that Who song, about freedom tasting of reality?

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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 5:44:57 PM   
givemyall


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Status: offline 		I think the answer to that is George Michael........ but anyway, glad you have seen sense, you were always far too good!
Beer and ditches are another answer, you up for it Prinsexx?

edited to add that George Michael is obviously nothing to do with the Who - my music knowledge is bad but not quite that bad

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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 6:16:05 PM   
junecleaver


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Status: offline 		A few thoughts:

Being his property is something that makes me happy, not noble.

If he doesn't love you, would you want him to tell you he does?  Where's the point in pouting because you cannot make someone reciprocate your feelings?

If you have put work into this relationship and it's not fulfilling you, then perhaps 'freedom' is the better choice.


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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 6:27:24 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Being property isnt noble, but sacrificing your happiness to be property isnt nobel either. Any relationship that is completely one sided, regardless of which side is the one with all the airtime, is going to eventually fall apart.
Collaring someone you are ashamed to claim makes no sense to me. I am proud of both my boys, I cant imagine not wanting to show off property.
Being free is better than being stuck with the wrong one. If the Dominant you are with does not inspire you to be a better submissive for them, and for yourself, then you are with the wrong person.

My 2 cents
DV


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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 6:37:02 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		You are on a high of empowerment feelings..watch out for the low dis-empowerment feelings..they tend to bite you in the booty when least expected...Tempting

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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 6:40:01 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I dunno Prinsexx, how many times have you felt that freedom in the past six months, only to turn around and return to slavery, with each turn of the coin talking about how "this" is where it's at and where you need to be?

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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 6:40:44 PM   
angelic


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Status: offline 		~fr~ ~Disclaimer~ have not read any replies and probably a repeat.

Some people find freedom in their slavery.

(now going back to read). 

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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 6:43:42 PM   
charmdpetKeira


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Status: offline 		Freedom implies a lack of responsibility, I seek liberty.
 
k

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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 6:52:27 PM   
sabirah


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Status: offline 		synonyms FREEDOM , LIBERTY , LICENSE mean the power or condition of acting without compulsion. FREEDOM has a broad range of application from total absence of restraint to merely a sense of not being unduly hampered or frustrated <freedom of the press>. LIBERTY suggests release from former restraint or compulsion <the released prisoner had difficulty adjusting to his new liberty>. LICENSE implies freedom specially granted or conceded and may connote an abuse of freedom <freedom without responsibility may degenerate into license>.



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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 6:58:19 PM   
Maya2001


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Status: offline 		Some  people need to wade in too deep to realize they cannot swim... I did some wading myself to find out where my boundaries and needs are at and came to the realization that I could not be the slave that he wanted ... there is no shame in that ... for someone else will find slave to him as freedom but to me as you put it shackles.... and yes if they see you struggling and not able to fit the role they desire ...they would not be happy with you just as you are unhappy and feeling they are too demanding of you.   ... It all boils down to compatability  and therefore neither of you fit each others needs,  I had to go thru my own internal struggles to understand and in the end when I did .... I did get his praise...... finally  and his encouragment to go forward but to remain  true to myself and not to try to be something I am not.



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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 7:07:10 PM   
charmdpetKeira


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Status: offline 		Freedom is what I achieve by deferring decision to my owner; a freedom to do things my experience and perception may prevent me from embarking on.
 
Obtaining liberty would be the point where it would become all about raw desire for me. In a responsible manner, of course.
 
Just my perception, it is all I can offer.
 
My best,
 
k

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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 7:38:45 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		I value freedom to much to become a slave to a slave.

Think about what that means.

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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 7:40:59 PM   
obagaar


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Status: offline 		If you're submitting to a Dom or Master and it makes you feel like a martyr, find someone else. Its an obvious sign you're with the wrong one. I submit to Daddy out of love, it makes me feel whole.

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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 7:44:10 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		*hugs* Prin

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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 8:17:41 PM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		i'm gonna give you some advice that has been given to me many times and i truly hope you take it to heart prinny....

PUT DOWN THE BAT....

you hurt enough...let yourself heal...and don't go jumping into another relationship, and even if he comes back, it ended, it's over, don't revisit this pain...ex's are ex's for a reason...and perhaps with healing and growth from both sides it may work, but more often than not, it will not work...sooooo...like i have said over and over, get ok with being good with just you...talk to yourself like you're talking to a client or a friend or anyone else...if you don't like what you're getting because of what you're doing...STOP IT...and change something...

*hugs*
chelle


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RE: Freedom - 3/12/2008 8:19:22 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		The one common factor in all of your dysfunctional relationships is YOU.

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